I need to begin by saying this is a VERY serious and sincere posting.
Perhaps I'm searching for the impossible or perhaps I'm just searching for this in the wrong area?
I'm a very confident, tall, attractive man with a good build. I would love to find a woman who I could date, fall in love with and eventually marry but I'm a realistic man and I know the difficulty of fidelity. First and foremost, I want a committed relationship, one filled with mutual love and respect for one another. The relationship I seek is about cherishing each other, understanding each others needs and sacrifice for the love of your significant other. I've come to a point in my life where I would be very happy if it were to please my girlfriend and or wife to see other men on the side while involved in a committed relationship with me. Not only would I be alright with this, but I would honestly encourage it if that is what you truly desired. In this ideal relationship, you will have the freedom to be sexual with your choice of men and know full well that you will ALWAYS have the needed love and respect from this loyal boyfriend/husband. I want to be the man who remains monogamous and submissive to your every need and treat you like the princess you are. I'm searching for a special kind of relationship, a cuckold relationship. A “cuckold” man is one who knows that his significant other has another lover or lovers and he is completely happy as long as the woman he loves is thoroughly satisfied. His happiness comes from being subservient and submissive to his significant others sexual needs. I want to be submissive and subservient to a dominant woman who knows what she wants in her life and takes it. I believe that if we are able to shift our emphasis to love and commitment to hold relationships together, rather than the refutable doctrines about sexual exclusivity which simply cater to jealousies and insecurities, it would not only eliminate much heartache, but it would remove many of the “justifications” for dissolving relationships. With all the hidden affairs that take place in a relationship (roughly 50%) an argument can be made for "sanctioned affairs" that do not involve deceit and "cheating."
Yes, I know full well that there are plenty of men who would spend their life trying to do anything to avoid having their girlfriend or wife cheat on them and I understand why, however, I'm a different type of man and I don't necessarily view what I'm looking for as a cheating spouse, nor do I condone cheating in a relationship. As long as I knew exactly what was taking place ahead of time and I knew that my girlfriend or wife desired the sexual touch of another man now and then, only knowing full well that she would be completely safe from any danger, I would support her needs and desires as a good, loyal boyfriend or husband should.
I am a very protective man to be with and in a relationship. With me, you will be safe and cared for. People would never know or suspect anything. We would come across as the average couple but you will also have the opportunity to see other men, knowing full well that as your boyfriend or husband, I will remain loyal and at your side, never leave you and you'll understand that your happiness and satisfaction take priority. The bottom line here is that you will have total control of our sex life. I will share in the responsibility of everyday life and decision making but when it comes to our sex life, you will always be the one who’s in control and dictates the outcome.
When there is a mutual respect and love for one another, I would feel confident enough to even help you pick out an outfit for your dates and have the bubble bath ready for you when you return.
I want to fall in love with you, be in love with you, I also want to be loved by you as well. I just need to be the submissive in this relationship and at 35 years old, I'm now fully aware of who I am and what I'm best at and I've fully accepted that. I knew for many years that this is the type of relationship I need to be in but I fought to fit into the societal norm, only to be unhappy in any relationship I’ve ever been in. I’ve never been married nor do I have any children. I would love nothing more than to find the right woman who wants the same as I do and have a wonderfully life growing old together.
My number one wish is for my girlfriend or wife to be completely happy and satisfied. I hope she can fulfill all her sexual desires and share her experiences with me while I'm scrubbing her back in the bathtub or simply massaging her feet.
I realize I'm looking for something that doesn't fly to well in main-stream society but if you think this is something you might be interested in as well, then maybe we're an ideal match for each other?
Remember, anything is possible and who says you can't have your cake and eat it too? You deserve that don't you? I'm a man who thinks you do.
In the meantime, I'll keep my fingers crossed and hope to receive some sincere responses.
Thank you for taking the time to read this and I hope to hear from you :)