MissClyde

Having a great spring! I've been going for a lot of hikes on the near by trails and just enjoying the outdoors. Hope everyone is doing well! -Miss C.

I'm all caught up on the inbox! Thank you for the msgs! I am hoping this is the start to some great conversations. :) Yule is just a few days away! I am soooooo exited! Happy Holidays! -Miss C.

I've been enjoying the holiday season! I am really looking forward to Yule and the New Year! For now I am just spending time with my friends and the people I love so I haven't been much on here. I will be getting to my inbox soon but the process will be slow so please keep that in mind. Take care everyone and be safe! :) -Miss C.

The summer has been so busy with lots of changes! My poly Ds House grew as a Lord decided to join our family. We are still seeking slaves- a male slave  and a bisexual female slave. If you are interested in joining our family- lets talk! I hope everyone has a great rest of their summer!

)O( Happy Beltane! )O(

I am enjoying the season change! I hope everyone is well. :)

I am finally caught up with the inbox! Thank you all for the well wishes and healing energy sent my way. I am still pretty weak but on the mend. Hopefully I will be able to enjoy the warm weather we are having. :) -Miss C.

At the moment I am horribly sick. When I am up to it I will get to my msgs. Please have patience. Thanks. -Miss C.

Perhaps someone could answer me this question: Why does a person need several profiles on here?

Personally when I see several profiles of the same person it truly annoys me. It’s just more crap I have to sort through to try to find the ones who are serious. At one point I actually had a sub contact me under a different profile that I had politely declined months earlier. When I called him out on his several profiles he said that it was his brother. After telling him I wasn’t interested in games he came back admitting he had several profiles and that in fact both where his. (Duh! I think I could put two and two together because he used the same pic!) With all that said….seriously what’s the point? Please enlighten me. -Miss C.

Ha! YAY! All caught up on msgs! lolz ;) -Miss C.

Happy Ostara! :D

My Birthday maybe 2 weeks away but pet pet is already spoiling me now with two new pairs of heels! YAY! ;) -Miss C.

It is such a beautiful day out! Lots of sunshine and the promise of spring right around the corner. I love days like this! Anyone want to go for a hike? :) -Miss C.

Happy Valentine's Day Everyone!  -Miss C.

Like most on here I am shocked and amazed that people just do not read profiles. Partly I can understand why see as how there is a lot weed through and perhaps some maybe new to the life or think it is all about getting laid. However, if you are truly serious in finding someone to serve one would think you would read profiles and not waste your time or the other persons time asking questions that are already answered in said profile. So, a small tip for those of you out there wishing to approach me: Just read the profile. If you think you would be a good fit for my Ds house and to serve me feel free to contact me. I do make a huge effort to answer every one of the messages that come in as it is the polite thing to do. However, do not expect a reply if you are blatantly rude, bratty, spamming accounts, or playing games. I am here for one purpose and that is stated in my profile but you would know that if you read it. -Miss C.

Finally fully moved into the new place and loving it! Though there is still a lot of unpacking to do there is also a lot of shopping to be done! :D Plus the house has plenty of space for a playroom / dungeon. Thank you to those who took a moment to send their well wishes. I really do appreciate it! Please still have patience. If you emailed me within the last week I will get caught up here now that I am back online.

Hope everyone is well!

Warm Regards,

Miss C.

In the process of moving into a new home! I am so looking forward to celebrating Imbolc in the new house!My replies will be slow as the move takes place and we get settled. Just know I will eventually get to your emails, however, if you don’t get a reply it just means you were plain rude, didn’t read my profile, or sent me a cookie cutter letter spammed to the masses- for which all I do not waste my time on. -Miss C.

Hmmm…A close friend of mine who is vanilla (but also knows I live the Ds life, am a Mistress, and owns a live in slave) just sent me an invitation for a Pure Romance Party. Am I the only one who finds it funny that I will be sitting in a room full of vanilla women who will be blushing over cheap sex toys and thinking they are “kinky” because they are considering buying a vibrator? This is going to be most amusing evening and when I get home I am going to thank my lucky stars I am in this way of life. ;) -Miss C.

