Maximus

I write, paint, and sing/lead a rock band. For me, D/s is another exquisite art form that aches to be expressed as such. At its best, my sub and I are in a constantly evolving performance art piece. I enjoy humiliation scenes, protocols etc. as well as the artful administration of pain. But its the larger dance that makes this sublime. It is about going to a mental and emotional place that you haven't been to before. And once in that place, learning passions and truths that tap into your core energy. Its about you finding yourself immersed and helpless to do anything but surrender and revel in your submission. Its about you marveling at how I have shaped your energy and found an exhilerating new way for you to exhibit your submission. Its about you *wanting* and getting wet at the thought of, being on your knees, head at my feet. Its not what you *should* be doing, but rather, what you - having decided for yourself - *must* be doing, for your femininity and sexuality to be fully realized.

My Ideal Person:

You must want an intense, powerful and paradigm shifting D/s relationship. Romance, Adventure, Discipline, Spontaneity, Ritual, Humiliation, Passion, Pain, Tenderness, Savageness, Communication, Intellect, Laughter and lots of creative, peak level Sex.

As noted earlier, I think in terms of being a D/s artist. This means that our lives are infused with the D/s dynamic, either overtly or subliminally. It means that as my sub, you are ready and willing for me to "turn the dial up" re my requirements of you, at any given time. You will never know - when we see each-other, or for that matter, when your phone rings - what I will have in store for you. Doing the things I require of you are wonderful expressions of our D/s dynamic. But the goal, on a more profound level, over time, is to form a deeper spiritual bond between us that will grow and make our activities very meaningful.

I am assuming that you are an inherently healthy, smart, and together woman, who values herself and what she brings to a relationship. I am going to expect to see your submissive colors early on, but I know that for some of the deeper, more intense things, it will take time to build the trust that is needed for you to truly surrender and do what I require of you - and enjoy it. If you are for real, I am happy to spend my time nurturing you to arrive at this place. But it’s not just about me teaching and guiding, and you arriving somewhere. We are constantly arriving and constantly on the journey, together. Even as my sub or slave, you will also teach me, and nourish me in a way that touches and illuminates me in the deepest of places, as I do you.

And I should probably mention that the vanilla dimension of us is as important as the D/s. When responding, tell me about yourself from both sides of that line. We have to click in many places, so share whatever is special about you – things you like to do. For example, a love of rock and roll and dancing to 80s tunes carries a lot of weight around here! ;-} Oh yeah. And you better have a sense of humor. Sorry to be picky, but life is just too complicated without one. And I am 44. Your age is not hugely important to me as long as you have the accountability of a woman and the enthusiasm of a girl.

The closer to NYC the better, but I’ll reach out to 150 miles for the right woman . However, if it is Long D. then you must eventually be willing & able to relocate to NYC.

Looking forward to talking to you.