Hello Mistress
Thank you very much for taking the time to read my profile. I am new to this so please bear with me. I am interested in learning how to be a sub and how to submit. I know I have a lot to learn. I know that I may be wrong about some things that I believe now and that I might change my opinion with time. In fact I should change as I grow and learn.
As I said I am new. So I may I don’t understand everything. I am here to submit, to meet your needs and to make you happy, but also to learn. Here is what I think I understand about being a sub.
1. You are the Dominant and you are in control. You do not need me but I need you..
2. My submission is voluntary. You can force me to obey but you cannot force me to submit. I must submit willingly. My submission is my gift to you.
3. I can have limits and I should tell you what they are up front to avoid confusion. So here are My limits:
· No blood, No extreme pain, no permanent marks.
· Not into scat but enemas are ok. I am open to the possibility of golden showers but not into drinking piss.
· I have nothing to do with things involving children.
· No guns, no knives and no sharp objects. No cutting or piercing.
· No burning or branding. I am open to hot wax.
· Not into humiliation except possibly as part of discipline or punishments.
· No drugs
· I do not smoke
· Whips and canes are weapons that can kill. They should only be used by those trained in them.
4. I believe in total power exchange. That the power in the relationship comes from my submission. Once we have established the limits and I have submitted to you, then you have total control with in those limits. You may push those limits to as part of training, discipline or to expand my knowledge. You can bend but you cannot break them.
5. Safe words should be used. Yellow means time out lets talk. Red means I need to stop. If I trust you this should not happen to often but trust takes time. I realize you may have different safe words and I will use them.
6. I understand that I should have a sub checklist ready for you to request. I will be happy to forward a copy of my sub checklist if you ask. If you have a checklist that you prefer that I fill out I will gladly do so.
7. I am open to discussing poly situations if you so desire.
8. Safe, sane and consensual.
The following is not very sub like and I am sorry if I offend but I feel it must be said up front to avoid confusion or awkward situations. If mistress is interested in getting a housekeeper for cleaning or laundry please consider someone else. I am into BD not housekeeping.
I am willing to do a lot for my mistress but one thing I will not do is pay for your services regardless of how this is phrased. Gifts, tribute or tokens of appreciation are all forms of payment. Paying makes me a john and you a whore. While you might be OK with that I am not. This is not supposed to be about money. Sorry Ma’am but that is that. I am giving myself to you, my gift of submission. I am willing to yield to your control. I think that should be appreciated and respected. I think that should be enough.
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