MistressAnima

   ~ BEEN THAT LONG .. WOW ~  

I had not realized it had been so long since I signed into this account. 

I am a lifestyle Mistress.  Who has been busy with other life items outside of the lifestyle.

I will be looking in the New Year for a submissive.  

Please before contacting me, READ ALL of my profile and prior Journal Entries.  I WILL NOT be answering ALL emails.  I will only respond to emails that conform to what I have posted to be in search of in a submissive.  

 Leave your tricks at the door.  I'm not interested in showy applications telling me what you think I want to hear but rather what I have asked for and what I must know.  Only those who are serious and truly sincere in their application should expect a response from me.  Anyone who demonstrates otherwise should not.  Before hitting send be sure you have answered ALLof MY questions and have met all criteria.  Do not waste my time with half answered or unanswered questions. 

READ and THINK before contacting me.  

You only have one chance to make a first impression.

APPLICATION 

• If you are married DO NOT contact me.
• If you are interested in same sex ... wonderful ... but I am NOT.   DO NOT contact me.
• If you live more then 20 minutes from Nepean.  Do not contact me.  I am not patient and will not wait.

The above is what I am NOT looking for.   Below is what your email MUST CONTAIN and address for me to respond to you.  Anything forgotten or omitted will be a point against you and may result in a deleted application.  Like the song says  "got a list, checking it twice, gonna find out if your naughty or nice".

I am in search of a life partner in crime.  I am dominant 24/7 but am not looking for 24/7 lifestyle.

Your application will include;interests in both BDSM/DS and Vanilla lifestyles When ever possible include both in your responses.  I expect to find all questions answered in your correspondence.  Don't tell me or assume I will check your profile for anything.

"First things First"

• You must be intelligent, clean, attractive, employed and you MUST be between 38 - 51 yrs old.
• You must be honest to a fault and above all forth coming in your responses at all times. 
• Others would consider you to be a leader, an alpha male by day. 
• Applicants will include past lifestyle interests and experience (if any)
• Include your Vanilla interests and hobbies
• Vanilla and Lifestyle relationship(s) history including duration.
• Why in your opinion did the relationship(s) end or did not work out?
• Do you have children?  
• If so how many?  
• How old are they?  
• Do you have custody?  
• If not, what are your visitation rights?
• How do you get along with their mother?
• Where abouts do you live?  
• What are your living conditions/arrangements?
• What is your best asset?  
• What is your biggest fault?  
• What made you choose those two?
• Do you have any prior agreements or commitments
• that would prevent you from serving at my beck and call?
• If you do, then explain.
• What if any phobia’s do you have?
• Where do you draw the line(s)? … Explain
• If you had to give up everything having to do with the BDSM/DS lifestyle
• but one activity what would that be and why?
• Are you a member or have you attended any public lifestyle events?
• What opinion do you have about public events?
• Have you played in public? If so explain
• Are you interested in playing in public?
• Detail your idea of a perfect scene
• Detail your idea of a perfect date
• Detail your idea of a perfect day
• Detail your idea of a perfect evening
• Detail your idea of a perfect holiday
• What are your life hopes and fears?
• What attributes do you hope to find in a Mistress?
• Are you looking for a life partner?
• What 5 character traits do you hope to find in your partner?
• All applications MUST include a recent picture.  This is a facial picture NOT a body part.
•  Contact information is optional but considered a bonus ie.; (phone number and best time to call)
• Your last statement or paragraph must explain why I should choose you over someone else.

Remember your purpose in trying to meet  and move me BUT above all honesty will prevail.

AT ALL TIMES

Consider the following statements before contacting me 

Polite, courteous, informative personal tailored emails/messages

will get you much further with this Mistress. 

Best of luck to all applicants.
 
 Mistress Anima :) 

 *NOTE: I will beginning reading applications the 3rd week of January 2011 

This gives you more then enough time to prepare your application and your responses

DO NOT SEND ME QUESTIONS REGARDING THIS APPLICATION

If you do not feel it appropriate to answer my questions ...

Simple .... DO NOT APPLY

$$$   ~ ATTENTION ~  $$$

I am NOT a PRO-Domme

I am a lifestyle Mistress.

Offering me money, no matter how ridicules the amount is

WILL NOT serve your purpose in trying to meet or move me.

Polite, courteous, informative, personal tailored emails or messages will get you much further with this Mistress.

Best of luck in your search. 
 
Mistress Anima :)

  ~ ADVISORY ~ 

If you are a submissive in search of a Mistress please be advised and read the following before contacting Me.

If you do not live within a reasonable driving distance do not contact Me requesting or with hopes of serving Me.

I have absolutely no desire to become involved in a long distance relationship.   

Nor do I have any desire to do online training locally or otherwise. 

Up until now, I have been very patient, courteous and polite in answering all emails including long distance requests.

I had hoped reason would prevail and a message such as this one would not be necessary.  Boy was I wrong.