I guess I didn’t get the memo that stated that being a Mistress or Domme means you must have pictures of you flipping the camera off, a profile full of foul language and all around bad manners not to mention show total lack of respect for yourself and others. Small tip: In order to be able to control / master someone you must learn how to control / master yourself. Respect is key within this way of life and it should run deep on both sides. It is often said the quality of the sub or slave is a direct reflection on its owner. I am a firm believer in that. -Miss C.

I hope everyone has a most Blessed Yule! -Miss C.

Ugh! I just cannot seem to get warm! I feel froze to the bone! I think I am going to go curl up in my warm bed and read a book. Hopefully that will help because all this shivering is making me have the crankies! Bleh! Keep warm everyone! -Miss C.

Wow! December 1^st already? Before we know it Santa will be here! YAY! Hope that old man brings me the new flogger I asked for. *giggles*

Hope this month brings lots of joy and happiness for a great closing of a rough year!

-Miss C.

I am perpetually amused by profiles that pop up on here.

I just saw the profile of a 21 year old slave who claims to have been in the life since 14. Riiiiiiiight. This same slave also says “submission is a gift” and as a slave this person will not do anything they do not want. Doesn’t that defeat the title of “slave”? Sounds like games to me.

By the way…Submission is NOT a gift. A gift can be easily taken away as it can be given. My dominance isn’t a gift. When someone submits to me I don’t gift them my dominance. I am so tired of the fluffy coined down phrases. When you submit it is with honor and respect on both sides. WHY would you water something like that down?! What ever happened to the real slaves that understood that their limits are that of their owners? That being a slave meant not only your submission but your service. A slave is property- albeit cherished property. The only right a slave ever has in this way of life is the right to pick their owner. THAT IS IT.

Now submissives…that’s another story…for another time. (...and dont get me started on Pro Dommes *sighs* )

-Miss C.

• I took the time to fill out a profile- READ IT.
• No, I will not hand out my personal info or yahoo handle to just anyone. If you ask or offer me yours please do know I AM NOT INTERESTED in that form of communication at the moment. Your msg will be deleted simply because you just made it obvious you didn't read my profile.  
• Stop wasting my time with asking questions that are already answered in my profile.
• You want to serve me you have to earn your place at my feet. How does one do that? READ THE PROFILE.
• Oh, and attempting to put demands on me or handing me your laundry list of fetishes get you NO WHERE.

Like most on here it is getting very tiring with the msgs I get. Perhaps the above will help you out some.

-Miss C.

Hope everyone had a great Thanksgiving! -Miss C.

I do my best to reply to any messages (unless they are blatantly rude and then they are deleted) that come into my in box even if it is just an “I am not interested.” Why? Because someone took time to write me and they deserve a response. However, in doing so it would seem some cannot handle a “not interested” reply….to which I say to them do not take the risk if you cannot handle the response no matter what it is. At least I was honest, didn’t waste your time, and wished you the best unlike most who just delete your efforts right off the bat or don’t even respond. I am not here to play games so coming back at me with nasty responses only get it deleted and you blocked. I don’t have time for brats, drama, or the stress it all causes. -Miss C.

Happy Halloween and Blessed Samhain to my fellow witches! I hope everyone has a safe and fun holiday filled with treats, tricks, and magic! -Miss C.

I tend to not do the 20 question thing. Instead I prefer to get to know a person through conversation and if a question comes up I ask it. I feel that by getting to know a person through such means I easily discover their personality and a lot of traits one may never see if you ask the questions for which the answers they have rehearsed. With all that said…you want my attention be able to hold a conversation. Be interested in knowing me as I would like to know you. The moment you give me your “asl” with a “ask me anything you want” will be the moment my attention goes to someone else. -Miss C.

Just Mini Observations…

-Why would a sub/slave send a message to a potential Mistress without reading their profile first and foremost and then request her yahoo handle? Doesn’t that go against what they are trying to accomplish? Putting demands on a Miss from the get go wont get you anywhere…especially when she makes it very clear in her profile that such a thing has to be earned so as her time will not be wasted weeding out the ones who are serious.

