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	About MistressLolaD You've wanted to be abused and exploited by a beautiful, dominant woman for a long time but you haven't acted on that urge. You are going to act now, because you desperately want me, Mistress LolaD to control you. I am sweet and just a bit evil. You will be unable to resist me. If you please me I shall bestow endless joy and fulfillment to your tiny life. Fail me and I will show no mercy in my wrath. I do not suffer fools gladly and have no patience for idiots. If you are chosen to kneel at my feet, this I promise if you please me I shall bring to you endless joy and fulfillment. But there are very… unpleasant consequences for making me wait. I am sweet and just a bit evil as well. I command absolute devotion, obedience and loyalty from my subs. I believe all men should be groveling at my feet, begging to spoil, worship, and serve me in any way I demand. This will be rewarded. Some of my fetish interests: orgasm control, tease & deny, CBT, pantie worship, foot worship, Feminization & Sissy training, pain & pleasure games, and corporal punishment (my favorite!). Message me if interested! You can follow my blog and see more pictures at www.sweetlysadistic.com http://amzn.com/w/HUZTBN25L227

I am deleting my profile here. It was fun. Bye!

Finally home after our torturous trip. All I want is to collapse into my bed and sleep for the next 2 days, but "there are promises to keep, and miles to go before I sleep." This is when I need a sweet little sub boi to do the laundry & clean the house... ***yawn***

Went out of town for what was intended to be a short trip with family, and is turning into a weekend in hades. Car trouble has delayed our return for at least 2 more days, and I am stuck here. So annoying...

Hmmm... I keep reading journal entries where these little girl "dommes" say they are taking applications for someone to wash their car, or looking for a slave to take finance their shopping spree. I am curious if this works. Seems way too easy to me...

Watching The Talk, as they converse with former Charlie's Angels Jaclyn Smith and Cheryl Ladd. Makes me think television needs an update of this show, only with hot young submissive male angels...Charlie & Bosley are female dommes, of course! Who shall we cast?

Turns out the amazing-vanishing-sub-boy had a valid reason for not being in contact the last day and a half: he's dealing with the sudden & unexpected death of someone close to him. Since our relationship is just barely begun, I cannot really expect him to have me at the top of his "to-call" list. Yet. Poor pet. I do feel rather badly for being such a bitch about him earlier. Perhaps a good spanking will make him feel better...

I realize I have done I lot of complaining in my journal entries here, and today will be a bit more of that. But first, I must say that I finally had a decent meeting with someone from CM! It's nice to know there are submissive men here who are who they say they are, who show up when they say they will, and are actual gentlemen! My faith was renewed! At least until later that night, when I checked my mailbox, and had 13 rude messages about my profile picture.

No, it isn't me. Yes, I have permission to use it. I took my face down after one of the creepy types here decided to be a stalker! My private life is private, and I intend for it to remain that way. The point is, I am not lying about anything, I am not a fake or a phony Nor am I attempting to deceive anyone; I am simply trying to ensure myself a modicum of privacy. Sending me an email telling me I am "a thief and a liar, and will burn in hell for using an unauthorized picture" is truly ridiculous. First, I have permission for all pictures. Second, not lying. Third, the god I believe in is not taking time to send folks to hell for this; there are too many actual issues to deal with!

Shall I rant some more? The young man who claims to be "so submissive" and who wants to be my real-life, keeps dropping out of sight. So much drama. I am done. I just want him to finish the damn website, and be gone. Of course, it could be done, and I wouldn't know, since he doesn't call, or answer calls. I had such high hopes for him, and wanted to work with him; gave him more than one second chance. But I am done.

Frankly, I am so frustrated that I may just be done with everything. I need to do some serious thinking about whether or not to stay here.

Autumn in our house means it is time to make apple butter to give as holiday gifts. Since Mom hurt her arm a few weeks ago, I am helping out; chopping up apples this afternoon I managed to slice right through my finger! Of course it's the middle finger--now I can flip off the world with my Toy Story band-aid!

