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	About MistressPirate Updated 12-29-11 I'm Pirate. The swashbuckling kind, not the lame internet kind. **WARNING: I am not giving consent for anyone to use me, my images, or my situation in any way. If you're interested, talk to me about it. I know I can't stop people with some words, but I can express my displeasure with the idea publicly. If you'd like to find Me to chat and get to know Me, feel free to check out the chat room, #Calm-Harbor... (We're hiding on Bondage servers!) I'm there all the time! (Remember, you need to ask before PMing anyone!) Meh. Sometimes I search actively, sometimes I browse skeptically. It alternates. My fiancé, Sir to you (not to Me!), has been with me for five and a half years. He has been with me through so much, and I trust him to hold me forever. I don't have a serious sub or slave right now, but there are a few contenders for possible long-term positions. Just something to keep in mind. My fiancé and I each live with or near our respective families, so there is not nearly enough time together. I have some miscellaneous subs and playthings right now, and I use them for the enjoyment and stress release they offer. I'm 23, an art student full-time, working part time. If you were wondering, that doesn't leave all that much free time. I'm also engaged ^_^! I'm living in my own place, but it's such a mess right now. I cannot take on live-ins; my lease said so :P. Keep that in mind when you message me. I work hard, and spend a lot of time being exhausted or trying to relax. I have dreams of opening a really unique store, so if anyone feels like unloading a few hundred grand, let me know. It's likely I will someday become a teacher. It's guaranteed I will always do art. You should know when I do find someone worthwhile, whom I love and trust, and it's time for me to go collar shopping, I love the stealth collar from www.ringofsteel.net and I couldn't be happier with his work. I would recommend him to anyone and hope to do more business with him in the future. The subs I have tend to be on and off, mostly exs that wander back after varying amounts of time, finding that many tend to drift out of my life as fast as they enter. If you are still reading and want to message me, please begin your message with the last word in my profile and the product of six and seven. My life has far more stress, pain and drama in it than I deserve as it is. If you're going to bring more, leave me be. If you think it's funny to pretend to like me and vanish, which seems to be the craze these days, fuck off. I'm a real, honest person and I offer a lot of myself to others. It's not necessary for you to make a joke out of that. It's by my best efforts, as well as the love of those around me that I remain less jaded than I should be, but it gets harder all the time. My loves take what's left of me and fill me with joy as they heal me. Yes, I'm a young Domme, but I'm lifestyle, and I'm just fine thanks. Be aware that I'm not going to sleep with you. Some people miss that. How they manage to do so, I have no idea. If you can handle that, and that there is a man I will be marrying and a very heavy emphasis on education in my life, and up to several subs as well, then we can talk. I've been badly hurt by subs before, and worse by my slaves. I might let you into my life, but truly trusting you will come slow, possibly never. I'm worth the time, to be honest. Do not be offended if I doubt you; it's not your fault, it's theirs. Now, any subs reading this and still interested, if in the impossible case that you are worth my time, and you get me interested about you, here is some of what you can expect. You will share me; it is not communicative. I'm poly, yes, but far more jealous than I should be. I am in the position to have my cake and eat it, too. In fact, I want your whole body to belong to me, under my control, your pleasure included. Since a list of interests is never helpful enough... I train my subs to please me, first and foremost, as well as orgasm control, teasing via distance and especially at work, other forms of control, some humiliation and light pain. For certain subs I've expanded my interests, but have no need to do that with you. I also feel I am someone that should be appreciated. I've started accepting the gifts that my subs should have been offering to me all along. It's really all about how special you can make me feel. If you view me, you need a picture for me to take a glance at you. If you're attractive, I'll view you back. Sorry, that's just how it goes. Fuck it, it's the internet. There's only so much to go on, even with my methods. If you message me, either have a picture or send me one. Also, have a damn profile. Write something. I don't want a copy/pasted message in my inbox. I do want to say that the higher the quality of message you send me, the more interested I'm likely to be. Seriously, a well-written message that addresses Me personally and specifically always gets my attention. I am not flooded with them as some others might be. And just because you write to me, does not mean I own you or want to own you. I most certainly have no interest in you owning me. I only search for profiles of people 29 and under. If you're older than 30, there better be some really good reason for me to be interested in you. I don't want some broken shadow of a person... How will you hold my interest if you can't even hold a conversation that engages my mind? No, I need a friend in every sub. These are relationships after all... I don't like children, animals, corpses, scat or submitting. I won't have sex with you-ever! Please be respectful, and I will return the favor, dominant or otherwise.

