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	About MistressBlaque What I am looking for:Things have changed quite a lot lately. For one, I have a baby now! And because of that, I am a lot more careful and selective in who I bring around. Mainly looking for friends, maybe developing into play partners :) In an effort to save time (and my sanity) please read below CAREFULLY I will only accept friend requests from people that I know, or people within my area If I do not know you, and you do send a request, please include a message, with a little hello and about yourself I am not interested in relocating you from another country or state to my home. You are not moving in. I am not going to have sex with you (ok, maybe...but that all depends!) I am not looking to marry you After many years, and fun people and lots of exposure, I finally realize I am a switch, with lots of dominant tendencies. Depending on the right person, I Have no problem submitting sexually. I enjoying being spanked and bound immensely. Again, just with the right people. But for the most part, some fun spanking, flogging, and bondage is right up my alley :). However, when I am the dominant one, I am usually very nurturing and motherly about it, depending on who I am with. I'm pretty much a damn chameleon. The husband and I are swingers/newly poly. More about Me* I am VERY outgoing, the social butterfly. I love hanging out, being around friends, all of that fun stuff. I am blunt, honest, and straight to the point. I love to laugh, I love to joke around. I have a sadistic sense of humor, but so do most of my friends, which is why I love them. Many of my friends are in the BDSM lifestyle, which makes even something like a birthday party very interesting. I am a creative soul at heart. I am a photographer (vanilla weddings, portraits, etc), and I also make corsets and renaissance garb. A big part of my summer is spent at the ren fair. Yes I would say that I am a nerd/geek, but there is nothing wrong with intelligence. I love being me. In general, I am very down to earth. Even during my D/s relationships, I am not the type to constantly scream or beat you. But like I said, don't mistake my easy going demeanor for weakness. Tata!

It has been quite some time since I have last logged on or communicated with anyone here. I have been very busy on new ventures and loving life, but I did not forget about here. So if you contact me, it will take a few days before I get back to you

This weekend has been very interesting and eye opening for me.? During a party for a good friends birthday, we sat and discussed BDSM and D/s relationships.? My friend is a male, and has 2 dedicated female slaves. Albeit, they are his sex slaves, but none the less, they are very loyal and obedient to him.

Up until this point, I have primarily dealt with male subs. Now admittedly, I am bisexual, but I mainly dealt with males, because for me, it seemed easier. Especially since I have more torture/pain/punishment options.? But lately, the messages I have been receiving from male subs, have been a bit odd.? Many of the men that write me are quite weird, and not people that I would normally associate with.

I understand the fetish/aspect point of this lifestyle, but it seems that many cannot break from the fantasy and get back into real life.

I would ideally love a full time (not live in, but maybe) slave that I will train for my personal use in home. Domestic and more.? I think I? have given more than enough males a chance, especially since they don't follow through.? So now, I am expanding, and would love to have a female sub.? Like I said, long term.? I am quite tired of those who are not sincere and looking for a quickie.

Keep in mind that I do not train slaves for my own sexual pleasure, but there can/might be some pseudo sexual acts, especially in regards to rewards and punishment.

I am tired of this snow. I just want warm weather again! I miss wearing dresses. But anywho, lets make a couple of things clear, for any of you who may be confused by my profile. Yes, I am a lifestyle as well as a professional dominatrix. I was lifestyle way before I decided to go pro. And yes, it is possible to be both. What does that mean? Well right now, I am satisfied with the current number of pets that I own for domestic duties and what not, i.e. being my own personal slave. I do not seek any more personal slaves at this moment. Of course there are exceptions to every rule, and depending on our level of chemistry and your commitment then you might be let in to my special circle. Now in regards to that, anybody else that wishes to contact me, feel free to do so. I do not mind talking. But if you state that you want to sere, be aware of what I have said above. In any additional case, if you insist on serving me, then it will be a session. Because like I said, I have my personal boys already, anything else is just extra at this time.

For some reason, there appears to be a fellow on this site who offered his unsolicited, and quite frankly, misinformed opinion of me, and what I do. I am not going to be the lesser person and post his name, but hopefully he realizes just how foolish he sounded, and hopefully will never approach another Domme like he has to me again. Let me make something clear. I do not ask nor care about your opinion. If you find that we have differing opinions, especially when it comes to Females who are both Lifestyle and Professional Domina's, then do the adult thing, and move along. There is no need in writing me to tell me that you dislike me. It makes you look childish and ignorant. You might be surprised to know that not EVERYONE has the same ideas about BDSM as you do. Secondly, never, EVER question me on my knowledge of BDSM and it's basic principles. You do not know me, and perhaps if you approach me in a polite manner, you will find that your generalizations are invalid. I am quite skilled and knowledgeable at what I do, and I love what I do immensely. Third, respect in a D/s relationship goes both ways. We are all human, and I will not treat you like an animal (that is of unless of course you want me to). Respect me, and I will respect you. It is quite simple. You respect me, and I will respect you. But if you contact me with malicious intent, then expect to have your world view shattered by my proving you wrong.

