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Please read this thoroughly and completely before contacting me. I hate long winded people, so, do make yourself comfortable, grab a drink, and make sure you hit the head first...HA! ISO: friendships, playmates, events, and dating; ultimately a long term real life monogamous relationship. I don't expect to fall in love, but ya' never know with these things till it’s too late and you've been shot in the heart by one of those fat ugly babies with wings and strong bows :) Relationships are very important to me and therefore communication and connectivity is essential. Trust is fundamental and true friendship the cornerstone. Please plan to get to know me and let me get to know you platonically before play. Fairly independent and self sufficient, a little tolerance for domination outside of the bedroom might be sexually stimulating if in context and in leading into real time real life play. However, I truly adore being large and in charge in my own life so I am not really looking for anyone to control me in my day to day affairs. Being self employed, I am not convinced that would be possible at all. My desire is to have a functional, happy, healthy relationship with kink in the bedroom, or at BDSM events, only. Past partners might say I am cute, cuddly, and easy to talk with, easy to get along with, attractive, intelligent, affectionate, funny, warm and endearing, passionate and giving lover and a very good friend. Insightful, self aware, honest, pragmatic, upfront, open, and assertive, might be some other words to describe my temperament. You can talk to me about anything. If I can get it, give it, or do it for you, I will. Do not mistake my kindness for weakness, my silence for ignorance, or my passivity for acceptance. My greatest characteristic is that I truly do listen and hear people when they talk to me, and I give them my most thoughtful and honest answers. However, I am a pretty open person and one of the most nonjudgmental people you will ever meet. I know myself better than most people know themselves. I make mistakes all the time, but I admit them and always make amends. I have my screwed up parts, too. I have learned to adjust, live with, and accept. If you want to know anything, ask. If you think I might possibly want or need to know anything, please tell me. I am a big girl and can take it. Must love cats; I love animals and have several pets. Energetic and enthusiastic about life; I have many interests and am curious. I am creative and artistic in my personal and professional life, self motivating and accomplished. I can be generous and thoughtful at times. I have my bad parts and defects but I can talk about them and am aware of them. Hobbies include reading, movies, crafts and sewing, learning foreign languages, Sudoku, crossword, and other kinds of puzzles. In the midst of several projects and keeping fairly occupied. Fundamentally I am a health conscious individual; however by nature not dogmatic so therefore not religious about anything, I will have a drink and occasionally a huge juicy steak, or a cigarette. These are the extents of my "bad habits". A wise person once recommended to me, "Everything in moderation, including moderation!". 90% of the time I am a vegan or ovo-pescatarian, alternative medicine, whole foods kind of person. I would probably do well with a man who is also, for the most part, health conscious, keeps self destructive behaviors to a minimum, and who exercises regularly. In comparison to the vanilla world I may be considered very kinky but within the BDSM world I am probably tame. Ideas and storylines are much more likely to impassion me than any extreme. I have a lot of different experiences and have enjoyed all of them but am not likely to be looking for or require all of them. I have been somewhat satisfied and successful with long term vanilla sexual experiences and relationships but truly enjoy the greater and deeper range offered with BDSM. Hence, here I am! I have a strong sense of self. I am NOT here because I feel I deserve to be abused. I am here because I am convinced that I deserve a chance at the very best in life, and that includes pleasure and passion. I understand and know my dark side. My wires are crossed because of life experiences beyond my control. As a result, I enjoy and receive great pleasure from the sensory and sensual stimulation of various activities that are associated with the term, BDSM. In particular, I do get off at the idea of being dominated, rough sex, and a lot of other BDSM particulars. Outside of BDSM I am an alpha female with tendencies to being a type A personality. Being more of a creative geek with a strong personality, and am more introverted than extroverted (though most people would never guess that) with strong social skills. I am a private person, and private about my sexuality and sex life. Fundamentally a slave/submissive/masochist who enjoys sexual violence, forced sex (aka play rape), moderate pain, bondage, a sense of being collared or owned, dominated and controlled, and other activities within the BDSM realm. I can enjoy many things if you do. I know what I like but however, I am flexible and accommodating if safe, consensual, and within reason. Please note that I LOVE to perform fellatio but I DO NOT like to be the recipient of cunnilinguis and that is a hard limit with me. I LOVE toys, but do not like vibrators. However, I have an extensive list of what I DO like so there are a lot of options and I am otherwise very receptive, reciprocal, and responsive sexually. I am fundamentally monogamous. I am heterosexual. I am neither a thorny sub, nor am I a dishrag. I am not into scat, blood, electricity, or anything that might lead me to the emergency room. I am not into having sex with children, animals, or in public. I am and play safely, sanely, and consensually. I do not play with people I do not know. I must get to know you, like you, and feel safe with you, first! IM, email and texting is preferred. I am not a telephone talker but will agree to meet in person. Please be able to host, (I simply do not bring men home for personal protective reasons) a career or financial independence, a vehicle, and a driver’s license. Please be courteous, clean, disease and drug free; as I am :) Also, please be single and unattached. I am not interested in being someone's fling, courtesan, or "other" woman, and I do not approve of affairs or cheating. Please plan to bring ID, share basic information and meet in a public place for drinks or coffee at our first meeting.