What I want right now...

All I want is a room somewhere, far away from the cold night air, in one enormous chair. Oh, wouldn't it be lovely?

And then my massage bitch comes over and rubs my sore feet and tired back/shoulders. This is what I want. Boston-area submissive interested in doing back and foot massages. Anything else, like interest in cooking, possible play chemistry, ownership, etc, all that is gravy. But I want someone I can call on and/or see regularly that will give me massages and foot rubs. I've been lamenting this for a while... time to do something about it. I'm going to cross post this to see which site gives me more responses for this sort of thing.

I received a really wonderful message the other day, but before I could respond to it, the boy took his profile offline. This is certainly frustrating, and I hope he returns soon. :(

I've had to say this a lot lately, and I think that that need is appalling. IT IS A HARD LIMIT FOR ME TO BE COMPARED TO, CALLED NAMES OF OR ASSOCIATED WITH NAZIS. I also have a hard limit against people that are fans of Nazis. Get the fuck over it. If you find any of this to be a joke, you will be reported. It is not a joke, and I do not take kindly to it.

I feel I deserve tributes and gifts. I want subs that *want* to lavish Me with attention and objects of affection, or money to honestly improve the quality of My life. I don't receive gifts often.

Seriously, everyone... if you're on , be sure to check out their santa contest before it ends in 2 days!! or dont, so i can win all the toys. muahahah!

I think that's it. It certainly feels right. My boyfriend and I are trying out something new, where I am in control of his pleasure. It's helping us talk more, and be more sexual with each other daily, and we're both really enjoying it. My slave is wonderful and we are making things work out better and better. She is a joy, and my source of pride, and I love her very much. As of this week, I have a new boy. I would be more concerned of him leaving like all the promising boys of the last month, but both my boyfriend and my slave have checked him out and deem him to be worth my time and attentions. I hope he lives up to the position he's coming towards. It would be nice to have all the pieces fit together in this unique little family I'm creating.

Brief Update, try 3

moi? let's see. i came into the lifestyle naturally, without even meaning to. it honestly just *happened* though it is clear that being a domme is always a part of me. i've had a total of 4 slaves (not more that one at a time), the last two of which have been collared. my current girl i see usually once a week. my boyfriend lives in a different state, sadly, and all three of us live with our respective families which creates all sorts of nice little problems.

most of my experience is distance-based, using the internet, phones and trust. i have been with three of the four slaves in person. i've had innumerable subs, but only one in-person session is coming to mind at the moment. i tend to control pleasure, tease, use minor pain and humiliation, sometimes more of either. i use public situations to strengthen whatever feelings i am causing in my prey. there have been a small few that gave me control of their pissing, which caused greater levels of servitude and humiliation. either way i am very often found causing some sort of wet spot at some inconvenient and often embarrassing time (preferably precum). it has only been very recently that my girl has gotten me into any sort of foot service, but it feels good enough that it is a new interest.

umm, in less lifestyle-centric moments, i am very interested in art, mostly photography and 3d mediums like ceramics, weaving, glassblowing, etc. i used to teach sunday school, and i have dreams of being an algebra teacher. i am both polyamorous and jealous, the first i am always getting better understanding for and the second i am working on. the more i care about someone, the harder it is to be cruel to them and the easier it is to be jealous. when asked what i do with my "prey" i answered "*grins* lets see... i like making them aroused, wet, whimpering, proud to serve me, shy, daunted, embarrassed, messy, submissive, humiliated, alive, blushing, owned, and any other such thing i think to do at the time." questions?

