MissJoy

IF YOU LIKE MY JOURNAL ENTRIES BELOW, BY ALL MEANS CONTACT ME: Regretfully, I am so picky I am almost "a-sexual".  I have needs I satisfy myself, and have been so busy remodeling this house and working. It would be so nice to have "help"by someone who delights in me telling them what to do and me cherishing the fact that they are eager to do things for the Mistress. But, for now, guess this is just a fantasy. It is very difficult to find exactly what you want, just as it is difficult for me to find exactly what I want. Maybe there can just be a happy medium with objectives being met. My main thing is wanting someone that will work for me so that they can be self-sufficient, or just someone that is ALREADY completely self-sufficient before they meet me.  I already am sufficient and take control......just waiting for the right one......

GUESS NO WOMEN ARE READING THIS AND IT IS NOT SPAM AND I AM REAL !!!Attention women:  Looking for submissive/slave to serve on a small ranch with exotics and work for me. This person might need to have an opportunity to go back to college or make a bridge to get their life together. THIS IS NOT a lesbian relationship. If you like the older woman "mama" type and are open-minded, as I would expect on here, we can work some things out. My personality, it is pretty dominant and gears towards your levels of being submissive.

Are you drowning  in all these profiles and have yet to find someone?

_________/\________\0/_________ SHARK!

All the means of relocating and starting over in a decent life are by me. Whether we decide to be together is tentative anyway. Nothing is guaranteed. All I can say is if I found a house near me and you bought it (IN YOUR NAME DEAR, I AM NOT A SCAMMER), that I can see how you are as a man, a handyman, a provider, an interacter, a pleaser, a cool friend, a admirer of strengths and talents in a woman, a winner and trustworthy life partner. At least if you bought a house by me, it would be a decent investment. I just saw a great fixer-upper quicksale for just 70k. With 40k handywork could easily be $210k or a nice place for you to live. Don't know if it is sold yet. Another friend of mine is checking it out. I would buy it if my current house did not need so much work to finish first.

At this stage in our life, it is hard to find someone the same as you, as kinky as you, or fits everything you were seeking. So what matters?  It's someone who will make a note of your needs as a slave and be the Mistress you want. In turn, you be compliant for all that the Mistress wants. So wherever you are, you are looking at all the wannabees. I am not a wannabee, because I am not a typical Mistress, nor am I really a person you can "label". I just am a natural Domme in my personality. And did I say I am pro-Domme? NO I AM NOT.  But I am sure you are running into this and have taken care of some of your physical needs. What if your needs and mine were taken care of forever, by you being what I need? I already know I will be what you need. If only your attention span was more than most of these guys. If it is, you are reading this in fullness and perhaps you are anywhere in the USA looking for a certain type of lady, which would be me.

Haven't been on this site for quite some time. Reason? I love the idea of a man who's life goal is to please a woman. I just have a rough time to find one even remotely on the same level being there is so many levels of BDSM.   I am not against the fact that many of you are into extreme. It is your life, just as much as it is mine. I've been more of the vanilla side, yet open to some kink. Just, really my choice for being on collarme is because I prefer to be ALPHA and someday with a man who wants to live with this fact.
I don't want someone who is looking for a place to stay using the guise of being a sub. Are you a guy who is tired of looking? I have my bio listed up north, but I am located in the south. Unfortunately, where I live the men are often a bit arrogant...which is COMPLETELY NOT what I want. Nothing to me is sexier than a man who is reliable and lives to please! There is a much larger population around NY, NJ who are into the lifestyle. I realized that even there, selection is rough because I am more into vanilla. So, again, different levels. Perhaps you are reading this and say, hey, this gal is what I've been seeking.
Since I last was in here, I have done alot of the remodeling I set out to do. Still a long way to go, but am set on doing what I set out to do.
I love to play music on the piano and guitar and compose songs for fun! Have alot of cats. Maybe some guy has it all, looking for a prosperous area with lower taxes, that is safer to live and raise his kids or to move himself and/or his family to make a better life. Maybe he wants to set up in a better place logistically for his company. This could work if it was your goal to do this, then see if you have a good friend in me. Making more out of a situation is for making mistakes. I would like a lifemate someday, just not in a hurry. Could we be for each other? Who knows? But the key is loving each others mindset with having a strong friendship based on your desire to please. I know what I WANT. And, I don't want a stupid man, who is a loser and does not know what the f he wants or what he wants out of this life.