What I search for in no particular order either situation would be excellent...
- a female sub/slave that wants to become a full time live in. My expectations are that she would serve both domestically and sexually, be involved in various BDSM activities and project an attitude of willingness to give her best effort in all that is asked.
- a couple sub/slave/submissive cuckold for a live in situation. Full time members of the household. I would direct both of their sex live and manage day to day activities.
- a local couple sub/slave/submissive cuckold that would not necessarily be live in but would want the control and direction.
Welcome to my profile I do believe it is time to update. We all grow with time and experience and it is only right to update our growth. My original profile was written when I was a Dom looking for a female submissive to join my household. Today I have a slave (slave joan) that I have introduced to this way of life and I must say we have both become better in our roles because of it.
As we look to the future it would be great to add either a female or submissive couple that is interested in taking their submission to a deep level. What is important is that they see their service as encompassing domestic, sexual and various BDSM activities. The attitude should be one that is willing to give the best effort in all that is asked.
We enjoy all the physical aspects of this way of life but the power exchange, structure and order are really what make the relationship one that will persist. When I think about the environment there are many words that come to mind, protocol, rituals, rules, discipline, reward and punishment. Setting of expectations, assessment of results and communication all are key elements. Shelter, safety and responsibility which are a two way street, we each have ownership in these areas. Micromanagement wondering what that word means to you. I am sure there are many other words that come to mind for you as well I would look forward to discussing them with you.
I know what I have described above is general in nature and I am hoping that we can dive deeper into their meaning.