im not sure why my journal entries are being deleted. :(

i am sick to shit of the kind of abuse i can get here. if you feel like pranking or insulting dom/mes unsolicited, you are NOT submissive. being a douche is not a submissive quality. i am not around to be taken advantage of and no where on my profile do i invite mockery. i am here to talk to reasonable, respectful people and perchance connect with some of them. this had better be some freakish 24-hour window of abuse, because i am not going to permit anyone else to fuck with me.

Someone, quite a bit above my age range, messaged me. It was pretty long, sounded ehh ok, a bit sketchy. However, he pasted his message twice in a row. I responded, pointing that out and he bitched at me about writing to people myself instead of being passive. Of course, that's ignoring how he's not what I'm looking for. I took the time to respond to that thoughtfully and critically, since frankly, submissives should be better disciplined, but he'd already blocked me. Very mature for one twice my age, non?

Alright, I'm about to embark on a 3 week trip to my boyfriend's place, to stay with him and his family. I was able to spend time with my slave yesterday, and I (barely) got my permit today since I want to practice driving with my boyfriend and his father's help. She's been mine for about half a year now, and collared for two months. We're going very well, and she gets along well with my boyfriend. When I get back, we will resume looking for a place together.

I'm still sore over losing my last sub. He was really amazing for a month, then woke up one day and decided submission was not "him." So, I've got this space I carved out for him in my life that is still kind of ripped open and empty. I'm not searching per say, but I guess there is that hole there.

Being legal now, more so than before, is also cool. Woot, 21!

*purrs happily* Sometimes it's very fun to meet someone new, writing mini essays about yourselves back and forth. I am enjoying this, and am trying to think of a good way to document the exchange. There's too much good stuff here.

I wanted to share with you a completely rediculous message I got today.

i can make you clean my house and work for me. I am superior to you , and will teach you how to serve me. I demand dish washing, laundry, housecleaning especialy bathrooms.

If you disobey i will make sure you remember this for a long time. you wont be able to sit since the spanking will be severe. If you like to accept the challenge you will respond to this email. I know you are dominant, and sweet victory over the domme will make me happy. Bring it on , and turn into my bitch girlwhore.

Here is my response:

It is clear to me that the title of Dominant has been stretched too far and too long, and the qualifications have apparently been watered down enough to even permit this message to exist. You are a disgrace to those that actually earn their status and their submissives. However, I do appreciate the laugh.

PS- My dry cleaning is picked up on Tuesdays.

If you want to talk to me, please come find me in the chatroom #Pleasure_Sandbox!

I've been thinking about posting this for at least a week now... I want FaceBook bitches. There are some applications I really like to spend my free time on, but I need friends that I can recruit. I have hundreds of friends on FaceBook, but honestly, I don't really like bugging them. Why should you offer to do this for me? Well, for one, it brings me joy. Secondly, you get access to my real life personal FaceBook page. It kind of worries me, giving that out to strangers, so you'd have to talk with me first so I can get to know you. There are numerous pictures, notes, and just other little tidbits into my life. I update my status like it's a Twitter and that alone should satisfy any interest in all that is Moi. *laughs* So, if you're interested in being my FB bitch, send me a message. Be sure to read my profile as well!

I collared my girl today. My boyfriend came a long way to be here for it. I love that I collared her right after taking her to her first Seder... irony ftw.

Being rejected from the school I've wanted to go to for so long but never could manage to apply to (for fear of rejection) is really taking away from the joy I wanted to feel this week.

i found a porn called Proud to be a Slave and I'm very moved by it. I look forward to buying it tomorrow and showing it to my slave in a few days. It's been calling to me all week, and it's like it was made for us.

