My journal tends to be a place that I vent about my frustrations. I recognize that the BDSM community is made up of many wonderful and varied people with a wide variety of interests. What appeals to one of us may be distasteful to others. I get it. However, guys, is it really necessary to act like ignorant, disrespectful morons when you contact people?

There are several woman, most of them subs or slaves, that I chat with. I continue to be amazed by the number of men who contact them with nothing more to say then "You are my cunt and will do what I want."

I'm not the most creative guy out there but please stop treating the women here like that. If you are able to develop a bdsm relationship with a women and she becomes your cunt to use as you see fit, very cool! But please wait until that happens!

Vent complete!

Although I continue to be frustrated by the number of fakes on this site and others, I have had the good fortune to meet with a few wonderful people. Some of them have been involved in bdsm for a long time and one was a complete newbie. While I normally don't get to excited about people who are brand new to bdsm, this wondersful soul was so open about her desires and was extraordinarily open-minded. Hopefully, I will continue to find such great people to share part of my life with.