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Since my masochist has moved and will be available on a limited basis, Id like to find another guy to add to my little group. If I mention sex in interactions with service oriented men, they have no interest (at all or unless its me doing stuff to them). So I suppose the new one need not be super submissive. I dont want to be dominated but good, engaged sex with a partner (just me, not my guys) is on the priority list.
In my opinion, the best thing you can do is find a person who loves you for exactly what you are. Good mood, bad mood, ugly, pretty, handsome, what have you, the right person will still think the sun shines out your ass. Thats the kind of person thats worth sticking with. --Mac MacGuff, Juno
I never learned anything while I was talking. --Larry King
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I've had a few questions about what a bootblack does or what bootblacking is. This link gives a decent definition. I see it as a way for the sub/slave to care for the dominant, himself and if desired, part of the community. http://www.submissiveguide.com/2013/02/what-is-boot-blacking/ |
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I've recently ended one relationship. Still happy with my masochist and my foot service boy. Seeking a sub/slave interested in sex and service. Humiliation is a plus. Also curious about a bootblack for occasional service. |
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Pondering adding service/humiliation sub for barefoot service. This would include basic foot worship, massage skills a must, tease and denial (no cum on my feet) and general foot pampering. Possible polish change. I don't wear hose or heels, and my feet are generally clean since I go barefoot indoors only.
As of 6/2 i have selected a couple of men to try out in foot service. Thank you to those who showed interest. |
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The older I get, the more I want to do what I want. I had a date recently with an interesting man who is monogamous. I made it clear that I am not. I love my relationship with emc. And with my other boy. And I love teasing the young slutboy in LA over the phone. And talking with exes and boys I used to play with and potential new play partners. I know it's hard to find men for a serious relationship who are okay with this. Still, it's just who I am. That freedom makes me happy. |
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One of my friends has been approached by multiple men asking if she knows me and what she will tell them about me. She's asked me to remove her from my CM friends list so that she does not continue to get these inquiries. In response, I've removed her and anyone I have not communicated with or who has not been on the site for a long period. |
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A Saturday filled with Fish hooks, spanking, nipple torture, cbt, and caning sure makes me feel better! |
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My device does not support chat requests. |
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He walked up to her and laid down. He looked up adoringly. She reached over and licked his cheek. She reached further and bit his neck. And again, harder. And again. He flinched, but stayed put. Then he looked a little alarmed and stared at her. She clamped her hand on his head securely and bit him again.
Cats. But it could have been a great story, right?! |
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A snippet of feedback from the other night. Love it! "...your excitement about spit encouraged me to push myself...I found it all very rewarding...Thank you for sharing of yourself!" |
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Lots of fun with good friends last night. Lots of toppy participants. Happy faces and smiles all around at the end. Snuggles with my devilish co-top and our freshly showered bottom. Stay tuned for next week's plan! |
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If you admire my pics, I'm glad you do. However, they are MINE and I would appreciate your not stealing them and posting them on your own profile. You know who you are.
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I was asked what quality makes the best slave...
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can pick only one trait, it is reliability. If I know I can count on
him to do as he says he will or to reliably carry out any task or
responsibility, then that goes a long way to making me happy and to
seriously consider him worth my time and effort. |
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I was out shopping at a department store . I was looking for a purse and happened across a couple
who were shopping. She wore boots to her knees and a bright red coat.
He was rather frumpily dressed in comparison. He called her a purse
connoisseur. She spoke with an accent and didn't know what that meant.
He explained and she waved him off as she walked ahead of him. Every
few steps, he would have her pose and then take a picture. She never
picked anything out but was happy to pose for his camera. They were clearly
having fun.
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I understand the need to see if there are some common interests in kink, but those who send messages that do not discuss kink in a blatant manner often get better responses. Dominant women are still women...show me that you want to get to know me and vice versa.
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Okay, so you've gotten through the big, bad domme profile. Now you're either scared, intimidated, turned on or turned off and you still essentially don't really know anything about the real woman behind it.