Today was an interesting day. Not only did we decide I'm going to collar my girl, but I bought a strapless strap-on. It is currently not possible to wear it, but I'm sure I'll enjoy it with time.

Mmm, I had a wonderful time with my girl this morning. I've never made someone pass out from too many orgasms before. *grin* It was splendid. I also was enjoying treating my ex like the slut he loves to be. Good times, had by all. It's nice when things work well... and we all could use more of it.

For about 30 hours, I was getting to know and get close with my new sub girl. We hung out through both of my days off, and it was a really great and important time for us. A few moments were pretty rough on us, but I think we did well in all. I look forward to seeing her again. Gorrillas!!!

I go home tomorrow. It's going to be horribly lonely for both of us, and the drama of subs will likely cloud me again. Great. Gotta work, though, and I have a room to clean and an application process to begin. Ugggg.

So, I'm on my vacation now, and I have been for nearly 5 days now. It's wonderful being with my boyfriend again, but there is always that nagging thought in my mind of how happy I was having a slave I could love.

So, I'm really in love with Hedwig. I think she's beyond amazing. But, clearly, I would appreciate someone less abusive and messed up. I think I keep falling for Hedwigs, and that's my problem. They all abuse me and hurt me. We're all outsiders and we're all messed up. That's universal. Why does the reciprocal side have to feel so painful, every time?

I don't really get this. Why, after I welcome you to my home and start to get to know you, do you lose all interest in me?

While meeting my new boy was very nice, getting to that point was hell. he owes me big time for all the mix-ups we've been having. If you want to read more, and just see all sorts of overly nice things said about me, his profile is slavesean.

Well, today should be interesting. I'm meeting my new sub soon, which is exciting and scary. I'm sure he won't maim me, right?? *smiles* It's also that I'm more than a little concerned that for the past week, my mood has been directly proportional to how in-contact I am with him. Of course, seeing my wonderful boyfriend in just a couple days will be omg amazing. Then again, my time has kind of sucked, what with the oral healing and all. *shrug* I hope this turns into something real, and preferably healthy for all involved. *sweatdrop*

Really, CM? You've already given me so much. I know, a lot of drama, and a lot of pain has come out of our relationship since I came to you a year or two ago, but now this? This... I get another wonderful sub? I feel like I'm wringing you dry, and no one else is getting a taste, but I'm greedy like that. Thank you, CM. I was thankful before, and it was worth all the pain to have the first few months. But I get another shot? *bows*

So, currently, there's a strange thing going on. Most of the subs I talk to, play with and use, I had in some capacity before or while I was with my last slave. I can't really trust anyone now, least of all my exs, but it's a mix of me not forming new relations as well as all my exs returning to me. It's potentially idiotic on my part, but I never do seem to turn them away. Two of them especially have worked their way back into my life, along with someone I talked to once before I was dumped. He's kind of like a new boy, and there are a few, but it is still odd. Not to say things aren't going well. They are behaving better, and have no right to complain about my doubting them. I also have more in-person experience to build my confidence.

In other news, I'm still not pro, not will I be going pro. On the other hand, I'm appreciating the idea of gifts more. I don't ask for them, or require them, but I like them. I willingly announce to rooms full of no one that a sponsor for my art would be awesome. Athletes get it, which is unfair; why can't artists? Some do, but so few of them. There is a loom I want, and I am very passionate about photography, as well as ceramics and fibers and glass... Yeah. Shit adds up fast. My computer is also dieing, which is very irritating. Just, I can't help but imagine things differently. That's not the same as demanding tribute, but these are my thoughts. I am posting this elsewhere as well.

Goes with: Money from Cabaret. If you don't know the song, look it up. I prefer the movie version.

OK, So I'm in terrible pain and I feel horribly disfigured. How's everyone else doing? This recovery nonsense sucks.