I have a new heroine here on CM: zeldablue.

All dressed up, and no one to spank.

I had such high hopes for this one --so much that I was willing to wait for him-- and he let me down. Another slave eliminated.

(Pardon my swearing) You fucking judgmental idiot prick! How dare you lecture me? We have never met, but you think you are in love--I know better, and said so. Do not try to tell me that I need to change my life to be with you. I don't want you, never did. And if you continue to stalk me, I will sic my lumberjack brothers in your candyass!

Death in the family, so I am heading out of town with my clan. Cannot promise contact until I return. Bye.

As I scroll through these journals, all I can think is "Why the hell am I wasting my time here?" The journal entries are full of angry men ranting about how this site is full of fakes; not one of the real women I have talked to here has ever heard from these men, myself included. I keep seeing little girls telling men to pay them for nothing; I am a better Domme in my sleep than these babies, and not one of you has offered me a damn dime! I've not found one decent sub in my area (so far) and those online are not meeting expectations, either. Stalkers, lurkers, pests abound. A decent, relatively hot, intelligent, submissive male! Nowhere to be seen. I do believe I will retire my profile unless proven wrong very quickly.

There are very few things I cannot abide (besides the obvious immoral and disgusting things, like Pedophilia, spitting on the sidewalk, having Justin Bieber hair, or being a hater). My top three:

1. Being kept waiting--if we had something scheduled, be on time. Be early. DO NOT MAKE ME WAIT FOR YOU!! (I accept that life gets in the way sometimes. Be polite, and let a Mistress know if you are running late.)

2. Being ignored. If I send you a text, or an email, answer it in a timely fashion. (Again, with the waiting...). Don't whine a week later that you haven't heard from me, when you have not been in touch.

3. Being pestered. I have a life, people. I cannot text 24/7, nor do I care to. No means NO!

BTW, I do not hate Justin Bieber. Just hated that hair. Watched him on DWTS last night, and LMFAO! How can I take him seriously, dancing all tricked out in black leather, singing in that little girl voice? Granted, he danced very well, and I had to wonder what will happen when/if his voice changes!

Losers. Read the profile before you decide to contact me (or anyone, for that matter!). I am not going to talk to you if you are married, no matter what. I will not be your mommy. I will not wear a mask. Get a clue. Stop wasting everyone's time, and read the damn thing!

Between appointments, I sit in a coffee shop and appraise the men around me, wondering. I cannot help but imagine: The cute young barista, pegged and begging me to let him cum. The lawyer ordering his venti mocha, whored out in fishnets and stilettos, dancing for my amusement. The hipster doofus, hogtied and squealing as I drip hot wax on his balls. Coffee has never been this much fun!

This business of not having my own place is really getting to be a hindrance. I cannot afford to move, and am so cannot host. I so want full-time, irl relationships, but how do I do that!? So frustrating.

Today officially sucks. I broke 2 nails, and I have spent the last 3 days fighting the stomach flu. To top it all off, I just found out my bank account is overdrawn. I want to cry. Days like this I wish I had a few financial subs to help me out...

I was browsing writings, and stumbled on a post about this quiz on QuizFarm and was intrigued. So I answered all their silly questions, and here is the result:

You Scored as Experimental

Experimental
96%
Dominant
93%
Sadist
86%
Exhibitionist / Voyeur
79%
Switch
57%
Bondage
54%
Masochist
50%
Degradation
39%
Submissive
29%
Vanilla
21%

They say I am more experimental than Dominant, and I can see the point there...I do have some Switch in me, but It will only be expressed with the right person. He hasn't shown up yet. Kinda surprised by how high my sadist points are, but I don't think a few of my pets will be surprised!
http://quizfarm.com/quizzes/Sex/poeticthinker/do-yo…

It's raining! Perhaps Autumn has finally arrived here in the Rose City...

That means I can stop wearing those nasty flip-flops!

