What we want: We are seeking a female sub or switch to play with. Metrain is dominant, and Shaniia is a switch. It could be a single play or a long-term play, depending on the person and how well everyone mixes. If you are reading this message you should send us a message so we can talk. If you caught us looking, then we are interested. We commonly look over many profiles but do not always write people. Write us to show us you are willing. If you are still unsure, then learn more about us below.
Greetings, ~~~~~ Metrain's profile ~~~~~ Greetings, I consider myself a casual person that just enjoys his life. I like photography, a nice drink and someone at my side. I don't ask for much since I figure these things are eventualities of hard work and good morals. I enjoy taking my camera around with me because unique events seem to follow me most places I go. Thanks to the camera I can capture these events and share them with others. Do you have a cool art idea? Let me hear it as I love helping people and their art. I hope that you enjoyed my simple 'about me' section. As I said, I am just a simple person with simple ideas about life. If you got this far, write us! I enjoy having people to exchange ideas. Perhaps a nice sit-down conversation over drinks could be in order? A game of chess? Metrain :) ~~~~~
~~~~~ Shaniia's Profile ~~~~~
Intro I could embellish this section with eloquent words... But let's just keep it simple, shall we?
Hi! :) I'm very new to the style. About nine months into it, in fact; and only now am I truly delving deeper into the lifestyle and purposefully meeting others who participate by visiting classes and events. It's almost gestationally poetic.
Once a practitioner of the vanilla lifestyle, I had always mentally entertained various fetish fantasies but never had the mindset, or comfortably with previous partners, to enact them. Being formally introduced into the lifestyle through a relationship with someone who lives it has helped me grow in many ways and has strengthened my current relationship on many levels.
I'm always learning more and more about the lifestyle, and within it, myself. I have found that I am most usually submissive. I love making people happy, especially my partner/master. There are times that I can 'take control' of a situation or a person but it is usually under the encouragement or permission of my master. I enjoy looking to him for insight, permission, and guidance. I am not particularly a 'slave' because, although I will listen to and obey my master, usually without question; it isn't the same kind of unconditional obedience as most slaves seem to be defined under. So submissive, for the moment, is where I believe I fall on the scale of things.
More Detail About Me I'm not very good at these 'About You' segments so I figured I would share few enjoyments of mine amidst it. I've been told I'm a little 'Animated' at times. I enjoy coloring my hair obnoxiously bright and gathering strange articles of clothing from various fashions and cultures, (even if I hardly get the chance to wear them.) Comic shops make me nerdgasm and video games are a favorite past time. I also enjoy reading, writing, guitar playing, singing, acting, geocaching, laser tag, among other outdoor, artistic, and simply fun activities. I adore animals, in fact, my cat is my baby and he knows it. I like seeing people smile and making them laugh. Over all, I simply love enjoying myself and sharing wonderful moments with wonderful people.
I can be a bit shy and I dislike going many places without my master, despite his encouragement to do so. I like listening to conversations and, once I'm more comfortable, participating in them as well. I'm always open to new experiences and I usually answer with "That sounds interesting" when asked what I think about something that I have yet to indulge in.
In Conclusion I'm sure that I could write a book here if I wanted to. As I've said, I love to write. If left to it, I'd most likely go off topic far too often to be interesting. So in conclusion, (the one thing teachers HATE to see at the end of essays,) if you have any questions, comments, or simply want to chat feel free to message me. My darling and I are always looking to meet new people and love to chat, exchange ideas, and simply enjoy some good company.
Shaniia ~~~~~
Just jumping on to say hello to some and wish others well!
So many lovely people out there but damn do their pictures often suck. I wish there was a way to offer my photography skills to them just for their profile pictures.
Woot!
Woot! That is all...
So many tasks incomplete!!!!
If two people both prefer someone to open with the first messages would those two people never meet?
Dr. Who Christmas special is coming up soon! My darling and I are so very excited. :)
Today was a good day. After a spell of few messages I was pleased to see a mailbox with a bit more in it. Time to start sorting and guessing whom can be enjoyable company for a night out.
non-cuddles as a hard limit is a very adorable limit. :)
I look at profiles rather often but notice most do not look back at my own. I really enjoy not taking the time to send messages since I know each of these people would not have responded. I look forward to the person whom breaks the silence it seems this page gets more and more.
Dr. Who is awesome!
Today seems a little slow in new profiles. There were some nice ones though and I do hope some opt to write my darling and I. I also hope they, unlike the last batch of messages, they know how to use their keyboard.
Good profiles. I wonder if anyone will write us tonight. :)
We now own a puppy!
Lego+Zombies=awesome
Why is robot chicken so awesome?
Metrain
Well Comic Con was awesome! So many pictures!
Delightfully delicious day of deviant dames.
How awesome is life? Kayaking was great till I cut my foot but I am still kicking. :) Gave my darling a full body massage on our massage table. She thanked me. :) We looked over some profiles and hope they write us. We are still taking on the idea of not sending people messages first.
Work work work and then medieval photography. :) I love it!
Some nice new people in the area. I am still going to stick with my new idea of letting them write me. So far this plan seems to work out well.
Metrain
Nice amount of new profiles out there that I looked over today. I considered sending a few messages but then decided against it. It is not uncommon for me to send out well types notes only to get back crap or nothing. I figure I will start including the idea of not sending notes as part of my normal tasks on this site. Someone really wanting to reach out and talk will send a note to my darling and I instead of us spending the time to reach out and welcome others. I know this is a little bit of a harsh standpoint but I do find that random events finding you tend to be more fun then when you go out and hunt down an event. Example... If I desire to see an animal I go to the zoo and see plenty in the same cages of life that I have always known. My other option is to go for a hike in the woods. I might see nothing or I might see something new. Savoy? So I will wait for this boat right here and admire the view. :)
Well we checked online and found nothing. lol O well.
It is awfully disappointing when you message someone with a long, detailed, message with genuine interest in becoming, at the very least, friendly if nothing more and they delete the message without even reading it. :( I may be bad at responding to messages sometimes but I at least open them and glance through them, at least enough to see what the people might want. To simply delete a message without opening it seems silly to me. But, to each their own. Maybe if I send them again they will be acknowledged. :3 I'm hoping they just got lost in the midst of other messages.
Shaniia
Checked collar me, saw some new faces that I hope message me back. Now going to cuddle Metrain.
<3 Shaniia
We have sadly not been online much as of late. Things are pretty busy for us but we check now and then. Feel free to write. :)
Metrain
Today I gave my darling a task. :)
I sat down with Shaniia looking through a great number of profiles and worked towards narrowing down people based on pictures, profiles and preferences. Once the task of getting down to a certain number happened I sat her down and left the room with the instructions "write them a message". I hope she finds really great conversation or perhaps even lifestyle friends. Anyone whom was not wrote do not take offense. I had a set number I wanted her to reach.
Well-wishes,
Metrain
Thus far the addition of my darling into this lifestyle has been great. We keep sharing in one great experience after another.
I am still looking for either a dominant, switch or submissive/slave woman to play with her in a one on one fashion with me observing. I hope to expand her experience in the lifestyle by having her directly interact with others. My interaction would be there as an observer to make sure she was comfortable. I may or may not be in the same room depending on the type of person that is with her and the type of play they are doing.
My hopes are to bring her up to speed on experience to love this lifestyle even more then she does now.
Well-wishes,
Metrain
My darling and I had a great time helping people with their profiles but then my net cut out so we are heading into the bedroom now. Sleep well everyone.