I'm getting my wisdom teeth removed today. Unlike some of you, I hate pain and have been dreading this. It scares me and I'm sure I will not be in the mood for the lowest dregs off of this site. If you're going to be a complete idiot, now is NOT the time to message me.

bitchboy(12:14:10?PM): lots of fish in the sea, Ma'am

Me(12:14:57?PM): not really

bitchboy(12:15:07?PM): no?? why not?

Me(12:15:10?PM): this is more like a lagoon or something. a lake

bitchboy(12:15:18?PM): lol? awww

Me(12:15:24?PM): theres some toxic waste on one side, which reaches most of it

bitchboy(12:15:32?PM): lol

Me(12:16:26?PM): theres maybe a little tide pool that is clean and pure, but that's it

bitchboy(12:17:11?PM): well, if i was younger, i'd be an obedient sub to you.? But you need someone the right age.

Me(12:17:33?PM): ha

Me(12:17:47?PM): i need someone who doesnt suck at everything. like life forces

bitchboy(12:18:05?PM): I'd rather lick than suck

I have a shiny new list of my movies. If you're interested, I can send you a link.

My fellow Americans,

Good job.

<3 Pirate

I voted right after work. HEY, AMERICANS! VOTE!

Wow, CM... I just got about a dozen random "Please let me serve you" messages from all sorts of guys I've never talked to before, or have previously rejected. I think it's the hour... it's got to be. I've not had that kind of mail in ages. Luckily I'm usually asleep now with my current patterns.

http://www.hulu.com/watch/37730/saturday-night-live-vp-debate-open-palin--biden

As I just sent in a message to someone, I'm not looking, but my eyes aren't closed. Also, I'm happy today. I'm envisioning my future with my boyfriend, and it will be wonderful. I get this hour at the end of work to just... ponder things. I've been looking at interior design magazines and smiling.

It being a new year, I figure it's a good time to set things out the way I need them. Someday I want an amazing slave I can trust and love and care for, who will care for me, bond well with my boyfriend and help raise my kids. s/he will clean my house, do the laundry and help with the shopping. s/he will be a great cook and will join us at the table. s/he will have a room of his/her own, but will join me in my bed when I call for it, whether or not his/her Sir is there. We will form a wonderful, colorful family. I do not expect to find this person any time soon. I thought I had found him, but he has rejected his collar. It is very painful, needing to erase those dreams for the future. I don't want to go through that again. I would have been happy only collaring one person in my life. Now I hope to find another.

For the time being, however, I will continue to play and meet people. While I may seem trusting, it's nearly impossible for me to dismiss all my doubts. The only person I trust will not leave me is my wonderful boyfriend. He is the constant in my life, and that is why I would like to have a sub that bonds with him. A slave must bond with him to have that connection with me. Remember, I call someone a slave when they are committed to me, and vise versa, and we are planning on staying together for a long time. They have less freedom than a sub and more love.

So, happy new year, Jews, and everyone else. And don't forget to vote.

So it doesn't look like I'm going to Faire this year. And Apple finally listened to me and made an ipod that's purple. A stunning purple. I need to get one. But first, I have to think of a name for it. Lol if anyone wants to help me achieve my dreams of having a purple ipod of my very own, let me know.

There is too much pain right now for me to put it into words. Yet again I have failed as a Mistress, and I don't know what I'm going to do now. I'd much rather do nothing. I will try really really hard to not rebound to any of the wonderful subs I know and have been talking with. I just... I'm not sure any of this is worth it.

I made a revelation about sissies tonight. It seems to me a sissy can be judged based on her skills with wetness. she needs to be able to cause any and all wetness from herself or others on the spin of a dime, and enjoy it all. No attacking this revelation. I created it while teasing a sweetie I know, and I just felt like sharing it because I know someone will enjoy hearing it.