Do I hate men? Being a Dominatrix, both lifestyle and professionally, I get asked this frequently. So I am going to break it down and hopefully answer some questions and clear up some misconceptions. Firstly, hate is such a strong word. And for a person to hate, that person has to use up a lot of their own personal energy to hate. I am of the belief that we are all energetic beings, using our energy for good and positive allows our lives to be better. Now using that energy for unnecessary feelings , puts a damper on your life. So no, I typically do not hate anyone or anything. Secondly, as it pertains to men. My answer is no, I do not hate men. I know many amazing men and it would be impossible to hate them. If I hated men then that would mean hating my grandfather, father, brothers, uncles, cousins, friends, and my husband. It sounds silly to hate all men. Now there is a misconception that a Dominatrix does what she does because she hates men, this is entirely untrue. A real Dominatrix does what she does for the power and the control. Men are very interesting creatures, and it gives Me a rush when I can break into that feeble mind and manipulate a man to do my bidding. Also, not all men are submissive, and I do not expect them to be. I am a realist, although personally I think the world would be a better place if all men just acknowledge their mental inferiority to women, but I do not see this happening any time soon. I work with those who have the natural urge to serve. Typically the Alpha-Male types who run everything in their vanilla world, and then come to me looking for that release, that need to be controlled. This is not a game or an act for me. I did not wake up one day and decide that I am going to control men. This has been a lifelong gift, a talent that has been honed over the years. I pride myself in being the exceptionally unique person that I am today. I love the fact that I am creative and diverse. I can be a strict and stern Mistress, but also make you weak in the knees with adoration?not only fear. I like the fact that I do not fit into the stereotypical mold of what a Dominatrix should be. No, I am not always dressed in all black leather, No, I am not constantly screaming, and No, I do not try to dominate every man I meet. I exude Dominance just being me, and in the end ?alpha? men respect me, and submissives want to serve, it?s just the way it is. So I hope that clears up any misconceptions and answers any questions you have. Remember be good.

Wanted to give everyone an update since my surgery on December 21. I am feeling great and doing pretty awesome. I heeled up pretty fast, I was up and out doing stuff the day after I was released from the hospital. Thank you for all of your kind words and concern. Now that I'm feeling better, I can get back int the game!

Surgery went well. I am home now recovering. I'll be back into the swing of things in a couple of weeks. But I will be around here and there, so catch me when you can!

I will be having surgery in December, and will take approximately a month to heal. So at this time, I will not be actively doing any real time sessions. Now for all of those who are serious with their intentions, this will actually be a good time to talk with me, so that we can get to know each other. That way, once I am healed up, we can finally meet and get down to business. I hope everyone enjoys their holidays :)

And this is why, I am always weary when it comes to having a new pet come into my home. If we spend time talking, and arranging a date and time for you to come visit me, in my home-which is a very gracious invitation. Take it seriously. Do not email me the morning off our expected meaning spouting some "I can't make it...I met the woman of my dreams last night...she invited me up this afternoon." Frankly, I do not care. Yes love is nice and blah blah blah, but it is EXTREMELY rude to cancel prior obligations, especially the day off. I arranged my day before and after this meeting, and now because the inconsiderate worm cancelled, prior plans that could have been done before arranging this meeting can not. As I have said before. DO NOT WASTE MY TIME. I am not here as a joke, this is not a game. I only want sincere servitude, obedience, and commitment. If you cannot provide that, or even have a slight doubt in your mind that you will mess up...then keep moving.

Woe is me, I have yet to find a sincere submissive who desires to become a slave on my terms. Mostly everyone seems to be in it for sex or for kink (which I do not do). I have also noticed that all of my messages are from men. Which I do not mind, but I am totally open to having a female submissive also. As stated in my profile, I am open to both males and females. So ladies, send me a message..I don't bite.

Why is it that it seems so hard for people to follow directions, and it seems even harder for me to find a sincere pet(s).? Let me address a couple of things

1-I will never use any of my pets for sex. I do not need nor want you sexually.? This is not a kink for me, this is about full control and submission, and the exchanging of trust and power.? Sex will never be brought into it, so don't ask.

2-I don't mind talking to others or receiving compliments, but understand that I am not looking for a live in slave.? So if you are not within the follow states (Maryland, Pennsylvania, Delaware, New Jersey, New York) then we will probably never meet.? I am not looking for any one to relocate. I have a lot going on in my life, and do not care to have a full time slave at this point.

