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About noan4
So about me... what about me...
The boring stuff first: I've been a part of the Denver BDSM community on and off since 2003. I'm a bit all over the place with my desires, experiences and dreams. I'm a switch, submissive, sadistic at times, a sissy at times, sarcastic sometimes and solidly stuck in stupid alliteration! No, wait... that last one... never mind.
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"Gee noan, what do you mean by that... oh, and how the hell do you pronounce 'noan' anyway?"
Well kids, pull up a chair and get some coffee. I tend to ramble... like... a lot!
I'm poly... which is a convenient term for saying I'm not exclusive in my relationships. Yeah, I know... poly is a euphemism for "selfish, non-committing asshole." I'm sure the right person could come alone and whisk me off my feet and change my outlook on relationships. But, as it stands, I perfer having more than one partner. I also enjoy having lots of friends who, for reasons that sometimes elude me, seem to find me entertaining. All those years at clown school have finally paid... oh, wait... never been to clown school. Served in the Army years ago, but I don't think that's quite the same. They had different uniforms and a better health-plan.
I'm switchy in my passions. Sometimes I like the idea of being ripped to shreds by claws. Sometimes I like the idea of putting a girl up against the wall and hearing what kind of noises I can get her to make (torn as to which I like more: screaming, moaning, laughing or snoring). My urges run the gambit, but I'll say one thing consistent about them: I am a bit of an experience-nut and will give just about anything a go once (with the usual disclaimer on scat, children and animals).
Mostly I fall on the submissive side of the scale, but I have my dominant side as well. I like surrender, both receiving and giving. Depending on my mood and the situation, I enjoy service, protocol and more formal aspects of D/s. Other times, I just want beaten, abused and taken out of my head. I like the idea of being hypnotized, feminized, seduced, and being forced to do things that are just plain odd. Ask me about being dressed like a Roman and being forced to tap-dance... I've never done that, but ask me anyway!
When my toppy side decides to rear its head I can be anything from a complete sadist, reveling in the pain I inflict, to being a composed and considerate Dominant, gently possessing my charge. I can take pleasure that comes from putting a girl in bondage, cutting her apart with knives or just plain beating her ass with my hand. I can also enjoy watching a submissive perform elegantly as she serves me tea.
As for play... sometimes it's sexual, sometimes it isn't. Sometimes I get moved to the point of turning into an animal, sometimes to the point of sarcasm, sometimes to catharsis. No two partners have ever got the same response from me.
Sexually, I fall solidly into the "heteroflexable" category... which is only just slightly more stable than bi-curious (I am not curious. Being 'curious' lacks certainty. I KNOW I'm a complete pig, thankyouverymuch!). I am in love with the feminine, to the extent that I want to do everything imaginable with it: worship it, subjugate it, watch it dance, feel it seduce, taste it in innocence and in experience. I even want to have it overwhelm me to the point when I fear I might lose myself.
I can admit that I love the idea of cock... I'm just not all that into what it's attached to most of the time. A pretty, feminine cross-dresser or pre-op transsexual can get my attention more often than not.
I am active in the local BDSM community. I’ve been on the board of SKALES (which stands for Safe Kink Adult Lifestyle Education and Support) for a few years and go out to the Rack Room every now and again. And when I don’t piss them off, I have friends that have enjoyed my buffoonery for entirely longer than is healthy.
As for how you pronounce “noan,” there is no wrong way. I’ve heard it pronounced like “low can,” “goin’,” “no win,” and “moan.” So long as you remember, there is no “L” in there… I’m not Nolan, you’ll be fine. Although the worst I’ve heard it mispronounced was someone who insisted on calling me “Norman…” which sounds too much like “normal” to me.
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Anyway, if you write me, try to friend me or otherwise harass me, I reserve the right to laugh, make fun of you and ridicule you until you give me a reason not to. I choose my friends very carefully these days… there are fewer witnesses that way. But if you notice a party being posted by me on the OTHER kink website that rhymes with Pet-knife, feel free to stop in and chat me up... I can always use an alibi.
Thanks for reading all that,
~n
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People to be wary of: Anyone who comes into the scene and wants to try "everything." I'm not certain why it is, but regardless of gender, age, sexual orientation or personal definition, people who come in with no limits tend to just vanish quickly. Even more odd, the more enthusiastic they are about it, the more likely they will never be seen again. These fly-by-nights tend to not be around long enough to get an emotional attachment to, but damn they can be annoying. |
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