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Male Dominant, 23, Altamonte Springs, Florida
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Male Dominant, 54, Florida Panhandle, Florida
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About MasterPanache
Only a true and experienced Dominant can understand and see true submission.
To really understand their real purpose in life, a life of servitude.
You, as a slave, do not serve hoping or expecting to receive pleasure; you serve because it is your purpose and your passion. To a slave, NOT serving is akin to not breathing, like a hand clenched around your heart, squeezing ever tighter. Women were born to submit. A woman is a born pleasure slave. The burning within her belly can only be quenched by the Dominant who understands why it burns thus so.
Only the Dominant who is the master, the tamer, the conqueror, and the owner of the woman he claims as his own, can relieve the burning from within.
This however, is only the beginning.
Next comes the molding, shaping, and forging which brings to the exterior that which is trapped within........A slave does nothing she is not instructed to do, nothing.? So anything she does is what she is supposed to do.? That means that she need not busy her mind as to appearance, manifestation or respectability of her actions.? She needs focus on doing the task as well as she possibly can, because her tenets instruct her to do all things to the best of her abilities.? It is not her fault or her goodness and she must never feel responsible for her actions.? For her there is no ?right? or ?wrong? only ?right now?.? The ?rightness? being outside her frame of reference.? This ?rightness of action? is totally her Master?s responsibility........
I believe that slaves are made to be used and enjoyed. That they are?fuckmeat to be used hard and enjoyed. That they are 3 holes that exist for the pleasure of their owner(s) and their whims. That they should strive to be raw sexuality personified..as arousing and aroused at all times as possible. A constantly hungry mouth, cunt, and ass for cock, cunt, fingers, tongues, toys...whatever is presented. As such dress, when allowed, should always be as stimulating and provocative as possible. she should be proud and revel in what she is...words like slut, slave, fuckdoll should be terms of endearment.
Answer me this;
Are you the type of girl that..... Hides when feeling overwhelmed?
Is extremely shy and quiet, until you get to know someone?
Has an obsession with shoes, but can be found barefoot a lot of the time?
Still sleeps with a teddy bear?
Prefers small get together's with close friends over big groups of strangers?
Would rather spend her nights at home with family than out?
Blushes and gets tongue tied when speaking to unknown people?
Can trip over flat surfaces?
Is still a little girl at heart?
Reads or goes through books like some people go through underwear?
Avoids confrontations like the plague?
Has a hard time making friends?
Is trustworthy, but doesn't trust others?
Is a compulsive list maker?
Believes most people are guilty until proven innocent?
Giggles at really inconvenient times?
Can be quite ditzy at times?
Believes real beauty comes from within?
Is a girly girl, tomboy?
Is all too often found cooking or cleaning?
Enjoys looking out the window and seeing nothing but trees?
Loves the sound of rain or a storm?
Listens to all kinds of music? Loves simplicity?
Has always been referred to as odd, weird, unique, or marching to the beat that only I can hear? Speaks in quotes at times?
When she walks her head is down?
Wishes people would break out into song High School Musical style more often?
Loves singing in the car when happy?
Tends to shy away from people who feel that every sentence needs a curse word?
Has a very very hard time sleeping by herself?
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DO I UNDERSTAND YOU?????
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Dominant vs domineering
What is the difference?
In my view, through the window of my eyes;
A domineering person believes that being a dominant is all about being in charge no matter what.
They disregard the opinions of others, talk themselves up, they are overbearing, selfish, loud and tyranny is their best friend.
Oppressive behaviour towards their submissive.
Its about control and showing it.
They live in a fantasy world of One.
A Dominant is a teacher, a guide, a protector, a nurturer, considerate, responsible, great decision maker, a leader, reliable, secure, confident, strong, caring, loving, and respectful.
He has control of his life, he dominates, he is successful in all of his undertakings, he influences people around him, he inspires with his actions, he is listened to, he is sought for advice, he carries the alpha persona.
A Dominant person exercises control but does it in subtle way, providing guidance, influence and thoughts instead of making threats and punishing physically.
Dominants are extremely considerate of their submissive, as they become their main focus. He takes on the responsibility and care of her heart and soul. He understands sympathy and empathy. He understands their needs. He understands that submission is earned with trust.
A Dominant lives in a fairytale for Two.
