We are (an established) (male) Master / (female) slavegirl TPE COUPLE.
We are looking for a WOMAN to dominate the slavegirl side of our relationship.
We're interested in a long-term connection with someone who would be friends to us to both, but who's focus would be on getting to know her, hopefully developing a long-term friendship that would then include long-term dominance of the slavegirl side of this couple.
Also:
We are open to a broad variety of arrangements. Male-sexual participation is NOT expected although his awareness of proceedings is.
Basic facts about us: She (the slavegirl) is 22 and he (the dominant) is close to double that.
Neither of us switches.
We are normal (for perverts that is) and reasonably complex people. We will decide as a couple with whom to move forward. But we're pretty easy going and friendly so don't be frightened.
After nearly 30 months together, we've decided on a particular day-collar to be our "engagement collar" (like the old guard second "training" collar.) With that decision, we entered our relationship's next phase. (It's not even ordered yet!) Already as the relational gears shift, we're again both forcefully reminded that TPE is really life-based. Although life is never simple Togneri puts it particularly excellently, that once power transfer is absolute "everything else flows naturally."
We had a beautiful talk today driving to the market and that's an excellent example for those who would understand us: She was upset to the point of tears over something important to her that she wants very desperately. He reminded her that she is his property so he alone arbitrates her wants. (If you're not familiar with this formulation, needs are exactly the following: nutrition, shelter and intellectual-emotional stimulus. Everything else, such as "emotional needs" are "wants.")
She didn't fully or immediately absorb being denied but it didn't take very long either. We finished shopping and it was while driving home that she thankfully agreed that he was right and she was all the more grateful to surrender another freedom exactly because it was so difficult.
We still have a long way to go but the flow of power has definitely escalated and both of us couldn't be more excited or happier!
Any relationship must be based on the strength of personal connections first.? People on CM get confused:? They see this collection of people openly sharing rarely articulated kink and desires that, in reality, are very unconnected to WHO those people are.?
Some people here are fakes, sure. Maybe even most. And it is tiring.
Sometimes people get too jaded and that's just as bad.
In any event, we found a reference to a video series that addresses this. The series is particularly nice too, but we LOVE this video in particular:??? ." target="_blank">.
Can't say why we like it because that might constitute criticism .... And that's actually NOT the point. The point is that although sometimes people are odd or worse, we're all people.