I've been really into micro stuff lately. Little normal-proportion subs that are only a foot tall. It's all fantasy, but I like it. I've also been enjoying cold and ice cubes.

I needed to make an emergency visit up to my slave last week, which really helped me sort things out. We're still strong and I'm hoping to move up there.

I wonder why it pains me that my favorite Lemony Snicket quote is infact from a Douglas Adams book. Hmm. Clearly, I need to go back to school.

Unfortunately, my PC has been taken into the shop again. It's been slowly dieing since they last "fixed" it in the winter. According to the guys I had back it up first, it was not a moment too soon, as the harddrive is apparently on it's last leg. Well, let's see how this goes. My eye is on some mini PC's if I need to replace the fucker soon. *shrug* They're so cute. That being said, I'm on my mac. I hate the excuses of messengers that are on my mac. macs are silly. mine is hot, but that's about it. So I'm even less likely to want to talk to you on a messenger than usual.

I pierced my lovely slave yesterday. His nipples, thank you for asking. I highly recommend the Pins and Needles parlor in Biddeford, ME. Ask for Peaches. Pictures are waiting to clear. It's such a rush, seeing more of my rings on my boy.

This comes right after my sub left me to be my friend. I'm only glad I have such a wonderful slave to grow closer to.

holy shit. has anyone seen "Punish Me?" I'm sure someone on here has. I freaking love Newbury Comics. I mean, it's not gay. I don't know why it was in the gay section. But thank goodness for it. I'm viewing it for the 2nd time today. The first time, I sobbed after. It's stunning. Far better than "Secretary" and I watched "Latter Days" to cheer me up. Lol... not that it helped. So I'm watching it again. Soon my love will be here to cuddle me and we'll begin celebrating our anniversary.

Now this is bothering me. I am now being harassed by someone hiding behind the "hide your profile" policy that I was just punished with. I served my time, and these methods are being used against me. I think this is nonsense and people need to find better things to do than ridicule me and hide.

If anyone would like to call me via the phone sex site I've recently joined, please mail me. However, my name on there is the same as it is here.

so its really sad but i've been on a CM kick and having my profile blocked for a day really sucked. I was bored a lot becaue of it. I step out of line once and everyone jumps to report me. I know I've seen much worse things on this site, but I'm sorry to anyone I've hurt. *sigh*

So i was just randomly browsing on here and one Domme had a link to her phone sex site. I've considered trying that before. It's got nothing to do with ProDomming, just a fun way to make a bit of extra money. I'll have my slave check it out when he gets home from work. Phone sex lines... any opinions?

To update, I now have a slave. Most of my subs have left me. I think I have one kitten, one friend of my slave and one man. That actually gives me more females than I've ever had, which is exciting. My slave is wonderful, and I've really stopped looking, beyond the subs I've had recently.

Additionally, I tried to add a photo and it's taking way too much time to be accepted. That is why I have no picture.

It appears I have been banned from my favorite and only chat on here. I feel this is unfair, but I won't rant on about it. If anyone is used to seeing me there and would like to continue to talk, I'm on here, checking messages as always.

If anyone would like to fix this, or maybe constructively discuss why it happened, that would be a wonderful jesture, considering the automatic maturity that comes with getting old.

"The Picture" 300 words, written for my lack of a request.

Reclining in the midday sunshine is a young man with straw-colored hair. The strands are beginning to cling to his heated brow, parting over his forehead. His body is strong, but does not approach his mind, though it is not being thoroughly exerted at the moment as is the former. Nearing the end of a none-too-innocent exercise, his mouth parts beyond his control to assist his breathing. His look is one of determination, perhaps a sneer to those that do not know him; to the more trained eye, he is letting his concentration wane from pretense to an honest display of pleasure. The muscles of his arms are flexed, one hard at work, the other showing off it?s abilities for the sake of wandering eyes. His arousal is full to bursting, skin pulled tight over the generous member he is presenting. His eyes flash towards the door, remembering an engagement he?s missing, before glazing over again, darkening as he resumes his trance. As he lays among pillows, he is beyond the efforts of fantasizing and has focused himself on restraint.

