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meile2

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At this time looking for friends only.......
Would be happy to meet subs that not owned ( IE not slaves), talk to newbies searching , ex-military. I am NOT looking to be property.In case there is some confusion - you may be thinking,what happened to the Domina profile that was here? - meile... I am her sub, er slave, now with my own profile. you can still contact her here. I will let her know.

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2/19/2015 5:05:56 PM
  Get yourself a cup of coffee,soft drink or glass of milk and cookies and be comfortable as you read my thoughts.  I warn you this journal can be considered a bit  long. The journey begins.....  
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Who am I ?  
  First,I am not a slave, but now a sub of my former  Mistress .  I am looking mainly for friendship with other subs and  unowned,discharged former slaves  that know what is expected of a submissive  in the D/s lifestyle.  
Second. I am a Yankee transplant that moved to the mid-south mainly for the weather (a gentler winter) and am living in a small-to me-town southeast of Memphis in northern MS.              XXXXXXXXXXXXX

As a USN, ret.I would be happy to form a friendship with ex military .
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General Thoughts on D/S lifestyle  
I read  a statement on  an unknown to me Mistresses profile that said
As a slave there is no " finish line "   That is so true.  One can say that all slaves are submissives,  not all submissives are slaves.
I am aware that what many submissive men especially the young bloods say and think they may want or need.  They say: 'do whatever you want with me and I will be your slave forever, beautiful goddess.'  Yes  Mistress can be a goddess for we are all temples of Deity. Nothing is forever except the soul  and pain inflicted to it. And how do you know this goddess, a possible Domina is beautiful, never having laid eyes on  her looking into the mirrors of her soul?  
The list of like and dislikes of any potential Domina for you, much the one given for profile purposes on sites like this might read like a list of fantasies that many submissive men  say they want, without meaning it, without having considered the actuality, the reality of it, the consequences, their future from the moment of possession. There are needlessly cruel, brutal things that you can read in  femdom fiction and domes demands on-line and off that might be desired. So submissive, as the old saying goes, it’s not what you don’t know that will get you but what you THINK you know. Learn as much as you possibly can BEFORE you commit yourself to any relationship.   
I won't make an entire list and won't say that all those things are or are not true wants and needs. After years of consideration of consequences, I can know and appreciate that fantasy and reality can be, and usually are very different indeed.  
I no longer feel the need to often analyze the lifestyle style I live or myself, and have acknowledged and accepted that I live the life I want and need to live, that of a former slave, but forever submissive to Femme Authority. XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
Some people in the BDSM  world might find it hard to understand that  fully collared subs can have their own lives, jobs, homes, partners outside of this lifestyle etc. and do not live with a dom/Domme on a full time basis, yet are owned by the owner Dom/Domme who can own several subs at a time.  The BDSM lifestyle is not all about sex, beatings, groveling, giving up of all rights of a human. To me the world of BDSM is more about protocols, manners, and mindset, plus honesty, integrity, patience, and respect of each individual person as an individual. 
   
   
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10/18/2013 11:18:52 PM [Report Entry

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On-line D/s does nothing for me.  It's nothing more than a useless game.  This lifestyle is not a game to be played, it's a style of living, albeit not the norm.  
hat on-line has to consist of.  What good do to have a sub stand staring at a Dominas picture on the wall, being verified by web cam in order to show his devotion to her?  Both of  them have enough to do.  That to me is disrespectful  of someone's time and service and says that their servitude is disposable which leads to the thought that they then are garbage.  
I also like to take time to brainstorm to fulfill and deepen our mutual goal of a , stable  friendship and understanding of what it is to be a male sub to a Femme Authority relationship.  These kind of talks help both to improve ourselves the strengths in the roles of D/S.  Anyone who believes they are perfect in their thoughts and actions in their respective positions is delusional and a downright stupid idiot.   
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Some people in the BDSM  world might find it hard to understand that  fully collared subs can have their own lives, jobs, homes, partners outside of this lifestyle etc. and do not live with a dom/Domme on a full time basis, yet are owned by the owner Dom/Domme who can own several subs at a time.  The BDSM lifestyle is not all about sex, beatings, groveling, giving up of all rights of a human. To me the world of BDSM is more about protocols, manners, and mindset, plus honesty, integrity, patience, and respect of each individual person as an individual.  
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Two topics everyone is cautioned about: politics and religion.  
WITCHOLOGY.....When I stand up for myself and my beliefs of non-Abrahamic gods and goddesses, they call me a witch, even though I am a male......When my credo in life is to let others practice their faith the way they want to even if it hurts others( a black arts practitioner which I AM NOT), they call me a witch... When I stand up for those ideologies of being a tree hugger, herbalist  I practice they call me a witch...... When I practice my religion around the lunar calendar and daily, the call me a Pagan witch... When I speak my mind, think my own thoughts or do things my own way not intentionally hurting someone or something, they call me a witch..... Guess what. I'm a Witch and proud of it!  in control of  HIMSELF  in his religious views ! So if consider yourself a fundamentalist Christian, or fundamentalist Jew, Muslim, we would nor suit.  If you are open minded in your religious views, we would.  An atheist to me has beliefs.  S/he believes in no Deity, thus a belief.  
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Politically I am a Progressive Democrat, not a  Conservative Republican  nor Libertarian, not a neo-con, not a T- partier though I will drink tea, and not a Communist.  Will discuss right-wing Republican politics, but you will not convert me.  
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Thank you for taking the time to read this journal and getting to know a small part of me.    

Sometimes the slaves expectations of himself are higher than my expectations of him. 'One of the few things I have left to me - my word is my bond. If I say I will do something - I do it to the best of my ability. And I believe - no one can take this from me.' ~~A quote from an old movie - 'Rob Roy'.  
 As Dave Ramsey says better than I ever could, that my guideline in for life has become: ' The path to success starts with you.  If you can manage the person you see in the mirror you can win at  anything'.  So look into the mirror and tell yourself, you are a winner, a sub that is wanted and accepted for his desire to serve a dominant with the best he can give.'If it is a true Mistress you seek, sit firmly in your own submission. Submit to yourself and to the idea of submission. Give in. Give it up. She will see it. She will be drawn to it. She will know. She will hear your cry and see your hunger and it will cause Her own to rise. Express it without hesitation and without vulgarity. And most importantly, express it with dignity and in a language of whispers only She will hear. Live it from your center, from your soul'. (unknown author) 


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beth4humilation
 
 Age: 29
 Alexis, North Carolina