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Pan Male Switch, 44,  Oklahoma
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My interests include leather, mild bondage, corporal punishment scenes with both men and women. I respect limits and am very open minded. I admire trannies, both subs and dommes, but particularly the ones who enjoy dressing in leather or like the 50s household scenes. I will get a picture up soon. I respect privacy and hope you do too. I also have an interest in re-living my first gay experience while in college with an older man. So, as you can see I'm very versatile. The bottom line is that I'm sincere, nice and am open to explore possibilities - just name it :)











 Male Switch


 6' 0"

 200 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Dominant Transgender

Submissive Transgender

Dominant Female

Dominant Male

Submissive Male

Switch Women


 Antique Shows



 Canes and Crops









 Obedience Training

 Role Playing




 1950s Lifestyle

 Female Supremacy



 Art Galleries



 Anal Play

 Corner Time


 Foot Worship

 Pantyhose Fetish

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Rubber Fetish



 Amusement Parks

 Curious About:

 Bar Hopping

 Fine Dining


 Electrical Play


 Local BDSM Community


 Genital Punishment

 Fire Play


 Knife Play

 Outdoor Bondage

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Journal Entries:
5/6/2013 5:24:20 AM

Well I haven't been on Collarme that often in recent past.  But I think I may try again. I probably shouldn't be as picky as I have been with myself, and open up my mind to newer things and not dwell on getting things 'exactly right'. 

12/11/2012 2:30:05 PM

He shuddered as he knelt on the floor, stripped naked..........from behind him he felt the presence of someone, then the feel of cool leather and the collar was wrapped around his neck, pulled snugly then buckled..............he felt the tug of the leather was beginning.

12/9/2012 2:48:34 PM

My early feelings of sexuality came in the early '80s during puberty, of course, with a love of girls, however a greater fixation with women's knee high leather boots- zip up shafts, tall heels, black or brown usually.  This grew into a love for leather in general- leather skirts, dress gloves, etc. The site of a woman in leather made me weak.

As I grew, my interest began to include corporal punishment scenes of being spanked or whipped with a belt by a stern mature woman. 

Later I began to entertain thoughts of men, either in a submissive status with an older male mentor, or a dominant status, with a younger submissive boi who wanted to learn and be corrected too.

So be it dominated by a mature woman, tranny or maybe gentle gay bear, or dominating a woman who needs to dress like a sl*ut, or even a tranny who dresses that way......I'm pretty versatile.

I also have a 'thing' for leather collars. I don't own one, but even the feeling of a leather  belt snugly around my neck gets me going. I like the feeling of being controlled, and in many respects, that's what my previous descriptions have entailed.


I had a short nice conversation yesterday with a guy with somewhat similar interests........likes leather, being hooded, controlled..............things like that. We may not be a perfect match but I'm happy that he's working on finding that right person.


I try to keep things in perspective, hoping there is someone that is compatible with me...........I'll be patient.



to be continued.

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