MistressElle72

Since I'm worried the people from here that were going to assist me with a forced bi scene may not know collarme is now found under collarspace.com, I would like to asked you to read my previous journal entry and let me know if you can lend a helping hand ... or some other bodily part ;-)

Okay, getting ready to deal with a few numpties and time wasters here (more than the usual lot I get contacting me on here) but I need to ask...

I'm looking for a male, sub or Dom, who would be willing to have his cock sucked by a male sub.  Specifically I'm looking for someone the first week in June, but it would always be handy to have someone willing that I could call should the need arise.  

The "forced" oral may eventually lead to something more, but for the moment I just need someone for a little cock sucker to practice on.  I would be looking to have you cum over his face rather than in his mouth.  

Please only contact me regarding this IF you are serious.

Thanks to all who offered support and condolences during the past couple of weeks.  It has been greatly appreciated and made this difficult time more easy to cope with.

Keeping myself busy has also made things easier in the aftermath which is why I'm not on as much for now, but I have made a start at replying to messages and will get through them all slowly but surely.  

The bitch is (almost) back!  :)

Some of you will be aware that I've been holding off making a phone call to the vet about my dog.  I am phoning tomorrow morning and will be taking her to get put to sleep next week at some point.

I will not be online much if at all the week starting 3rd March.  

Those who have appointments will still be seen, and those who have appointments in early March can still text me to discuss the details and finalise any arrangements.  Anyone else who needs to get in touch can do so by text, but I will not be answering calls at all that week.

I am about to lose my faithful companion of the past 17 years, so if I'm a little late in getting back to any emails over the next week or two you will just have to excuse me for being human.

I had the weirdest dream last night!  Can't remember most of it, just the bit that made me wake up and go "tell me I was just dreaming!"

I dreamt that Collarme shut down overnight, without any warning whatsoever!  Not just blocked my account (something they like to do every so often when they get bored I think lol), but totally shut down! Vanished! Gone forever!

The bit that scared me, in the dream at least, was that it meant I had no other way of getting in touch with a lot of the friends I have made here.  Okay, most of them know of my other account on FL and my own site so could contact me there f they wanted, but I don't have contact details for all my friends here.  

Scary to think how easily people could just vanish from your life overnight!

Eight days until my birthday!  Another year older  :(  Having said that I still have no easily noticeable grey hairs, and I think look reasonably good for my age  :)

 Got a couple of gifts on the way already and I can hardly wait!  My closest friend has bought me a "Fetish Stock or Prison Stockade Bondage Restraint" as it was described on ebay and I'm really looking forward to trying it out.  I have written about it elsewhere and put a photo of it there, but I'm in trouble with the powers that be on here so I can't mention where or post links to it.  Sorry guys.  

 Once I've tested it out I'll let you know whether or not I'm impressed with it.  

I'm supposed to be getting a shrew's fiddle made for me by another close friend of mine, but I have a funny feeling he's forgotten.

Okay, here we go again...

Unsolicited friendship requests from random strangers who don't even have the decency to introduce themselves will be deleted without being opened! 

I do not "collect" friends.  If you want to be added as a friend you need to be a friend first.

Okay, I've had enough! I need to make one thing clear ... nowhere, and I mean nowhere on my profile (or my journal as far as I recall) do I say that I want to be called Goddess!!   So what the f*ck is with all the messages calling me Goddess????  

I know most people will use the term "Mistress", but  here's a handy hint for all you little maggots out here ..  If you are approaching a Mistress/Domme for the first time the polite thing to do would be to ask her if it's okay to address her as Mistress or if she has another title she would prefer.  Of course the obvious thing to do would be check her profile first, and if there's nothing stated there ASK!!  It's not hard, pretty basic common sense I would have thought ... especially if you want to make a good impression.

Okay, taking a deep breath and counting to 10 ... rant over ... for now! 

Oh, and for the record, if I am not your Mistress don't call me Mistress.  Just call me Mistress Elle, or Ma'am.

Just popping on briefly to wish a

MERRY CHRISTMAS

to all the gurls and bois (and girls, hey Julia x)

Hope you all have a fabulous day!  

I'll be back to tease and torment you all soon xx

Corsets and high heels - weird that masochistic attire is worn by so many sadistic Dommes! lol

I do love my corsets though.  Sat here at 10.30 on a Sunday morning wearing one because I haven't worn one in a while and missed it!

I will never understand why guys ask if I will let them pleasure me during a session.  Apart from the fact that my profiile specifically says "no sexual services", I don't know any serious Professional Dominatrix who would.  

Perhaps they are used to visiting people who think that just because money is involve that makes them a professional.

I'm sorry to inform you all (all those who think Pro Dommes and prostitutes provide the same services)  that there is a world of difference between an actual Pro Domme, and a woman who thinks all there is to being a Domme is owning a crop, a pair of knee high boots, and dishing out orders.  

Oh my!  There are certainly a lot of male switches out there viewing my profile today.  

Since, in my experience, there is no such thing as a 50/50 switch I have a message for those checking me out... those who are more dominant, get lost ... and for those who are more sub/slave minded, get in touch!

Having problems with my wordpress blog just now, so for now I will just have to inflict my random thoughts on you lot.  Sorry ... not!