-Why would a sub/slave send a message to a potential Mistress with their laundry list of their fetishes and what they want from the Miss? You can get all that from a Pro-Domme any day but not from a real Miss. Mistresses seek true service. If you are willing to give such and put HER needs before your own all will fall into place. After all if it is a true D/s relationship it is a two way street. Let her worry about the journey while you just hang on for the ride of your life.

<3 Miss C.

I tend to read a lot and was thinking about getting a Kindle. I would love to hear back from those that have one or knows someone who does. Thanks!  -Miss C.

Life is as back to normal as it can be. Winding down the summer and looking forward to my favorite time of the year- Autumn! Hope everyone is well and enjoying themselves. :) -Miss C.

If all goes well my dad is supposed to get out of physical rehab and is heading home to a freshly remodeled home this week. With that said this week is going to be super busy so it will take a few for me to get to emails so do have some patience.

Hope all is well.

-Miss C.

Just got a call from my step mom. She told me my father will be coming home on the 27th. Docs say most likely he will never have use of his right leg again thus he will never be able to walk. Something tells me my dad is too grumpy and cantankerous to let those stupid docs tell him whether he will walk or not. lol He is slowly but surely gaining use of his right arm again which is truly a help to us especially since for now he is wheel chair bound.

With his soon to be home coming that means lots of changes for the family and to my parents home especially with all my dads special needs. Luckily we have a talented team of friends and family contributing their time and effort to get the jobs done that are needed. Also, with my schedule, especially with my business, I will be able to go over everyday if need be to assist in his care.

Again, I wanted to thank those that sent well wishes during this very hard time. The kindness and support was overwhelming and much appreciated. Thank you!

Warm Regards,
Miss C.

After suffering a delay in his recovery my father is headed back to rehabilitation to get the physical and speech therapy he needs in order for him to come home. On the huge upside I visited him today in the hospital. I am super excited about the progress he is making despite his set back. He was able to give me the middle finger with his hand that is still for the most part paralyzed. I’ve never been so happy to be flipped off in my entire life! Rofl!

As always I am very grateful for all the kindness, well wishes, and prayers that have been offered. Thank you all so much!

<3 Miss C.

My Father is still in the hospital and still in a serious situation with a long huge road of recovery a head of him if complications do not arise. It has been a super stressful time for me on a few personal fronts. With that said I do want to acknowledge the well wishes, prayers, and support from those of you that have offered such. Your kindness I appreciate and has warmed my heart. Thank you.

On another note…Those that know me know I am brutally honest. I always say I would rather be hurt by the truth than taken down or blindsided by a lie. Like all of us on here I am in search of those subs/slaves that wish to join me in the life and be a member of my Ds House/ family. I cannot stress enough how honesty is so important to me. I am not here to waste anyone’s time, disrespect anyone, or  cause hurt. I ask that when you approach me you understand this and feel the same. Because right now in my life even more so I do not have time or the patience for any game playing and I sure wont take part in any of it. Be true and be honest.

-Miss C.

Due to my father being in the hospital I will be taking a break from here. Just so the rude lot of you know most likely their is a darn good reason behind why I've not responded to your email. Following up with a nasty msg gets instantly deteled and you get blocked. I do not have time to deal with people who are down right rude and certainly do not want that behaviour in my life. Everyone else please have a little patience I will get to your msg as soon as I can! Hope everyone is well and is enjoying their summer. -Miss C.

Wow, here on CM as of late I have seen 2 Pimps (yes pimps, apparently now they are part of this lifestyle *rolls eyes*) and a Financial Dom. I actually laughed at both, however, the financial dom made me smile even more so. Why should those lazy broke glorified female prostitutes get all the cash when the male glorified prostitutes need some too?! This site never ceases to amuse me! -Miss C.

For those that feel the need NOT to read my profile and then contact me maybe just maybe you might glance here and see this. I need to stress some points that are stated in my profile as well as a few others.

-I WILL NOT give out any personal contact information be it phone number, yahoo handle, personal email etc. That is something to be EARNED. How do you earn that? Through daily contact, conversation, and building trust. If you cannot put forth the effort to get to know me as I will you than you do not deserve my personal info.

-I'm not interested in chat requests so please do not send them. If you wish to speak with me drop an email.