This is because the pleasure he feels is not his own, and no longer will be again. He has given it away, along with his body and his mind. He belongs entirely to another and it is for her that he is on display. He is learning her ways, and attempts his poses accordingly, while always expending more effort to only experience exactly the pleasure she is allowing him. As he reigns himself in, she snaps a quick picture without warning or explanation, to call back the image she has before her at will. Although she has not told him about the photo, he felt the cool caress of her lens when it was taken. It will be their secret.

I've been spending a lot of time considering immortality in the last few days. Ask yourself if you'd want to be immortal, if you could... It really isn't something to rush into, but then again, you wouldn't have to rush, would you?

I don't know if it was a prank, or what... If you talk to me as a sub, claim to be interested in me, and we talk for an evening, WHY do you vanish then delete my messages while I'm sick in the fucking bathroom?

If I add you to my favorites without messaging you, please don't get upset with me. It's my way of bookmarking pages I'm interested in... even if I'm feeling out of words.

*waves* i suppose i shouldn't have vanished for over a month... things have changed for me greatly, and seem to continue to change all the time. so for this little slice of a friday, here's what's up:

i've been kicked out of school, so i live at home, and work full time, mostly over-night shifts. im still with my boyfriend, but i dont know when i can next visit him, as i was there for most of february, and last weekend. i've thus far visited my friends at school i think once, and plan to go again next weekend, not that you really care about that...

right now i have one main sub, i call him cinder. i have a slut, and a puppy as well, and a friend of mine considers me her mistress even though she really belongs to her master. so my plate's pretty full. for some reason, my 3 are all pretty much sissies... i don't know how that happened, considering that's not one of my main fetishes. i was recently dumped by another similar sub and am still stinging from that loss.

there was one sub on here i was really falling for, but he vanished at the begining of the year. another one i spent over a month playing with blocked me on messangers... if you know who you are and you read this, please get in contact with me. im very sorry i pushed you too far, and i wish you hadnt left me like that.

that's my update, guys. i reserve the right to be very picky, to not answer stupid messages and to refuse to meet any of you. now, at 4:30pm... i think ill go back to sleep. adieu.

That is really it. I've effectively had 4 different subs shut the door on my face in three days. I am frustrated and insulted. I am not taking crap any more, nor will I accept someone I'm not interested in. I do not want all these half-rate subs. I want just one or two great ones. That's it!

I had to wait a loooong time to see Trev on cam... now that I have... mm It's such a relief to be OK believing in someone you so want to be real. Also omg YUM!

I want to let ya'll know... my former slave messaged me tonight, asking me to own him again. After the encouragement of my best friend, and the joy of my boyfriend, I've decided to take him on in a probationary position. He's very jealous of my subs, and hopes to soon surpass them in ranking. We shall see how this goes. One hint of drama and he's out again.

I don't know what it is... but I'm getting meaner. Not to my subs, persay, but to others... I'm getting better and more aroused by humiliation, degradation, and a touch of pain. I've been playing with a number of men quite a bit older than I am, and interested in things I do not usually consider myself being into... However, I've been enjoying this play greatly. Ah well... This all made me sad tonight, however, when NO ONE was around to contact me... maybe I'm just spoilt at this point....

I just wrote this in my favorite chat, but I figured it would do well on my profile: About how I got into being Dom... it just came naturally, and does so more and more as I keep with it. I can look back at being very very young and see I was a sub. When I started maturing, I was a switch of sorts. It was with one boyfriend of mine that I became Dom, because he was just too fun to dominate...