What makes a good Dominant?
Only the submissive can answer that.
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Only a "True Dom" will be there for you, whenever you need Him, just like a Mother with a child.?
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The joy of being a slave. ?
None of the decisions are yours. ?When you can't refuse anything and can't even move, those voices in your head go silent. All you can do, and all you are permitted to do, is feel." --Cherise Sinclair
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9 Levels of Submission
By Diane Vera?
(these are not rigid definitions of submission)
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1. THE OUTRIGHT NON-SUBMISSIVE MASOCHIST or KINKY SENSUALIST.
Not into servitude, humiliation or giving up control; just pain and/or spiced-up sensuality, on the masochist's own terms and for the masochist's own direct pleasure (i.e. turned on solely/mainly by one's own bodily sensations rather than by being "used" to gratify one's partner's sadism).?
2. PSEUDO-SUBMISSIVE NON-SLAVE.
Not into even playing "slave," but into other "submissive" role-playing, e.g. schoolteacher scenes, infantilism, "forced" transvestism. Usually into humiliation, but NOT into servitude, even in play. Dictates the scene to a large degree.?
3. PSEUDO-SUBMISSIVE PLAY SLAVE.
Likes to play at being a slave; likes to feel subservient; may in some cases like to feel one is being "used" to gratify partner's sadism; may even really serve the dominant in some ways, but only on the "slave's" own terms. Dictates the scene to a large degree; often fetishistic (e.g. foot worshippers).?
4. TRUE SUBMISSIVE NON-SLAVE.
Really gives up control (only temporarily and within agreed-upon limits), but gets her/his main satisfaction from aspects of submission other than serving or being used by the dominant. Usually turned on by suspense, vulnerability, and/or giving up responsbility. Doesn't dictate the scene except in very general terms, but still seek mainly her/his own direct/pleasure (rather than getting one's pleasure mainly from pleasing the dominant).?
5. TRUE SUBMISSIVE PLAY SLAVE.
Really gives up control (though only temporarily; only during brief "scenes" and within limits) and gets main satisfaction from serving/being used by dominant-but only for FUN purposes, usually erotic. May/may not be into pain. If so, is turned on by pain indirectly, i.e. enjoys being the object of one's partner's sadism, on which the submissive places very few requirements or restrictions.?
6. UNCOMMITTED SHORT-TERM BUT MORE THAN PLAY SEMI-SLAVE.
Really gives up control (usually within limits); wants to serve and be used by the dominant; wants to provide practical/non erotic as well as fun/erotic services; but only when the "slave" is in the mood. May even act as a full-time slave for, say, several days at a time, but is free to quit at any time (or at the end of the agreed upon several days). May or may not have long-term relationship with one's Mistress, but, either way, the "slave" has the final say over when she will serve.?
7. PART-TIME CONSENSUAL-BUT REAL SLAVE.
Has an ongoing commitment to an owner/slave relationship and regards oneself as the dominant's property at all times. Wants to obey and please dom(me) in all aspects of life-practical/non erotic and fun/erotic. Devotes most of time to other commitments (e.g. job) but Dom(me) has first pick of the slave's free time.?
8. FULL-TIME LIVE IN CONSENSUAL SLAVE.
Within no more than a few broad limits/requirements, the slave regards herself/himself as existing solely for the Dom(me)'s pleasure/well being. Slave in turn expects to be regarded as a prized possession. Not much different from the situation of the traditional housewife, except that within the S/M world the slave's position is more likely to be fully consensual, especially of the slave is male. Within the S/M world, a full time "slave" arrangement is entered into with an explicit awareness of the magnitude carefully, with more awareness of the magnitude of power that is being given up, and hence is usually entered into much more carefully, with more awareness of the possible dangers, and with much clearer and more specific agreements than usually precede the traditional marriage.?
9. CONSENSUAL TOTAL SLAVE WITH NO LIMITS.
A common fantasy ideal which probably doesn't exist in real life (except in authoritarian religious cults and other situations where the "consent" is induced by brainwashing and/or social or economic pressures, and hence isn't fully consensual). A few S/M purists will insist that you aren't really a slave unless you're willing to do absolutely anything for your Dom(me), with no limits at all. I've met a few people who claimed to be no-limit slaves, but in all cases I have reason to doubt the claim.?
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