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About MissNat2010
I am Proud to be Co-Owner of the lovely sparkling eGurL and Owner of the switch-kitty evalic.
My name is Natalie. If you're looking for someone to cater to your idea of a Domme then now's the time to click on the next profile. It's not my job to be what YOU want.
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A quote I find compelling in a way, from a finish song...
Slave woman! Hear my command, and know your place! Slave woman! Obey my will, and you will get a prize! The divine pleasure!
It brings to mind so many images... |
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A CM mail to Me:
"I am specifically wanting to be totally locked into serving a totally unknown person with absolutely no escape by being blackmailed. I am really wanting this. Want to do this to me?"
My reply:
"wow you really have no idea what submission is do you? Let Me explain something to you here...
A Dominant is going to do what THEY enjoy, not what YOU enjoy. I don't care what it is YOU want. I don't know you enough to care or even consider your kinks at this point. I only care what I want, and what I want is for you to get out of My face!! Go troll somewhere else!!"
Are we getting it yet people? |
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Since noticing the many demands of the subs here, I thought I would put up my own list of demands.
1.I want a submissive that is totally, completely and ultimately into Me.
2. I want a submissive that supports Me and My interests, even if he/she hates them.
3. I want a submissive that understands when I ask them to do something.. it's not a suggestion.
4. I want a submissive that recognizes that everything I do for them is because I truly want what's best for them.
5. I want a submissive that will accept Me for who I am and not try to change Me into the Domme of their fantasies.
6. I want a submissive that wants to willingly serve Me, not one I have to fight every step of the way.
7. I want a submissive that isn't looking for a kink machine to fulfill THEIR desires.
8. I want a submissive that understands friendship is an important building block in any potential D/s relationship.
9. I want a submissive that realizes pushing me to do anything is a huge turn off.
If this is the part where you now wait for Me to add in what they should look like and how old they should be, then don't bother reading further because you'll obviously never get it.
When I see all the demands listed by others... "no one over 30" "must be physically fit"... I then realize how shallow society has become.
There are Dominants and submissives who are in wheelchairs, Dominants and submissives who are blind or deaf. There are Dominants and submissives who are over 50 years old. There are Dominants and submissives who are fat or ugly. Just because someone has a physical issue does not mean they can not be Dominant or submissive.
A true D/s relationship isn't supposed to be about looks or age.
Wake up morons!
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I have been noticing a lot of subs seem to have very specific ideas about what it means to be a sub. For some, it really is about having a relationship with the Dominant, being a person while still giving up their will to another. Showing that they are serious about wanting to be in a relationship.
For others it seems to be more about having their own needs filled, about trying to mold the Dominant into what they imagine a Dominant should be.
I can almost see the list of requirements. The Dominant, male or female should be fairly young 25 to 35. They should be good looking. God forbid they be fat, old or not look like they just stepped out of forbes magazine! The Dominant should only like what the submissive likes and never move past that invisible line drawn in the sand. The Dominant should allow the submissive to top from the bottom.
I understand that many subs have experienced Dominants who are cruel and irresponsible, but that does not mean All of us are that way. If there can be no trust in the Dominant, then there is no point in the relationship other than sex. And sex without a connection is just a movement of two bodies, nothing more.
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Well after a big fuck row of a fight, it's finally over with Pet and I have to say all I feel is relieved. Doesn't say much for me eh? LOL well I never said I was nice!
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My lexi girl is a wonderful person and I'm looking forward to getting to know her more as time goes on. She's intelligent and has a kind heart and I feel happy when ever I see her come online.? More importantly, I feel as if I can trust her, and that is a rare feeling for me since I have so little trust these days. Her soft touch comforts me and instantly makes me feel better no matter how bad my day has been. I hope we have a long and wonderful relationship. She's truly a special girl and I feel lucky that she has placed her trust in me and accepted my collar. I think about that every time I see her and plan to make sure that her trust is not misplaced.