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8/1/2012 8:55:08 PM

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JsHKoJM8uv8

 

omg: just exactly how i feel!!!


6/19/2012 11:05:28 AM

i am in full tilt boogie swing looking for a day job, so will be checking in only periodically. if you don't hear back from me right away, its because i've made it my job to look for a job :) and will be back soon!

 

wish me luck!

 

love,

miss.


6/3/2012 9:17:04 PM

Never a dull moment here in BDSM singles land: home of the freaks, the fools, and the unfriendly. If you are married, or have a girlfriend, please let me know before we meet. Being kinky does not equate with me being easy or willing to have an affair.


4/28/2012 6:25:19 AM

 

Am I the only person who paid attention in sex ed?

 

I was recently asked to clarify my previously published statement in regards to the use of condoms and safe sex practices. I hope that by adding my response, it will hellp to clear up and avoid any future misunderstandings on how I stand on this issue.

 

The question was about if I would continue to expect a Dom to use condoms, forever, even when in a relationship with him.

 

My response:

 

Absolutely not. Being in a monogamous relationship and having agreed to not have any other partners, of course then using condoms to prevent disease may not be necessary. That is completely up to the couple. When I have been in monogamous relationships, I did not use condoms, and nor do I plan to when I again am in a committed monogamous relationship.

 

However, when engaging in sexual activities that involve the exchange of bodily fluids with new partners, or nonmonogamous partners, I would expect that people would want to practice safe sex and use condoms for such.

 

I don't know if you know what it feels like to have to have venerial warts burned off your genials with acid, or a urinary tract disease that makes urinating excutiatingly painful, bloody, and requires hospital care, or to have hepatitis c, or aids, or a yeast infection in your throat, or herpes sores on your genitals, but I bet the folks that have, wished they had practiced safer sex.

 

Safe Oral Sex

 

Almost all the known sexually transmitted diseases are also transferable via oral sex. Not all show symptoms and some such as gonorreah are particularly difficult to treat. Some like chlamydia are very common.  Women are more suseptible than men. However, men are particularly suseptable to nongonococcal urethritis (NGU). Systemic diseases such as syphillis are equally contageous regardless of how orginally contracted.  

 

HPV is the most common sexually transmitted disease in the world and can be from shared objects. The current most concerning sexually transmitted disease is viral hepatitis C.

 

That being the case, if we are using condoms for safe sex practices, why wouldn't we use them for oral sex as well? If you would use a condom with a prostitute for oral sex, why wouldn't you extend that same practice, in the name of safety, to a playmate, lover, or friend?

 

Thank God they make flavored condoms!


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Katiekaboom
 
 Age: 28
 London, Canada