MistressArafel


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	About MistressArafel right up front: NOT SEARCHING. Hi ya'll, glad to be here. Things I Am: Happily in a relaationship; Stressed; 20-something; A Bookworm; Spankable; Tiny; Confused; Cynical; A Geek; Sarcastic; Chubby; Funny as Hell; Selectively Sadistic; Mildly Masochistic; Dog-lover; Amateur Pr0n writer; Church-goer; Easily Distracted; Involved; Personable.Things I an NOT: Searching; A Slave; Stupid; Too Serious; Shallow; Drop-Dead Gorgeous; A Professional; A Pushover; All-Knowing; Mean. So go ahead and message me, be you m/f, M/F, etc, and we'll sort it all out. I love having new friends, but I'm not open to flying to another continent to be owned by you. If you catch my drift. Since some people can't understand: NO, I will not train you right now. NO, you may not join my household right now. NO, I will not "own you online". And apparently I need to be even more specfic now: NO, I will not control you in any way. NO, I don't care about your webcam. Please make the effort to read this tiny scrap of information about me. While it is decidedly uncomprehensive, there are enough big words (I hope) to weed out the silly people. Also, it has pertinent information. If you haven't read this, please don't be shocked when I fail to reply to your request to be beaten while you're dressed as a maid. Or to view your cam. Or to "plz Mistress Dom me i wnt 2 plz u". -shudder-NOTE: I suck at remembering to login on this site. I don't hate you... I just have a bad memory:-PAnd I find the need to add: If you cannot accept my twisted sense of humor, and world view at large, don't bother, numb nuts.

I'm not on this site nearly enough.

Someone sent this to me and I thought it was cute and funny. So it gets posted.

Since You're My Friend...

When you're sad... I will help you get drunk and plot revenge against whomever made you that way.

When you're blue... I will try to perform the Heimlich.

When you smile... I know you got laid.

When you're worried... I will tell you horrible stories about how much worse it could be.

When you're confused... I will use little words.

When you're sick... Stay the hell away from me until you're better.

When you fall... I will point and laugh at your clumsy ass.

This is my oath.
I pledge it to the end.
"Why?" you may ask?
Because you're my friend!

Felt like a new journal entry, but I was unsure what to write. Just got tired of seeing the same thing popping up every time. Any ideas?

Been plagued by a story idea during my dreams for about a week. Gonna have to actually write this one. Thinking of putting it on literotica this time. And maybe taking the time to type up some of my old, hand-written, ridiculously high school old stuff. Ah, when I was desperately in love with so many guys that ultimately became gay... So goes my life.

I'm so tired of waiting for my friends to grow up.

Enough said.

Finally back onto the site. Been about three months, give or take a day. Things with the boy are going well. Lots of communication, some fighting which is usual for us. I'm still having trouble stepping it up consistently. So he's probably disappointed in me, but we're working through that.

Tried to open up to my mother about the role BDSM and D/s plays in my life, but she either didn't understand what I was trying to say, or didn't want to have this discussion. She'll have to realize it sooner or later. She's already seen the bite marks, it's only a matter of time until one of us accidentally comes over with cuff marks.

So new friends are on the horizon, but old ones suddenly shoot up from the past... Or the bedroom down the hall.

My ex and I are giving this another go. He's willing to listen to some of the things I want to try that i never admitted while we were together because I was too scared of him thinking I was a freak. And, I'm going to work that much harder to be the kind of Dominant female that he needs in his life. Communication people, communication.

Not sure where it's going to go, or how long it's going to last this time. But As of this moment, I'm happy and content.

Wow, been a while. Working three jobs now, ever so much fun. But still, I find time during the day, by myself, to really think about what I'm looking for. Some days I really crave the touch of chains, the freedom that comes from being bound. Others, I want my pet under me, taking whatever I dish out and begging for more. I really need to either play with a Dom and get my sub head space straightened out, or find a nice guy who's as switch and kinky as I am.

I'm really very pleased at the number of intelligent responses I've had on this site. Gives me hope for the world at large. Had a fun little session with a friend, got t obe sub for a day. It was very, very relaxing... Exactly what I've been needing ro help me escape the stress at work. But, back up we go!

Finally updating... Nothing really new in life. Domming this guy online that I met through here (go CollarMe)... It's quite fun, helps kill the cravings I get for not having my own good little boy in life. Still working with that Dom I met, too... Haven't scened yet, though. Kind of disappointed. But that's life. Work's work, play's play... And every day, I find something to smile about, just to keep the sanity.

God, I hate that I'm always complaining in this journal... I'll say something nice today too. I met a really great Dom on here, and he's going to help me explore my submissive side, and make it just as powerful as my Domme side. But onwards to the complaining :-P

Is it too much to ask that people are literate? I'm sure you learned the difference between there/their/they're in grade school, as well as your/you're, waist/waste, etc. I'm so tired of run-on sentences, horrible spelling, and the like. Why would I choose to submit to someone who cannot express the simplest thought? How can I trust you with my safety, when I can't even trust you to finish your first grade primer? If I'm out of line, someone tell me please. But I know that I'm not the only one bothered by this.

-sigh- Why does every Dom I meet feel the need to tell me that deep down, at the core of my being, etc.... I'm a slave. Do they not think I've thought this through? I understand that being a Switch confuses people, but honestly, I enjoy playing both sides. The sub side is more of a game to me, a kink, something I enjoy. Domming fulfills me, hits home for me. It makes me happy and whole. -rolls eyes- Just cuz I like getting spanked and tied up doesn't mean I wanna be your ashtray... Oh well.

-smiles- I love finding actual nice people on here... Makes my day go a lot better.. .Doms and subs alike, it's nice to meet someone that doesn't just want the physical aspect... Although that can be rewarding too ;-)

Another day, another dollar... Another day of my life wasted in the hell I call retail work. But it's only for two more years... need to finish school. But on here has been great... people are responding, and it's not weird people either, which is a welcome change.

Finally back, and boy does it feel good! I went through some changes, went through some difficulties... But I'm here! My last pet is in a new relationship, successfully, and I hope it works out for him. Now, I'm free to explore. Been working with someone to explore the submissive side of my dominant personality... still not sure how it all fits in. The only thing I'm sure of is that I love the feeling I get seeing a man kneeling to me, worshipping me... I love the feeling I get when I'm being taken care of, and being safety to a pet.

Once again, I run into the same dilemma. Man after man sending me messages asking me to collar them. And I can understand, there is a great shortage of female dominants in this world. I just ask the common courtesy of you reading my profile before you message me. I know I've written at least twice that I am NOT currently searching for a new Pet. That should be hint enough, I'd think...

Well, Pet and I are over. About a week and a half ago today. Still hurts, and I wish I could've uncollared him under less angry terms, but what happens, happens. We're still friends, and although many parts of me hope to reclaim his trust and his devotion, I know that it will most likely never happen. I wish him well, and the most important thing to me now is to see him safe and owned by someone safe.

~*~sigh~*~ It's so hard to find anyone in our area to talk to that isn't only interested in my spanking them, or watching me abuse my darling Pet. I had a gentleman the other day criticize me because I said I actaully care what my Pet thinks and feels. He told me that slaves have no opinion, and that their feelings are irrelevant. I personally disagree. How can you keep a happy relationship, in my opinion, without talking about things and knowing what the other person needs? I may just be rambling, but I think it's a key element. Doesn't mean I'll always GIVE him what he wants, but it's good to know. Knowing your Pet's feelings, likes and dislikes, makes it so much easier to push those little buttons that make them test themselves..... Anyway, off to a job interview.

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