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Male Dominant, 23, Altamonte Springs, Florida
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Male Dominant, 54, Florida Panhandle, Florida
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Male Dominant, 41
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About MasterofRopes66
About me:
I´m looking for a (preferrably lifetime BDSM-relationship with true love!) female submissive/slave in general who WANT to obey and serve and doesn´t test the Dom´s limits/patience all the time. In lifetime relationship all aspects of BDSM is preferred, not just for example serving only, but the whole range of BDSM-aspects in love and sincerity.
The submissive SAYS she is submissive and SHOW that in action too, without "powerstruggle" first.
I see the whole picture in domination and include household-maintainance as evident for the submissive of choice who also include household in her own "picture" as submissive.
This can range from regular D/s-24/7-nonslave-relationship to slavetraining-M/s-relationship. The whole thing becomes what we/our dynamic as a Dom/sub couple make of it!
I´m strongly into ropes/Shibari as that´s one of my biggest cornerstone in BDSM-lifestyle.
I´d really like to explore more in the SM-pain-section as I love these games. I´m NOT a true sadist, but I just LOVE paingames anyway. I don´t thrive of subs actual suffering as much as thriving on challenging her with paingames, testing her limits physically and mentally and experiencing the trust exchanged in letting me do these paingames with/to her at all, a big mental turnon for me!
I have also intruduced absolute beginners to the BDSM-thing with no thoughts of a defined future as a couple or anything. Just introducing them to BDSM right from the very beginning, at their level and in their pace. Later on they´ve moved on to more serious BDSM-relationships with others, with a very solid foundation of the whole BDSM-thing, skilled and experienced of their rights as a submissive and what they could expect from a healthy, sane, thoughtful and caring Dom and that they don´t have to do anything they really don´t want to do themselves.
This kind of tutoring relationships has it´s special kind of joy to me and is also a totally acceptable BDSM-alternative for me...
In "slavetraining sessions" I don´t normally use degrading/dehumanization/humiliation or playing of fear of punishment/other personal/human fears(fear of not recieving acceptance, confirmation, appreciation from Trainer/Owner, among others) to maintain my power.
It all depends on submissive´s OWN WILL and my positive reinforcement to serve and obey.
Instead I focus on positive behaviour/reactions and enhance the good qualitys of a submissive, reinforcing her personal strenghts and sense of selfworth to a strong proud slave. Punishment for bad behaviour etc, is always included in training and required for best results, but CAN absolutely be excluded in individual cases.
In conscent I could also train the submissive in "use and abuse" within the frame of her limits.
If her own wish is to be trained to "no/few limits" that´s managable too.
THIS type of "limit"-training requires deeper re-forming of the the submissive´s whole state of mind, WITHOUT using degrading/dehumanization in general.
These two ingredients can always by conscent be included, but are not by a longshot required/demanded for a successful "limit"training, as one can easily think from other slavetrainers´ trainingdesriptions.
If a submissive doesn´t want these parts for her self, it´s always another slavetrainer out there who doesn´t include them in his trainingdescription.
So this is nothing a "slave-to-be" has to accept at all to become someone´s cherished, priced possession.
The more degrading, more humiliation included does NOT automatically mean "better, more obedient or more appreciated slave" and should therefor NOT in general be the submissive´s ONLY frame of mind prior to slavetraining in longterm view.
Already low selfasteem, poor selfimage and so on is merely in the high risk of being deeper reinforced by including degrading and humiliation and that´s the wrong way to train a slave, by reinforcing underlying "bad qualities". The bad qualities should first be positively directed over extended time BEFORE any real slavetraining starts.
The risks of "rebuilding" a submissive´s state of mind shold be STRONGLY noticed by submissives who want this type of thing and it´s NOT "a walk in the park"!
It requires strong dedication, hard work and determination to accept this "lifechanging challenge" and together we´ll reach the goal....an obedient, positively reinforced and welltrained slave...ready for anything "out there"/in life.
In Life I´m still single, incurable monogamous and no children!*L*
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