So, here are some everyday things that interest me or don't, and may tell you what we may or may not have in common.
Sports - Oh, this may be the killer and I know it's a sin but I don't watch sports or follow any team. I'll go to a game, will happily go to a sports bar, will watch tennis, golf or ice skating (I know, I know) on occasion on tv but I don't really care who is playing.
Pets - Two bratty spoiled cats who try their best to run the house themselves. I get told what time dinner is (when I get the 5:00 stare down, I know what time it is without looking) and when to give the daily massage (at bed time and it IS a priority, at least to Sr. Cat). I know how to take care of most any kind of animal though I don't know quite as much about reptiles or fish.
Shopping - Like most women, I like shopping and will do it to pass time, get what I need, see what's new or spend time with friends, depending on the mood.
Drinking - The tequila days are over. These days an occasional beer with friends will do or maybe a rare one at home after a stressful day. I've had the same bottle of vodka in the freezer for 5 years. Geez.
Sense of Humor - Yes, I have one and I use it a lot. It can be blunt, sarcastic and teasing but always meant in a playful interpretation. I do like to laugh.
Siblings - I have one rotten redheaded younger sister. We never got along growing up but now that we're both in our 30's we might be starting to, finally.
Education - I have a good one and still paying for it. For all that, it better be good!
Hobbies - In the past I've done some abstract watercolor and container gardening. I tend to get into something for a few years and then move on to something else. Current interests are learning couponing, beauty blogs and learning and remembering what I've forgotten about how to sew. I'd like to learn more about Thai or Indian cooking to add some diversity to my menus.
Fishing - I recently went fishing for the first time since I was a kid and LOVED it!
So, there are some every day things about me. You've either found me interesting or you're not even reading this anymore. Yes, you're kinky or curious but what can you tell me about you?
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I just read the book excerpt To Serve with Love – How A.J. Jacobs survived a month of playing the perfect husband.
Amazingly, this excerpt is in this month’s Reader’s Digest. The gist of the article is that Jacobs was put up to an experiment to spend a month doing everything his wife said. He wanted to explore the power dynamics of the modern American marriage.
In the first section, he is surprised when she reels off a list of things she wants him to do. The advantage here is that she already knows him, and knows what she wants him to do differently. That is much easier than say, meeting a submissive male and simply giving him a random list of stuff to do. A list like that can be meaningless beyond seeing that tasks get accomplished (not that having a list accomplished is bad). I have often wished that a man would take the time to get to know what I like rather than just expect to be handed a list. I do like lists, but they are better when there is some background and when he has the context to know how to persevere.
As the article progresses, we see that he wants to do all the chores she usually does and he is again surprised that she does so much. Some things she is just better at because she has a method for doing them. Still, he tries. The power goes to her head and I am amused when he says that she literally snaps her fingers at him. Again, he persists and makes dinner for her.
By the end, he has gotten to some of the less desirable chores (searching for all missing game board pieces) and they realize that they’ve learned to appreciate each other more. A woman wants to feel special. He accomplishes this by actually doing things she says and by reviving his habit of giving her small gifts. A man wants to feel appreciated for what he does. She accomplishes this by telling others (when asked) specific things she enjoys about being with him. Then he knows how much he is appreciated.
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To the Spanish slave I trampled and spit on a few years ago, let me know how you're doing.
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On occasion I am asked how I would like a man to serve me. The usual fetish things come to mind but I also like basic things that make my life better or more simple. In no particular order, here are a few of the basics that I've enjoyed having others do for me:
1. update my Ipod or Itunes with a wide range of music
2. arrange travel or dinner plans
3. help me move (heavy things or a household)
4. clean or make repairs
5. cook
6. run an errand
7. massage/do my nails, makeup, etc.
I'd also enjoy having a few routines for service memorized so he would know what was expected when I asked for a particular routine.
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| Age: 44 |
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Canada |
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