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| I'm an attractive hedonist with a love for teasing, taboos, and making pretty little things say "ouch".
For me BDSM is not about control, dominance, or blind cause and effect. Like anything with the ability to influence, I view it as a powerful tool for growth. When you lose control of the struggle, meaning takes on a new focus. It’s only in retrospect that you realize it’s not the struggle that matters—it’s what emerges. Suffering builds character and pain brings its own release.
I've been in the lifestyle 8 years; I rarely used this website when I started, as I sporadically do now. That said, I'm always open to new friends and conversation. Be genuine, honest, and respectful, and we'll get along just swell. ;)
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