-I DO NOT WANT YOUR MONEY. I happily make my own and can support myself. Hence why I say over and over I AM NOT A MONEY DOMME!!!!

-I am not here to prove anything to anyone. I am comfortable in my place in this life real time. If you are so jaded from this website that contacting me means you need to be rude because someone scammed you on here or hurt you in some way I suggest you step away from the computer and work on your baggage.

-I get a lot of emails. If I have not replied to your email know that eventually I will. I do try my best to reply to those who were kind enough to write me. The more thoughtful your email the faster I will probably get to it. Please if I haven’t replied instantly to you DO NOT write a follow up email begging to speak with me. That clogs my email box and makes you look pitiful. That in itself is a true annoyance that will garner you an “I am not interested” reply.

-Do not mistake my kindness and manners for weakness. In the ways I was trained a Master/Mistress first and foremost has control over themselves and their behavior. They earn their title because they have MASTERED themselves. My rule is a quiet and reserved one. Meaning I do not have to stand over someone barking orders. My slaves are well trained, they know what I expect of them and they do it because they wish to please me not because they are fearful. If you seek a Dom/Domme who rules out of fear please do look elsewhere.

-Upon first contact I honestly do not care about what fetishes or kink you are into. I care about you as a person. You start talking kink and what you think you can get from me you will lose my interest quite quickly.

-I honestly do not care to see pictures of your private parts so do not send them. If you have an inappropriate pic as your first picture on your profile your email will most likely be deleted or an instant “I am not interested” will be issued. I am so sick and tied of people thinking I wish to see their full spread hairy butt cheeks, snap shots of their fat rolls, or their twig and berries. No I am not a prude…I have standards. What part of I am a Lady do you not understand?!

Hope those points clear some stuff up.

Warm Regards,
Miss C.

"What a day to be alive / What a day to realize I'm not dead / What a day to save a dime / What a day to die trying / What a way to say good bye / What a wonderful life now, all a lie / What a way that you survive / What a day to say good night" -Greg Laswell

I've gotten some new polish to add to my vast collection. As I put the five new colors in with all the others I realized...I may have a quiet obsession...or perhaps it's not so quiet anymore now that I need a bigger container to store them in! ;)

[Post Revised on 05-07-11]

Like most females on here I get a lot of messages. I do go through every message. I figure since someone took time to write it I should take a moment to read it and reply no matter what the answer. There are some messages I WILL NOT reply or give my time to. Those are the rude people, inappropriate language/ comments, down right stupid, or form letters emailed to the masses. Also, if you have a blatantly inappropriate handle or your first picture is a nude one I am totally not interested. (I am getting really annoyed signing on CM and seeing peoples bits and bobs. No I am not a prude. I have standards. I am a Lady and conduct myself as such. I expect those I associate myself with do so as well  in a public forum.)

In all the emails I do find myself amused and other times rather annoyed. It gets very daunting having to reply the same questions that have been answered in my profile. So, with that said I refuse to repeat myself anymore. If you cannot read my profile then I will not respond to your email. If you are truly interested in me, who I am, what my Ds Family /Ds House is about the least you can do is take a moment to read the profile I took time to fill out. If you have any questions I will be more than happy to answer them.

I would like to answer the most basic questions here that arent included in my profile:

Q. What part of Ohio are you from?
A. Akron

Q. Are you seeking a sub/ slave?
A. Right now what I am seeking are friends and if something blossoms from that all the better.

Q. What can I do or I have to do so I can serve you? How do I go about doing that?
A. You have to earn your place to serve me and within my Ds Family. If you wish to serve me we have to get to know one another which is a process. I don’t instantly take subs or slaves. It is important that I know you and you me as well as others within the Ds House. That means daily correspondence, taking interest in one another’s lives, getting to know ones likes/dislikes etc. If you cannot put in that time or wish to open up please do not waste my time.

Q. What will my position be within your House / How will I be used or treated?
A. All subs/slaves are different. They have different talents and needs. All positions within the House are just as important as the next. Every sub/slave fills significant roles. If I do not know you and haven’t worked with you I cannot say where you would fit. However, I can say once I do get to know you, see we are compatible and that you would shine in my Ds House…you will get to live a position that was hand picked for you, REAL TIME.

