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| Mature local submissive/switch ONLY.
If you are not within driving distance, you must pay for your own food & lodging and able to visit at least twice a month.
So you want our time, you need to make it - must be willing to tackle some of the honey do list. This is not an option - This includes house work/ yard work etc. Promises don't count (A broken promised is a lie) Only actions will be rewarded.
He is an empathetic Dom with just the right touch of playful sensation sadism, experienced at delightful sensual mixes of pleasure and pain. Natural females only.
She has been in this lifestyle all her adult life. She hates do me or needy subs. You must be a straight male, as she is no longer working as a Pro-Dominatrix and only plays with those who match her interests. Must be active, and have a varied list of hobbies. Couch potatoes online playmates need not apply.
We are not interested in any gender role reversal, strap-ons, sodomy, diapers or cross dressing.
We live in the Ottawa area, are active members of local clubs and are well known in the local community. We offer private BDSM workshops for couples or singles. We also do live Demos in Ottawa, Toronto and Montreal in The Everything to do with Sex Show.
We are seeking select few long-term lifestyle friends who are able to join us in a shared, continuing journey of new experiences, knowledge and, above all else, fun.
You are welcome to join US, lets start with Coffee and see where we take it from there.
You must be from the Ottawa area. Must be genuine in their desire to serve, please, amuse, obey and surrender control, as well as demonstrate a willingness to learn. Potential subs must be respectful in their manner, dress and communications at all times. We especially cherish the gift of submission from those with their own personal strength.
Subs should be self-sufficient and interested in sharing this journey over the longer term. You will be able to play with us on weekends You will be comfortable playing in front of others of either sex.
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A word of advice....do not be so desperate that you will just give yourself to just any one who will take you even thou you have only just met them, as you will probably end up regretting it.
Get to know the Domme/Dom BEFORE you offer yourself to them.Find out what they will expect from you and tell them what you are prepared to offer them.Tell them what you are hoping that you will get from the relationship.Discuss any concerns you might have with them.Make up a list of questions that you want to ask them so that you know you will be suited.DO NOT harass a Domme/Dom, because it will just put them off you.ASK PERMISSION before sending a Domme/Dom a friend request or messaging them.DO NOT troll a their profile and harass their friends (they will tell them about it).
There are decent Domme/Dom out there, although they are few and far between, so if you find one, don't ruin it by being so needy that they unfriend you. |
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Easy Ways to Lose My Interest
1. Don’t be consistent in contacting me. Make me wonder when I will hear from you again.
2. Don’t reach out to me, not even to say hello. Make me reach out to you, so you can have your ego stroked.
3. Talk about yourself all the time. Don’t ask any questions about me, other than sexual ones.
4. Talk in circles, instead of being open and honest. Then, when I am forced to make assumptions or try to discern just what you are saying, you have total deniability.
5. Be unable to express your feelings verbally. Because really, I am so intuitive I can read your mind.
6. Don’t keep your word – or - Say one thing and do another. This is the opposite of ‘show me, don’t tell me’. I’m not impressed. If you say you will do something, do it. If you can’t keep your promises in the little things, how do I know you will in the big things.
7. String me along as you feign interest in me or in spending time with me. Or better yet, cancel at the last minute.
8. Troll on hook-up sites throughout the day, repeatedly, because we all know you’re just playing checkers on there, right?
9. Push and Pressure me.
10. Gain my trust, get me to open up and become vulnerable to you, and then criticize and judge the things I have shared with you. I have a theory that men who do this are more likely to become or are impotent.
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Looking forward to meeting all the kinky folk with the Kingston Society this coming weekend. The fun starts Friday night till sometime Sunday. Looking forward to the kinky conversation with some great kinksters and a whole lot of laughs and play! |
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4th Hellapalooza Fetish and Kink Party - June 5th
The House of Ottawa Presents (proudly sponsoered by Breathless)
Dungeon Monitors - Ms Bunny & Col Pat with there army of volunteers
4th Annual Hellapalooza - The Countdown to Sin Fetish Party - Friday June 5th 2009
That’s right, the Countdown to Sin has begun and this year’s Hellapalooza promises to be our biggest and most exciting yet!
COST: $20.00 in advance or $25.00 at the door (TICKETS ON SALE at all Classixxx locations, Venus Envy and at the Breathless Club)
BONUS - With Advance Purchase - FREE Entrance to: - Death Disco (May 29th @ Cafe Dekuf) - Play as You Like PreParty (May 30th @ Breathless
STAGE SHOW: WILLIAM "ICE" BLOOM, Fashion Designer & Artist - Deas Q-Tag Ottawa Gothic Designs SARAH LANGILLE, Fashion Designer & Artist - Threaded Metal Designs
MISS JENN, Professional Dominatrix & Breathless Ottawa's Alternative Club Owner (http://www.breathlessottawa.com/)
CONTESSA ALURA, Professional Dominatrix & Lifestyle Domina (shown in poster) and one of the headliners from Fetish Ball 2008. (http://www.contessaalura.ca)
THE BULLET PROOF BOOBS, Industrial Fetish Performance Group (they are on )
THIERRY PAPINEAU - Makeup Artistry Design Education (thierrypapineau@hotmail.com)
AND MORE to come including Firebreathers!- PLEASE STAY TUNED TO CATCH ALL THE KINKY DETAILS.
FULLY STOCKED DUNGEON: Feel free to play in the monitored space provided, or watch as others play. Rules (for both players and spectators) will be posted at the entrance. Please bring any after care and cleaning equipment needed.
