• I'm a voyeur. And I don't mean having someone perform for me on
  their cam. I like to watch people in their own environments doing
  things they do when people aren't watching. Not necessarily sexual,
  although watching that is fun too, that is something completely
  intoxicating about people and how "real" they seem when they're alone.
  If you see me in a club or at a party and I'm sitting back watching,
  I'm not being a loner. Most likely I'm enjoying watching. Talk with me
  if you like, but don't be surprised if you have to break my
  concentration a bit :P
• I enjoy a bit of what I think would be classified as
  psychological submission. I like my boundaries being pushed in a
  controlled environment. I like being told what to do, and how and
  when.. I like my decisions to be made for me. I enjoy someone knowing
  things that i want to try but am hesitant and forcing me. It takes the
  right kind of partner to do this, but when people can make me do things
  that are out of the ordinary for my personality, it's such a rush!
• I like pain. Whether it's a good firm smack on the ass, being
  bitten, or nicely stretched out ;) Canes, single-tails, knives.. mmm
  yummy.
• I love love love physical domination. Being pounded rough and
  hard, held down.. I'd love to be tied up someday or tied down rather :)
  The feeling of someone strong and physically imposing enough to know I
  couldn't get out even if I wanted to :P
• The biggest factor for me is energy. That's one of those things
  you either have or you don't. I might play with you once, but if
  there's not the right energy it's not going to happen a second time.
  And even if there are second and third scenes arranged.. that doesn't
  mean the energy is right for anything more than play. If I am
  interested in something more, it will be made clear to you.. otherwise-
  it is what it is and leave it at that.

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