Q. Will you dominate me online or on cam?
A. NO! I am real time ONLY!!!!

Q. Can I be your Pet too?
A. No, I only have one Pet Pet. If you join the House you will have your own position which will be just as important as my Pet Pets.

I hope that clears some stuff up!

Wishing everyone the best in their search!

Warm Regards,
Miss C.

I hope everyone has a most blessed and happy Beltane! :)

"I believe that everything happens for a reason. People change so that you can learn to let go, things go wrong so that you appreciate them when they're right, you believe lies so you eventually learn to trust no one but yourself, and sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together." -Marilyn Monroe

After my small hiatus I managed to get caught up on all my messages here. Special thanks to those who took a moment to offer their condolences. Slowly things are going back to normal- that’s if things can be normal after such a tragic loss.

Life must go on though and with that comes lots of change. Pet Pet is in the process of moving into the House as well as another sub with a lot of potential being considered to join my Ds Family.

Spring is here and the weather seems like it is starting to break. I look forward to hiking, biking, walking and spending time outside.

I hope everyone is well!

Warm Regards,
Miss C.

Due to a tragic loss within the family I will be distracted for sometime and unable to respond to msgs. Know that when I am ready I will try my best to respond to each one as usual. For now my attention needs to be on my pet pet and it's well being. I hope all of you are well. -Miss C.

"Life is a process. We live, we learn, we mess up, we grow. In all that we have to process feelings & emotions attached to those experiences. We grow attached & unattached to people & things. Sometimes the decisions we make or the company we keep may not be the best. Other times it is what suits us. In all the experiences we are shaped from it but what truly makes us who we are is how we deal with all of it." -Miss Clyde

I am getting a lot of messages and though I appreciate the interest I would like to make a few things clear so no ones time is wasted. :)

-I ultimately wish to have a Poly Ds House. Within that House everyone will contribute be it through their talents, interests, etc. There will be NO HOUSE PETS. Meaning I do not need a maid, cook, or any other type that wishes to sit around on their behind while everyone else works! Everyone pulls their own weight and you will too!

-I do try my best to reply to messages that people send, however, I will not reply to form letters. Also, you get from me what you give. If you write a thoughtful serious message you will receive one back and most likely will garner my attentions faster. If you send me a one liner or a simple compliment you will get a simple thank you back in appreciation. If the message is just plain rude do not expect anything back.

-I am NOT a Pro Domme. I am not interested in you for your money. I am interested in you as a person and would like to get to know you. I know that seems odd, especially on here, but its true. I like having relationships with my sub/slaves. I enjoy knowing their minds so I can better control them. Conversation is most important as is building a bond of friendship before a Ds relationship can happen. That takes a little time. In that time, however, I WILL NOT off the bat talk about inappropriate things. For now, I do not care about your fetishes, kinks, or how you like your sex. That will all come in due time…but for now I want to know you for who you are. In that I expect you to put your best foot forward and have interest in getting to know me. In this process we will know if we are compatible enough to move forward in a Ds relationship.

-I do have pics on here as well as headshots to share but only if asked for. They are “g” rated and I ask you keep yours as such. I honestly do not care to see a picture of your pieces and parts. Have some class. Be a Lady or Gentleman for Goddess sakes! Also, I am not interested in watching you on cam or dominanting you on cam.

-I am a Lady and conduct myself as such. Rare I know but we still exist. Please do not think that my kindness and manners are a weakness. Also, do not think because of such I will put up with games, foul language, and rudeness. I always try to be my best and I ask you to do the same.

Warm Regards,

Miss C.

Added new pics of the heels Santa brought me. Enjoy!

This is the last time I'll let your parade rain through my clouds... :)

Taking a break from this place for a bit. Hope everyone is well and finds what they seek. - Miss C.

I?m currently back in Ohio and have been for several weeks. I have been very busy renovating my house and getting unpacked. Soon the busy season for my small business will pick up and things will get even more hectic.

I wished to thank those of you who take the time to write me. I will try to best to get back to you when I can.

I hope all of you are well!

Warm Regards,
Miss Clyde