Profile 4.0 (Bigger, better stronger)
Just a guy making his way in the universe. 42 years experience of being me, a work in progress. I join the local community a few years ago but have had limited opportunities to play. I have however learned that I am not into playing with random play partners. While I have learned from playing and continue to learn, I have played with someone with whom I had more of a commitment. I found that I am looking for more of a connection with the person that I am playing with. Be that a friendship or a more romantic relationship.
I am more of a sensationalist, with some sadist added in. Maybe more than a bit. I look forward to contining to grow and learn more about myself and the lifestyle. This has been my 4th update in the past 2 years and most likely not the last. While all of those “about me” sections were true at the time, but with my personal growth they have become less of who I am.
On a non kink note I enjoy reading, writing, gaming (video, board games, and strategy) tv and movies when time allows. I have discovered within the last few years that I enjoy gardening as well.
Hiking, photography, soccer, etymology, and history.
I would rather you contact me and have a few conversation prior to a friendship request and I would very much like continued conversation after the fact. Most of the folks on my friends list are folks that I have had actual and regular contact with. I am the owner of a local group in my town with the purpose of growing the community here in town. I have currently introduced 2 people to the lifestyle and 3 others to the local community. If you are interested in joining the community please feel free to contact me. I will introduce you to others who are safe and more concerned with you safety and health than with playing. Things I have experienced
1. Impact play
2. Electrical play
3. Bondage (limit rope use but getting better)
4. Sensation play
5. Fear play (mind fucks and interrogation)
6. Fire cupping
7. Rape play Things I think I might like
1. Hypnosis
2. Wax play
3. Intense electrical play
4. Sensory deprivation
5. Certain Aspects of Leather (some interest in starting a velcro family) Side note: Loyalty and faithfulness are the two traits that I am most looking for in a friendship or partner. If you can't be faithful to yourself, family, friends, beliefs, or job: You will not be long tolerated or made to feel welcome with me. I recently lost a friendship due to her inability to show any faithfulness to that friendship and sharing personal information that should have been my story to tell if it was told... “I know that you believe you understand what you think I said, but I'm not sure you realize that what you heard is not what I meant.” --robert mccloskey