SPECIAL GUESTS: DJ DOLSTON DJ ALICE DJ KNIVED
Security will be present. NO Cameras or Cell Phones with Cameras will be allowed into the facility. Photos may only be taken by House of Ottawa Staff or their appointed deputies at this event. No unauthorized photography will be permitted.
Please note that this is a public event, no sex allowed.
Thank you to our Sponsors: Breathless Ottawa Classixxx http://www.classixxx.com/ Venus Envy http://www.venusenvy.ca/ Trivium http://www.trivium.ca Tuesday's Romance Store http://www.tuesdaystheromancestore.com/ DarqHorse Productions http://www.darqhorse.com
FOR MORE EXCITING HELLAPALOOZA DETAILS PLEASE VISIT: House of Ottawa or Breathless Website
Please note that this is an erotic party in a BDSM facility. If nudity and sexuality are a problem for you, then this isn't a party you should attend.
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Fetish BDSM Nite Ottawa Bashful & Bold Swing Club Goes... Kinky!!
General info
date: Friday, April 17, 2009
time: 09:00 PM to 02:00 AM
where: Bashful and Bold Club Ottawa (East)
address: provided on registration map
cost: $20/person, (b.y.o.b. if so inclined)
dress code: While fetish attire is always enjoyed and preferred, it is certainly not mandatory. Our comfort code suggests that black, fetish wear, exotic or erotic is what the majority are comfortable with.
Description Fetish - BDSM - Friday, April 17th 2009 For Couples & Singles Held @ Bashful and Bold.
Regular BDSM Activities will be taking place, this is a play as you like event.
If you are not a member please pre-register at www.bashfulandbold.com (fetish side)
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Weekly Slosh Ottawa - 15 April 2009 A Social Nite for Ottawa Area Kinksters
General info
date: Wednesday, April 15, 2009
time: 06:30 PM to 10:00 PM
where: Cock and Bull Pub in Bells Corners
address: 3791 Richmond Rd Nepean, ON, K2H5B7 map
cost: only what you eat and drink
dress code: casual street wear
Description
Ottawa’s Hump Day ( Wednesday) OALN CBT Slosh We would like to remind everyone of the our weekly Slosh held at Cock n Bull on 3791 Richmond Rd Nepean, ON, K2H5B7 Our Slosh are informal social gatherings where you can sit down and share some food and drink with like-mind people. We offer a safe relaxed social gathering for those of us interested in this lifestyle, both singles and couples, with a wide variety of ages and interests. Sloshes are recommended as the best first step for those who are new to the lifestyle. No scening or play is allowed to occur at a Slosh. This isn't a Play Party, isn't a Fet Night, nor a dating service. Dress is casual everyday clothes - As the Slosh is a casual get together in a non Kink friendly public setting; basic rules to be as follows; No Obvious Fetish/Lifestyle wear - we do not have a kink friendly venue (casual public collars only please). This isn’t about YOU it is about keeping our venue. No toys allowed in public view. No vending on table tops take it out to your cars. NO Camera's or Pictures without permission Be polite and discreet with the vanilla serving staff. Do not try to convert them, they are at work, so please pause kinky talk when they are at your table serving.
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Exploratorium Breathless Jan 31 2009 Ottawa
The Exploratorium was a great success, thanks to organizers and the volunteers sharing experiences and information about the great diversity Breathless embraces.
A special thanks to all those brave souls who participated at our sensation play demo station… as hopeless reaction junkies, you brought a lot of fun to the “work” Bunny and I were FORCED (evil Bunny grin) to do… and it was a learning experience for both sides! Never before did I realize how terrifying a vibrating massage brush could be (I'm gonna get u!!), nor have I had the experience of suddenly becoming a Dom-chair for a dancing sub’s butt squirming away from Bunny (revenge to follow, toes be wery wery afwaid!!)!! LOL
I know both old and new enjoyed themselves and got a lot out of the evening… we enjoyed being a part of it!!
Colonel Pat (& Ms Bunny) |
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Sexapalooza:
Ottawa, January 16-18, 2009 I would like to thank those who made Sexaplooza 2009 work. Thank you to Col Pat & James for putting up with my phone ringing
at odd times and always offering to drive myself or others where we
needed to be due to the Ottawa Bus Strike. As well as going out of their way to pick up donated
equipment for the dungeon. For putting up with the early 8 am start on
Friday to make sure everything got in and set up in record time.
Thank you to the 2 Sexaplooza staff who chipped in and Mr Sirs for
being on the spot to helping with set up as well. Even if he did forget
the coffee
I’d like to thank the suppliers of the donated extra dungeon equipment; Pervco,
Breathless, Wicked Wanda’s and Bashful & Bold. I’d like to thank
ALL the volunteers who helped make all of this happen.
And special thanks to Col Pat, James, Naked Dave, Vince and Dave for
their help with tear down and carrying everything out to the parking
lot as we were unable to get any trolleys. |
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Friday Nov 21 2008 Fetish/Fantasy Night - BDSM Ottawa Bashful & Bold
Expereinced or Newbie or just wondering what fits, it doesn't matter whatever your exciting fantasy/Fetish maybe they are always a stimulating good time. For Couples & Singles Regular BDSM activities will be taking place, as well as swing. While fetish attire is always enjoyed and preferred, it is certainly not mandatory. $20/person, (b.y.o.b. if so inclined) Open 9 p.m. - 1 a.m.. Pre-registration is required on the fetish side of site at www bashfulandbold com |
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