PIRATE UPDATE: First of all, I want to clarify something. I do not own my boyfriend. He is a free person, and we are lovers on an equal level. EQUAL. I do not andwer to him, and he does not answer to me. Ok.... Just getting that out there. Secondly, I am no longer actively searching for a submissive. It seems I have... 5 now? I don't even know how that happened. And another 5 unofficial submissives to play with? That's 10... That's enough to have my own Jewish service... more than enough, in fact, with me there. Oy... So um... sorry? Please, I'm trying really hard to actually accomplish some homework. I'm like... failing everything, and was before I signed up here. If you're mine, and I'm slow to respond, I'm sorry. If you're not mine, you're just going to have to wait. -Pirate

See, this is exactly what I'm talking about... Him: I'm very interested, and yes?I will click with your b/f, I'm a good submissive. Him: Hi Mistress Pirate- you never got back to me? Me: First off, I'm just talking to a Dom friend of mine on here during a class. Secondly, I doubt you are the right fit for my boyfriend and myself. I'm sorry. Him: Hi Mistress Pirate- how do you know I'm not the right fit for you and your boyfriend, you did not ask me any questions etc. Give me a chance. Me: Well, you're a decade older than he is, and more for me. You didn't take the time to provide me with any information, so to me there is really nothing about you to ask about. All I know is your name is Mike. When there are people showing me pictures and telling me first a lot with their profile and more in their messages, attracting me and conversing with me, why would I be interested by quick, one-liner messages practically expecting me to do all I can to go after a perfect stranger. I know you're not the right fit because you're wanting me to blindly chase after you, which I have not been given a reason to do. But I did respond to both of your messages. I'm not sure why I did, but there you go. Pirate Too harsh? I did forget there were 3 messages... I've turned down so many "Hi, I'm a slave, own me" things that they all blend. Seriously. Thursday mornings I'm freaking busy. Don't mess, yo. *giggles*

Based on the fact that my last two comments to people involved a sarcastic giddy school girl hand gesture preperation for "storytime" when someone couldn't think of what to say and a response to a photo with a cigg and a popsickle probably dealing with some sort of oral fixation... I've come to the conclusion that I'm delightfully snarky and obnoxious tonight. Be warned, bitches. ^_^

I hate to make my first post here a rant, but it *is* an internet blag, non? Ok, so I've been on here for something like 3 days. My precious computer even died while I was poking around the site. I've noticed a few things. First, everything everyone told me about FemDoms being a precious minority and male subs being a crazy, huge majority is apparently true. Go figure. Also, there are particular categories of subs... One in particular I want to rant about here are the lazy, self-intitled subs. Now, no one will feel as equal to a sub as I do, but if you're going to play along, play along, damn it! I'm getting tired of these messages: "Hi, Miss. It is a slave's duty to serve so I am yours. Do you have yahoo?" CHRIST. NO, I do not want to play with you, talk to you, or have you fill up my message page. Not only is my yahoo on the recently deceased PC, but what the hell? Generally these shmucks have no profile, or at least none to speak of. I know they don't have pictures. Also, sorry to be so ageist, but I really am not attracted to anyone as old as my father. That's just how it goes. I have an age restriction in my profile for a reason. If you're slightly above it, meaning... within, say, 10 years? MAYBE, if you're really awesome, and sexy and we mesh well. But really, when you're 40 years older than what I want, I DON'T WANT YOU. Just... no. I can't. If I happen to respond to your message, it doesn't automatically mean I want you, or want to own you. Sometimes I'm just talking, sometimes I'm being polite. Especially if you took the time to write me a decent message, I'll likely write back as best I can anyway. If I'm into you, I'll hit on you. I'm a flirt; it's what I do. *sigh* Sorry if this bursts the bubble of my appealling, honest, exposed self that's been getting me so much attention here... I'm frustrated with my life... why should I have to get more of that crap from here? This is my pleasure time... I want to enjoy it! That's my rant... sorry to anyone that bothered to read it. Hehe. ^_^ Clerks II really calmed me down, but it still keeps me honest. *grin* TGI December?? -Pirate

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