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novatop4female

I'm a top & bottom in SM .. dominant in D/s (but not totally so) .. I'm interested in a bottom female who prefers equality of roles in D/s (well, mostly anyway) and also in vanilla life. It's okay if you're submissive, attitude is what matters. And, no, I won't make your decisions, run your life, etc. You have a full say in what we do, and when and how we do it, both in the bdsm and the vanilla context. We may be coming at such a relationship from opposite ends of the bdsm spectrum which is fine so long as we find convergence.

I've been on the periphery of bdsm for a few years, but I'm not a power player. I genuinely enjoy topping, but love to take MY turn in the barrel as well to see first hand what it feels like. I'm looking for a woman in the Northern Virginia area who would want to grow a relationship based on mutual respect and a desire for experimentation, interested in working with me to refine my (our) technique. Public and private play are okay. Know that we may or may not end up having an LTR, and please don't expect me to be the ONE. I'm looking for light, casual, fun, NSA for now.

For the record, I'm 56, 5'7", 160pds, blond with some gray, athletic, muscular, live and work in Reston, uncut, thick-average, D/D free (recently tested), neat and clean appearance, professional.