Moonchild66

"The one thing that attracts me most about a Dom/sub relationship is the trust that has to be in place for the relationship to develop. Complete trust is not something you automatically gain, but something that is earned over time. The true character of a person will surface over time, so rushing into a relationship could be a recipe for disaster. Honesty, respect and open communications are key to developing that special bond that a Dom and sub share with each other. Knowing what's inside a person's mind and heart are more important issues than what kind of kink or pain they are into. Slow down a little and enjoy the process of tearing down the walls one brick at a time, and the effort will be well worth the wait." ~GallantSoul


This quote summarizes exactly what I'm looking for in a D/s relationship - someone who will take the time to get to know me - the me I am outside of my submissive desires, want to get inside my head and win me over from the top down.

I'm not looking for someone who is going to start giving me orders online or jump right into talking about sexual aspects or be mysterious and not be as open with me as I am with him. If you can't be real and open, please don't waste my time. If you make the effort to get into my head, the potential reward would be well worth the effort. If you have the internet sickness that causes you to think only with your little head, I'm not interested.

If you're looking for someone without a fully formed personality, with no passions in life or one who is missing a brain eager to learn, please keep looking, because I'm not the girl for you. I'm the type of sub who has many passions and interests - and yes, responsibilities to the people in my life who love me -they're all part of the total package you get with me. I have total confidence that the right Dom will realize that these things don't take away from what I have to offer Him, but enhance me as a person of value who can serve Him well. It can be a fine and sometimes difficult balance, but that's true in any relationship, and the reward would be well worth the effort. If allowing me to be true to myself while belonging to you sounds like too much work or too much taken away from you as a Dom, then that's a clear sign we're not meant for each other.

I will be respectful of all, but none will control me or talk down to me unless it becomes an offline relationship, and then only if it is earned, just as I, as a sub, must earn the privilege of serving.

Large, curvy women not for you? I respect that. Please respect the fact that I choose not to fit into society's mold for what defines beauty. I am a confident, strong woman and long to serve a Dom who will win my trust.

If you've read this far, you might find it rewarding to read my journal, too. Messages from people who have clearly taken in what I've spent time expressing here are exactly what I'm looking for. If you don't show up on my "Who's viewing me?" list, or merely comment on my pictures, I'll either ignore you or respond with a simple thank you and then delete your message. (Although I realize most who do this won't have even read this far)