Domination and submission / dominance-and-submission / D & S / D/s , sexual gratification from the consensual role playing of sexual fantasies in which one partner is being controlled by another, but for the enjoyment of both partners. Domination should always be safe , sane and consensual.

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NeedleHunter, wow I have seen stuck on ones self before but this takes the cake, the man that goes for this has no self worth at all therefore in submitting to you an you accepting his submission says you have none as well, sub or not two people should want to compliment each other in comon goals an their own personal goals, you are way too self centered to be a god fearing woman. In fact you have a god complex so it seems. What this person(NeedleHunter)has to say about themselves.... I am a single, straight Dominant woman. I will only have sex when I am married and with the MAN I am married to (in case you didn't catch the straight description earlier). I will work with women or men - I am looking for people to put people power (most people would use man power) to my dreams and aspirations. You need to be a motivated individual who is not afraid to work and wants to make a difference but have no particular aspirations of your own - your goal is to find someone to serve. You don't have any particular requirements of the person you serve (you aren't going to tell me I have to let you live with me, keep you locked in a cage, etc etc), but you do want to serve someone who is actually doing something in this life to make a positive impact on the world. At the end of your life (and at periodic intervals along the way) when you see what I accomplish you will feel great pride and satisfaction in knowing that your service made me able to accomplish more and make more of a difference (I will make a difference with or without you). You will be a Christian and want to serve God. You will wonder why you are even on this website, and you will have serious doubts that you can find what you are looking for; but you keep coming back even though you think it is like "looking for a needle in a haystack" - a seemingly impossible task and one that requires great effort, but you want something so much that you will work for it. You will not want to talk about your penis, your vagina, your sex life, your sexual fantasies, your worthlessness (because you will believe you have something of value to offer) or wanting pictures or to chat on another website (or on this one for that matter). You will have the competence to both read what I have written and write something at least as intelligent in reply. You will know that I am busy and that you need to do something to grab my attention. You will be planning your trip to Arkansas before I even respond, because you will feel that I am the one who can change your life. I am strict, I am serious, I work hard when it is time to work, I understand there is a time to play (and sex will only be part of that play if we are married), and I understand that you will need training.