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Female Submissive, 30, Roanoke, Virginia
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About MissAlice
I am Alice Skary. I enjoy being referred to as "Miss Alice" or "Ma'am." However, I do not expect you to use such formalities unless it pleases you to do so. Alice is fine.
I am a lifestyle Dominant in a happy, committed marriage to the submissive polyamorous slut boy of my dreams. I am bisexual, and about 90/10 prefer women to men sexually. My sexual & vanilla desires revolve around women, & my sadistic & abusive urges are directed at intelligent submissive men who consent to indulge my cruel side. So I suppose you could say my Dominant fantasies would make my bisexuality 90/10 the other direction!
In my world, women are Goddesses and men are dogs.... (Don't ruffle your feathers, puppies, I love dogs!)
I am also a professional Dominatrix. I have worked full time as a professional Dominatrix for 8 years -- yes, that's since I was 18 years old. Back then, people laughed at me and said, "You don't know who you really are. You will change. You will become vanilla. You will learn to switch when you find the right Dominant man."
Well, I'm still here! Still Dominant, still kinky as can be, still won't switch!
Another one of my many jobs is pornography. I produce, direct, and star in fetish clips. Sometimes all at the same time, and sometimes I am only the director, which I enjoy very much. However, I do not shoot any content for any businesses other than my own, or the occasional content trade shoot. Why would I have a company pay me $500 to shoot a few clips and then resell them, for years, making thousands off of me? I would much rather shoot my own content & then make the thousands, thank you very much.
Beyond that, I shoot content that I enjoy. I care far more for whether or not my own desires are fulfilled when I watch the clip later, than whether or not it sells well. And that, I think, is why my clips are so good. They are authentic. They are real!
I do allow submissive clients to earn a discount on my sessions when they serve me on video.
I love being a pro-Domme. I can think of nothing else that would feed my soul more than this work. I have had men who were very attractive pay money to submit to me. Men who were simply so gorgeous that, if I met them out and about on the street, I would've been shy to speak to them and felt they were "out of my league." I have tortured business men, famous figures, & sexually deprived politicians. Why would I want to do anything other than this? I love it.
Today, one of my favorite clients wrote to me as part of his emailed response to a query I had sent him..... ..."So yes, absolutely I trust you Miss Alice...."
Are there any sweeter words to hear? Despite the chains, cruel words, harsh slaps, there is love here. There is trust & devotion.
That is what I live for. I live for that bond, the trust, the exchange of power. I love that, it recharges me and fulfills me more than I could ever say with words.
After struggling for years to define this, I think I can finally explain what the difference is between a lifestyle Dominant, and a professional Mistress. It is similar to that difference of a friend vs a counselor.
Your friend can listen to you. Your counselor can listen to you. But your counselor will remain objective -- emotionally available, but not attached, not having a secret objective.
Similarly, a lifestyle Mistress will become emotionally involved, emotionally entangled in her submissive.... a RELATIONSHIP will evolve..... while a good professional Dominant will try to remain objective. You are paying her to remain unattached while still being there for you. She will have your best interests in mind, help you deepen your submissive capabilities without becoming overly possessive or controlling beyond what you need.
They say that you don't pay a hooker for sex. You pay her to go away afterwards.
I would like to create a new saying -- "You do not pay a pro-Domme for play. You pay her to allow you to escape after she is done with you!"
Since I spend most of my "working hours" being served by intelligent wealthy submissives who pay to spend their time licking my boots & being tortured by me, I do not have a need for more casual play, and I assure you I have no end of sexual partners available to me as well. On the rare occasion that I have need to find sex, or play, outside of my job, I prefer to be the one who initiates it. Being propositioned is a huge turn off for me, from submissives at least. In addition, I would like to make a personal commitment that if I do desire to play with someone, or sleep with someone, outside of my job..... that I will tell them the very moment that I know that I have that desire -- that I will never play games, sneak around, lie, or conceal my intentions. In other words, if I haven't told you in so many words I want you, please presume that I do NOT and do not insult me by asking me or trying to convince me into such.
Now, back to the topic of my work.
I am one of the most selective professional Mistresses in NC, the word persnickety does not offend me in the least -- I am proud of how carefully I select my clients. I am accepting new clients still, but only submissive, obedient, pliable men who I can mold to fit my needs. If you are willing to give up your control & want to experience the best of the best, you can apply to serve me on my website. Just type my name into Google and I am certain you will find the proper channels for such.
Emailing me and asking about sessions here on CollarMe are just wasting my time. The only appropriate way to contact me is to apply to serve through my website or to call me on my paid phone lines for a phone consultation. I do not indulge in free chatter with potential clients. If you are new, or aren't sure what it is like to serve a professional Mistress, find a woman less selective than me, who is willing to hold your hand through the process and indulge you. I will not do so.
If, on the other hand, you are a boy who is ready to retain my services and give me that trust, and love, and devotion, obedience and most importantly..... submit... I promise you this. That I will always do my best to keep you safe, mind & body. That I will always try to keep my equipment clean and in working order. That I will always get your consent (even for the non-consensual) to take control. That I will always respect you, even if I humiliate you. That I will care for you as a human being even if you are, for a time, less than a human during our games. That I will never play with you when I am intoxicated or otherwise mentally or emotionally compromised, only when I am clear headed and ready to pay attention to you and only you.....
(Pay attention to you..... er..... Unless you should hear me say, "Okay slut. I'm going to leave you here on this fucking machine while I go make a sandwich....!"... but I'll let you in on a secret, my dear...I may need to throw out the sandwich and try again, when, the first few attempts result in peanut butter & mayonaise instead of peanut butter & jelly... as I will be intently listening for your safeword the entire time and suppressing my giggles over your moans & squeals!)
In closing, my dear boy, I want you to know something. Whether or not you will ever play with me, if you have a kink or fetish that is to be shared between mutually consenting adults of sound mind.... Please, learn to accept your desires & embrace your pleasure. You are beautiful and there is someone out there who will accept you for who you are. Do not spend your life wondering about your fantasies.... EXPLORE them! |
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