I will say this one last time: I have been without my phone and tablet, all weekend, so I was unable to answer email or texts! I have limited access to an ancient desktop. If you didn't hear from me, it may be that I do not want to talk to you, but the more likely answer is that I could not! I will not justify myself any longer to subs looking for my time. Read the posts, and figure it out. Then get the hell over it! **posting this from someone else's phone**

All aboard the Migraine Train!

Just so I do not have to keep explaining over and over and over again why I may not have answered your email, or have time to chat, or be able to meet with you right away: this last week was one of chaos, and the next will likely be the same. My 78-year-old father tumbled downstairs, ending up in hospital for 2 days, and my mother is distraught. My purse was stolen, and my credit card run up before I got a chance to report it, meaning the shopping trip I had planned with my friend for this weekend is off, because the minimal amount of money I had managed to save is gone. Also in my purse were my phone and until I can replace that, I am using a friends. That means checking in randomly. So do not get all bitchy on me, please. Or I will beat your ass and then block you.

Just some advice to you boys: if you say you are submissive, and are looking for me to take total control, do NOT do the following things: 1. Tell me "It is too late/early to talk to you, Mistress." 2. Be tardy. 3. Ignore my text messages or emails. I am not cruel and heartless, but dammit, these three things piss me off beyond all reason. Punishment will be swift, and evil. And if you are still looking to become my pet, any one of these will eliminate you. That is my rant.

Heading downtown for a first meeting with a new pet. Excited, yet very calm.

I only wish the weather was cooler--it's much too warm to get all Domme'd up and tale public transportation! Besides, my boots are still being re-soled. :(

Still and all, I look hot, and he will fall at my painted toes in awe!

(Jeez...how arrogant can ya get!)

Oh, pets. I am tired this evening. Perhaps it is the change in the weather, or the approaching first time meetings, but suddenly, I need a rest. Spa weekend, or at least a bubble bath and mani/pedi!

The last few days I have gotten many questions about how long I've been dominant, and it got me thinking.

I have spent all of my life being told two things: I was too fat, and I was two bossy. Well, I have finally found the place in my life where both of these things are assets, and I have never felt better! True, I'd still rather not look at my belly, but when a 22 year-old smoking hot sub tells me how sexy he finds my ass, all I can do is grin, and say an inner "F$%K YOU!" to all those boys who didn't want to date me in high school!

While I am a relative newcomer to the lifestyle (about a year in practice), I have been a Domme all my life. Just ask Rob and Rex, the boys who lived down the street from me when I was 5. I used to tie them up in my playhouse, make them do all the chores I didn't want to do, and gave Rob a spanking once when he was bad. I had no idea I was their Mistress...but I had those little boys wrapped around my finger! Maybe I'll look them up and reassert my power!

Being a dominant female isn't about toys and costumes for me, although I do love to dress up and play with toys! It's a state of mind. As Gaga says, baby, I was born this way!

Deeply annoyed this morning by the phone calls I received in the middle of the night... Sound asleep, dreaming of Bruce Willis, and my phone rings. It's 4:30, and some loser has called the wrong number! I told him so, and hung up, went back to Bruce. Fifteen minutes later, the idiot calls again! After 2 more calls, I turned my phone off. I plan to dial that number tonight, at 15-minute intervals. Be prepared, you jerk!

Boys, boys, boys!!

DO NOT PRESUME THAT YOU MAY HAVE ALL MY TIME.

NO WHINING, COMPLAINING OR BITCHING.

I have a life away from here, but I will get back to you. Relax, or you will be blocked.

Watching Doctor Who, the best television show ever, and thinking how fabulous it would be to have the doctor as my pet.

One of my pet sluts sent me a lovely picture of himself all tied up in green string, with a bow on top. So cheery! He didn't even ask to cum... So I didn't let him.

Oh, you silly, silly boys. Do not expect a response of any kind -- other than pure contempt -- from me if you cannot spell.

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