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Everyone has their obsession, consuming thoughts, consuming time, they hold high their prized possession, it defines the meaning of their lives - Mute Math
Ever have one of those days when you start wondering who is really the possession? The worst thing in the world for a Dominant is self doubt.
Do I actually have to be into causing pain then to be considered a true Domme? Is being myself some sort of crime?
What is it that makes people want to control me? Do I exude some sort of weird pheromone that makes people not understand that I won't and can't submit to anyone.? Or is because I am nice to subs when they are not in my service, or because I'm not mean enough when they are in my service?? Am I supposed to just beat every sub that serves me? Am I supposed to want to submit?
Is there something wrong with the fact that I don't wish to change to suit whatever person comes along? True, I don't always get what I want by not changing, but why should I change? Isn't that just manipulation?
What is worse? Being myself or doubting myself?
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It occurs to me that some things are not always entirely clear to some of the people I've met lately. I will make things clearer. It does not make me less of a person to pursue what I enjoy. I've been called "nice" a few times lately. Some Dominants or subs may view the fact that I am laid back and relaxed as a way to take advantage of me. It is not. Some Dominants or subs may believe that I should "move along" to the other side and become a sub. I am not interested in becoming a submissive. I have tried that side of the fence and not found it to suit me. I am far too demanding and selfish to ever care about what pleases a Master. Only what I want matters. Everyone has their own way of doing things. I do not judge how others here do things, and I do not appreciate being judged for doing things the way I want to. I will not "step down" and become someone's sex toy.? I don't enjoy being made to feel that I belong at someone's feet merely because I show some consideration for slaves.? Why wouldn't I wish them a good day, ask them how they are doing, or thank them for a service to me? Slaves are not non entities. If being polite to them or to other Dominants makes me appear to be less of a Domme, that is not my problem. If someone feels offended because I will not change who I am to suit their desires, that is not my problem either. I am a Domme to the core, it is in my blood and I will never let that go. I will never conform to meet others wishes. If you want to play games with me, be my guest, I've played all the games and I know all the rules. I will not play by the rules. Do what you like, think what you want, it will not change who I am and instead only anger me. Either treat me with the respect I show you, or take a hike. Yes, I am nice, but only because I choose to be. I enjoy the gratitude I receive because of it. It is another way I am served. If you think there is something wrong with that... again, not my problem. I enjoy making friends, but that doesn't make me your bitch, or your slut, or your slave, or your wild one time fantasy. If that is all you want from me, then you are nothing more than a waste of my time. You will be forgotten as I continue to pursue my own interests. I am who I am. You can choose to accept that or not. I don't particularly care. I've got other things to do with my life.?
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"I am a 43 yrs age male submissive who has been inclined to be so for
some 10 yrs now. I don't know why or how this hapened . All I know is
that when it did I couldn't control it. It has ended up controlling me. I
have felt now a deep rooted need to be in real service to a Female
Dominant for a good while. My feelings that sweep over me like a wave at
times cause me nervous fear and excitement at the same time as to how
servile I imagine I can become. I have not much experiance only having
been owned once. I was released from that service 18 months ago. Since
then I live with regret and heartache as well as confusion. I am willing
to travel as well as relocate to serve r/l would even consider leaving
the country. I have experiance in household service,chastity and hard
caning.I adore the namio drawings and all that they signify.?I really
hope you would consider me."
I feel like I'm reading the wanted ads LOL, don't send me one of your fucking form letters and don't give me a pity story about how you're last Dominant left you...because
1. I don't CARE!!
2. If your Dominant left you it was for a good reason no doubt, so maybe you want to reevaluate just what serving really means to you!
3. I don't CARE!!
Also... I have a very active imagination, I enjoy using my imagination on a regular basis, if you can't be bothered to send me a more interesting note, and are just going down the list with your lame ass spam form letters, then DON'T BOTHER!
Oh on a side note here... most of the subs I've spoken to know why they are submissive and why they have chosen that path in their life, to say you don't know is PURE bullshit grade A. smiles sweetly... just my 2 cents here.
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