Also, if you are a married man looking for something extra on the side, while her head is turned ...

THIS MISTRESS IS NOT FOR YOU

This boundary is absolutely not negotiable. 

Be that as it may, if you would like some information as to how to discuss your desires with your spouse I will gladly point you in the right direction. 

Thank you for your interest in My profile.

Thank you in advance for respecting my wishes.

Best of luck in your search.

~ Happy, safe hunting ~
 
Mistress Anima :)

~How Time Passes~


Once again I realize how time has passed.

Anyway I welcome anyone’s take on how that may have come to pass?

Hopefully the nice weather being here I can once again attend the local slosh.  I always enjoy seeing the friends I've made there and welcome meeting others.

For now I bid you Adieu and many blessings.

  ~  Smiles  ~


Mistress Anima :)

~To Long~

I did not realize it has been so long since I have written anything here.

I am just arriving home from our local munch/slosh and well I can't tell you how wonderful it was to see so many familiar faces.

It was well attended and friendly as always.

There were a few new faces as well.

New faces are always somewhat risque as one never knows if they will return or not.  

Hmmm ... I wonder are they just there "peeking" or if they are serious about BDSM and are truely looking to be a part of the community?

Be that as it may,  I (like others present) make it a point to say hello.

I do believe those present this evening felt welcomed.

Summer is going well and my gardens are looking finer then they have in some time.

The only thing missing is a sub forced to dress in night gown attired after a couple of hours of play and love making.

If I close my eyes I can still see you standing there in the moonlight hoping the neighbours aren't watching.  ~ grin~


Mistress Anima :)

~Where Pain and Pleasure Meet~

That is the slogan of a bed and breakfast place I was taken to this past weekend for My birthday.

Yes I am 29 again :)

Actually W/we had a wonderful time and very much enjoyed O/our little get away.

This gift ... A rented fully equipted dungeon was a delightful way to spend My birthday.

It had a large play space, with seven different stations, a seperate bedroom, bathroom, kitchen and sitting area. 

"Warm Buns.ca" were by far not the only thing on the menu. 
lol

Thank you BadDaddy



Mistress Anima :)

~Off Line~

With so many activities happening locally I have been offline for a few months.

I'd dropped by the chatroom a few times but didn't know any of the new faces ... "Welcome to CollarMe"

I have however missed many of Y/you (the faces and names I do know)  and wanted to post today just incase Y/you thought I’d fallen off this Earth. ~ laughs



Hugs,

Mistress Anima :)

~Seeking Domination~

As of late, I am taking great pleasure in exploring many aspects of a submissive I met locally.

Please refrain from sending Me emails requests Seeking Online Domination.

I joined CollarMe to meet and discuss with like minded people and have NO desire to “Cyber” whatsoever.

If Y/you are interested in openly discussing the lifestyle then by all means I’d like to hear from Y/you.

Good luck in your search,

Mistress Anima :)

~Meet And Munch~

I went to My first meet and munch last night.  I met Mistress Kay and many others who are local. 

Lady Kay,  thanks for the warm welcome and for introducing Me to so many others.  It is going to take a while to get everyone's name straight.

I look forward to meeting with You again soon.

Hugs:  Mistress Anima :)

~Profile Updated~

I've received feedback and it seems that a few people are having trouble reading My profile due to the colours, highlights and fonts. 

I use different colours to seperate each authors words and find it fitting to hightlight them this way as I am very proud to display them.

Since screen resolutions and video cards dictate what O/one sees on their computer not E/everyone will see My profile as I do.

I appreciate the feedback and have made some changes.  If it is still a problem please let Me know. 

Thanks:  Mistress Anima :)

~Mistress Maam~

I’d like to send out Special Thank You to MistressMaam for her council today. 

I was in the lobby and was chatting in PM  when I suddenly came across some information that saddened Me deeply ... unsure of what My options might be I sought Mistress Maam immediate assistance ...

Mistress Maam did not hesitate and came to My rescue, with an open ear and words of wisdom.   

Thank you ever so kindly MistressMamm.

Hugs:   Mistress Anima :)

~Uninvited PMs~

I must apologize to E/everyone who tried to speak to Me in the lobby today.  I missed more then half of what was being said, due to uninvited PM’s that highjack My cursor from the main lobby window into a PM window. 

Though I most certainly don’t mind the attention as it is quite flattering  … I DO NOT appreciate it when someone PM’s without asking first.  I ask out of courtesy before I PM A/anyone.   Is it so hard for others to do the same?

Again, My apologizes it was not my intention to ignore A/anyone.

 Sincerely, Mistress Anima

~BornDom And cyn~

Special Thanks To BornDom And cyn 

T/they Are A Wonderful Example
Of How Beautiful And Fulfilling
The D/s Lifestyle Can Be.  

Thank Y/you For Allowing Me
The Pleasure Of Y/your Friendship.

Mistress Anima
xox