MasterofWhip

It is only the great men who are truly obscene. If they had not dared to be obscene, they could never have dared to be great.
Havelock Ellis
English sexual psychologist (1859 - 1939)

"A question that sometimes drives me hazy: am I or are the others crazy?" - Albert Einstein

"Come here and sit on my lap and we will talk about the first thing that pops up" - favorite pick up line.

I don't feel the need to put a lot of thought in my message to you (if I message you) because I have put enough in my profile. A lot can happen following a simple "Hello". If you expect to be swept off your feet with the very first message then understand that it is more often than not followed by a sudden unexpected fall on the ground. And then you cry "Broken Heart".

Know that all that has to be said is not said here. Just some. What kind of a person would he be who can tell you everything about him in few words? Everything he is and everything you and your life will be with him.

### What I am looking for:
Looking for someone who is willing and capable of getting into a committed relationship in the long term. Race, caste and location does not matter. What follows in my profile is mainly targeted to LTR relationship.

### What I have to offer:
I am a regular guy. I am educated, clean, organized and well mannered. What l will offer is honesty, safety and a no BS no drama relationship. I have more than a decade long experience in the lifestyle as a dominant but I am still learning. I don't have a single submissive bone in my body. I have learned a lot in this life and outside it and I am still learning. Although this is about kink and D/s lifestyle, it won't be unrealistic and what needs to be there for us to be a part of the vanilla society will be there. But in the relationship itself there will be very little vanilla and all D/s, 24/7. This does not mean you won't have your own identity in outside world. For example if you are a career woman, this relationship won't affect that. The kind of mental connection I want will require a lot of trust, patience and effort. I am prepared and available to that end and the same would be expected from you. This kind of connection is essential for absolute and complete control eventually. I know you need someone who can understand you. In return for your submission you need love and care. I am capable of providing that and it will grow over time.

### What I want you to offer:
Need someone with soft nature and easy going. Understanding and smart is good. Lovable and positive attitude is awesome. If you are a pessimist and find it difficult to find reason to be happy or to laugh and enjoy then we surely won't get along. I am allergic to negativity. You MUST be submissive by nature. Which means it must be something you are comfortable in and should want and need it. If you don't have to make an effort to submit but it comes naturally to you then I want to get to know you. You are someone who is happiest at your master's feet. If you understand the dynamics of a D/s relationship then you know what you would have to offer to me and what will be offered to you. Again, I don't care about race or ethnicity. Location is also not important. Of all the problems distance is the easiest to solve in today's world. There will be details and adjustments but I think this gives basic idea of what I expect from you. I am looking for a submissive, loyal and faithful companion for a potential lifetime commitment and servitude. You ideally want to live a life of complete servitude and complete control. I can put this in detail when we start talking.

### Now some random things. Only some.
First and foremost I value submission above anything else. I am among those who are into the mental aspect of D/s. That is what makes me happy, that is what turns me on and that is what keeps me comfortable in a relationship. It is an amazing feeling to have someone at your beck and call. It is an amazing feeling to have someone who trusts you deeply and it is an amazing feeling to be worthy of that trust. It feeds my ego and it fuels my happiness. I aspire to see myself being respected and trusted in the eyes of my submissive and the first thing on my mind every day is to ask myself if I am worthy of it today too. Having said that I want a submissive that sees things in a similar light but from a submissive's point of view. My submissive shouldn't be judging me. Or asking if my actions are just, fair, safe or wise. I do that enough for both of us. My subs' only thoughts should be to do whatever is necessary to keep me happy. If both sides work that way then it's like living in heaven. I do not care about discussing activities. There will be plenty of time to talk about and try out... whatever. What matters to me is if we click. If we are compatible and if our idea of D/s matches. Once that happens sky is the limit.

I protect the chemistry of a dominant and a submissive. I think people are like elements. Mix together in a given environment and setup and you get a different alloy. But, I don't think two people can meet and talk like buddies and be all pally wally and then all of a sudden get into a relationship with that kind of intense power exchange that I envision. Yes, such relationships exist and some vanilla lovers do progress into a deep level of trust and D/s dynamic but that is like love. You don't do it, it happens. Such things cannot be controlled but hoped for and I don't tend to make life decisions based on hope. That does not mean I would be calling you slut in our first conversation because that would be fake too. All I will say is you will experience it rather than read about it here.

If it ends up to be a possible LTR with me then things will get pretty intense. There may be a lot of behavior modification and very intense 24/7 training. Not painful or hurtful or least of all harmful but I will really get inside your head and bring the submissive out of you if needed. If that's what you really want then LTR with me is a very strong possibility.

I am not activity focused. But, I understand it is also important to get an idea of my kinks. So following is just a glimpse.
I am into Ass play; "hugely". Even on the worst days of my life, I can be turned on by just looking at a nice round female butt. I love spanking. This obviously means you will have your butt and butt-hole played with the most as part of our sexual activity. I would love to have my sub give blow jobs, foot massage, back/neck massage while I watch TV, eat or read something or just sit and relax. I love being in physical contact with my sub all the time. Lots of objectification and innovative ways of involving you in everything i do. Control will be the basis of every activity. I can get very kinky and I may try anything that does not come under the rubric of stupid. A healthy mix of kink, D/s and reality. I tend to always keep things interesting for both of us. Indulge in a lot of dialogue and discover a lot about each other and about all the things we can do not only in this lifestyle but in the vanilla world including traveling.

Having said all this I also have a sadist streak. If you have masochistic tendencies then that would be just awesome but it's not necessary, I tend to get rough at times and I feel the need to keep soft and mushy at other times.