3-please be sincere with your intentions.? I am here to find a onging relationship with a sub (male or female) to come to my home, and while at my home I will do/train as I see fit.? If you have no intentions on meeting or talking, then do not write me.'

I do not like fake people, and I do not like liars.? If any potential slave of mine is in a serious relationship, then this may not work. I do not break up homes, so I expect potentials to be honest with their significant others.?

Hello all.? It is summer, and I am loving it.? I hope you are all doing well, finding whatever it is that pleases you, and enjoying life.

So nothing really new to say. I have been busy, but it has been good. Lots of time with friends, time with my pets both online and real time.?

A couple of things for those who are sincere about servitude:

I will not use you sexually, so please do not ask.

When you contact me, understand that first impressions count.? Make that first contact a vital one, let me know who you are and such, stop sending me one sentence letters.

Understand that once again-this is not about catering to YOUR fantasies.?? A true submissive knows how to give their total trust to someone and the relationship goes both ways.? A happy Domme equals a happy submissive.

I have been quite busy these past few months.? Marriage, school, household things have taken my time. But I have not stepped out of this completely.

First off let me say.? I do not cater to YOUR needs. I am not here for you to get off.? I am tired of getting messages from boys who demand me do things.? A true submissive knows that he loses total control, and does whatever I say.? The needs and wants of the submissive are not important when in my presence.

With that being said, if you message me-demanding ANYTHING, or being disrespectful, I will block you.?

Secondly, the current submissive type I am looking for is a household/domestic slave. You will be required to clean mainly, and of course be of use to me. Whether that be foot worship, massages, humiliation, whippings or whatever.

Understand that the process to be even invited into my home is a strict one.? I don't understand why some of you boys can't get that through your head. This involves text conversations, face to face meeting, and then being invited into my home.

If you are looking for someone to cater to your kinky needs, I am not the one to do that. I am in control,and you are here to serve.

I dont usually post journals here, I usually keep my life updated on my blog. But I have to address something, and hopefully all potential pets read this.

i find it quite amusing when a "submissive" states that they want to "serve me orally".? Im sorry, your tongue will never touch my pussy. I do not use submissives in any sexual type of fashion.? No pleasing me orally, that is not your job, that is left up to my man.? Your job is to bow down, do what I say with a weak little smile on your face.? The only thing your tongue will be doing is licking my boots.

Oh, and also. I am tired of fake boys.? First off, when you state that you are willing to relocate among first contact with me, I think you have a mental problem. If you are able to make that drastic of a decision without knowing me, it shows me that you are impulsive, and that is not a good trait to have in this case.

Understand, that I don't just randomly let people into my house. Subby or not.? If you want to serve, then you will go through my training before you are let into my house. Whatever that training my be, then you will complete it.? Why should I let you into my home, if you complain about how I do things??

If you do not have a picture on your profile, you will not get a response from me.? If I can take the liberty to show you what I look like, then you can do the same.? I will not get on camera to "prove" to you that I am female.? I am very well aware that I have a vagina.? If you have been dooped before, then Im sorry for you. The only time I will get on camera is for a training session, not for some boy looking to get his rocks off.

Also, understand what a submissive is, before contacting me.? Alot of you take this as a sexual thing, and I have no problem with that as I do fetish videos also, BUT you are not here for sex. I am not here to cater to you.

So before contacting me, make sure you understand your role. Know that you will not be used for anything sexual. You will have to go through my training before invited into my home, and yes-I take online boys. But ALL boys, real time, and online are required to do what I say, when I do it. I do not like to waste my time

Ok so although my health is up and down, I am still trooping.? I always try to live my life as normal as I can. So with that being said. Real time sessions are now open. I am mainly looking for a domestic pet.? Man or Woman to come clean my house, accompany me (lite public servitude) out, be used as a servant, or tool for entertainment (non sexual) when I have my friends over, and more.? There will be lite humiliation, bondage, verbal humiliation, teasing and more.? I am a very sensual person and love to laugh, so my tactics are a bit different.

In addition to that. I am looking for a dedicated foot lover. One to pamper my feet with pedicures, massage my feet whenever I desire(I love a good foot massage) and of course help display my pampered feet in sexy shoes.? This position entails foot worship, massaging, tagging along for shoe shopping and being my personal foot massage while in the store (lite public humiliation) and more.

I only talk to people that are serious with their intententions.? I am not looking for a live in slave at this time. I have too much going on for that.? Nor am I looking for anyone to relocate just for me. If you will be moving near me because of school, job or other circumstances then that is fine.?

I am only looking for pets in the MD/DE/PA/NJ area.? You need to be able to drive to my location.?

So with all that being said, feel free to contact me.

So as of recently, I am unable to due r/t sessions due to medical reasons. I will continue to do online sessions. Do understand that I will accept your intial contact as a sign of servitude, but to continue with conversation..you must tribute. I will not take my time to talk to you if a tribute has not been made.? If you cannot do this, then simply walk away. Please do not waste my time and yours. I will block you, and you will lose any chance of serving me.

My online sessions include forced intox-ass play-humiliation-sph-sissy training and more.? Contact me with tribute if you would like to schedule an online session.

Do understand that I take what I do very seriously, as this is my full time Job.? I do not intend to waste your time, and expect the same.? You are guaranteed a unique experience in serving me.?

If you have any questions, feel free to contact me, but remember, tribute is required for further contact.

You can visit my website to learn more about me at http://www.GoddessViv.com

I've been busy and haven't really updated. I have been working on my fetish website, making and uploading videos and recordings.? One thing I do love to do is humiliation videos/recordings. I love telling my little bitches how worthless they are to me, and getting them to the point of tears. I also love teasing them, having them beg for release, and denying them of that release. For weeks at a time. It is so much fun!? My little male sissy bitches make the day so much fun for me, fighting for my attention so I can acknowledge them, it is so amusing.? Ive been getting alot of offers for slaves that live quite far from me. the only servitude that they can do is online, and very few are dedicated to deal with my verbal bashings and assignments that I dole out.

I want a footslave!? Haha, but I really do. I love having my feet rubbed and adored, I want to record it also.?

Still have not yet found someone. Some people think its easy to find a slave, but with me I have to trust and know a person first before I let them in my home. Now grant it, I may spank and slap the person or fuck them with a strap on, but that doesnt mean I will do that to just anybody.? I do have a few potentials lined up, so we will see how that goes. I have been working on my new fetish website, so keep a lookout for that!

I am back! It has been quite a while,as I have been sick and out of work. At this point I am still not back to my full health. But I am looking to get back into my regular life.

What that means is that I am looking for new housepets, financial piggies, subjects for my online domination videos(face will not be shown), and companions to keep me company when I wish.

I am only looking for those in the DE, PA, NJ, or any surrounding areas. If you are willing to travel, then that is great, but keep in mind I am not looking for a live in slave.

If you are too far away, but still wish to serve me financially online, until you have a chance to be in my presence, then that is acceptable. Please message me for further detials

Hello all,

It has been quite a while since I have been active on this site. Life has thrown its weight upon my shoulders, and there are things that have been going on.

For those who have sent me mail, I do apologize if my repsonse was lengthy. Right now there are many people that are unreal with their intentions. And I do not intend to waste my time with people if they are not ready to be dominated.

So I will be checking back in, feel free to keep in touch.

Right now I am taking a break from this site for a bit. Sure I will still log on and check emails, but actively searching for submissives will be on the back burner. There are a couple that I am working with now, trying to feel them out, the interview process etc. Right now, school and work just jumped in a way, and I have to sort my priorities

I have been talking to a few potential slaves, and the outlook is good. It is a bit difficult though with my work schedule and all. But interviews are still being conducted, so we will se.

All potential slaves, please take notice. DO NOT write me if you intend to say only "hi".? I would appreciate it, that in your letters you actually have some substance there.? Tell me your name, who you are, why you chose to write me.? Don't just say "hi".? Also, as I have said before. if you live outside of my area (my area is DE,NJ,MD,PA), please do not write me and ask to move into my home. I am not lookin for a live in slave at this point and time, and would appreciate it if only people in my area contacted me for personal meetings.? If you are out of the area, I do not mind talking.?

I just wanted to give a quick update. I have gotten alot of responses.? I do not mind if you live out of state, and you would like to say hello.? But I do not wish in taking an in home 24 hour slave, so if you are out of state please don't offer to move. I am not looking for that right now.? I am looking for a house pet, and slaves for dungeon sessions. If that is what you are looking for also, then we have a good thing going. ? Until next time folks, have a good night.?

I am receiving alot of messages from potential slaves, and that is a good thing.? In your emails, please specify what you are inquiring.? Like I said before, I am looking for housepets/slaves/subs, and generosity is expected in return depending on what the action is.

Just to let it be known, Mistress Blaque is only looking for slaves/subs/house pets within the Delaware/Philadelphia/Maryland/New Jersey Area.? Other than that, if you are willing to drive, then we will see what we can arrange.?

I just wanted to formally introduce myself to the site. I hope to find the slaves/subs/housepets I am looking for. Currently seeking live clients, will schedule depending on availability. ?

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