MasterMike2009


master212u Male Dominant, 23, Altamonte Springs, Florida	Master4u2Srv Male Dominant, 54, Florida Panhandle, Florida	MasterinWa Male Dominant, 41

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	About MasterMike2009 Recently 21, I decided to put some effort into this profile in the hopes it will pay off. I live in Tallahassee during the majority of the year, but I do travel around a lot (hence why my location is constantly changing). I discovered BDSM from a young age (14 if I recall) and started out online; eventually, it took a bigger presence in my vanilla life as I got older. I have a tendency to remain dominant in everything I do - from academia to work. My BDSM interests are listed twice over on this profile, on the usual left, and below all the legal fun stuff. Looking for a white female able to serve that believes women should be submissive to men. Age unimportant. I will consider all females on case by case, but I tend to lean towards late teens (18+) to late 20s. My interests on the left are fairly up to date. If you landed here by one of the key words on the bottom, those are up to date as well. I would prefer someone close by, but I understand my constant movement makes that... difficult. Please don't hesitate to send me a message. Males go to BULK, but I welcome chat and discussion with any female regardless of affinity. Excuse me while I cover my bases: This profile "content"(1) is (C) Copyright 2011 to Master_Mike_2009. All Rights Reserved. All content displayed is 100% original and has not been reproduced from any other user or "site." All users of "the site" have permission to view, but not reproduce the information(2) stored herein. You may contact me directly for individual requests for use of information, interviews, etc... All solicitations not covered within BDSM, such as spam(3) will be promptly deleted, and/or passed on to the site administrators. All violations and violators will be passed on to the appropriate enforcement services. 1. "Profile Content" is defined as text and photographs ONLY. The layout of the profile is not covered under this claim and is (C) 2011 Collarme.com and Vspin.net both of which have rights to display all content on this profile for users to view. 2. "Information" is defined as pictures, text, or unique ideas displayed on this profile alone. 3. "Spam" is defined as anything not pertaining to a personal message, BDSM, and/or conversation. Solicitation and/or requests for money, "relocation costs", submission costs, or anything similar in nature and language will be marked as "spam." Key Words/Search Optimization: Humiliation, Pain, Objectification, Whoring, Sharing, Watersports, Water Sports, Crying, Total Power Exchange, TPE, White, Slave, White Slave, Florida, Live In, Online, Face Slapping, Spanking, Young Dominant, Young, Psychological Domination, Physical Domination, Clothing Control, Diet Control, Exhibitionism, Exhibitionist, Whore, Hispanic, Forced

Oh look. She's blocked me. Why is it the older the woman the less mature they seem to be? I've had maybe a handful of exceptions, but still...

I had a lovely little message from a lesbian Dominant today... I'll let you guys judge for yourselves. I will note that I can guarantee I do not carry any sense of entitlement unless it is earned. I am a Dominant before all else, and a Master only when I own another.

Her Message:

As a Master who has earned the title, for a 21 to use such a title is an OFFENSE! It would be more believable if you were to call yourself a Top at that age, but what do you know at 21 right? LOL Get a mentor before you pretend to be something your not and either hurt yourself or someone else.

Did you know you there are certain areas of the lower back and ass area that you CANNOT smack or flog because it will cause injury?

My Response:

I currently do not consider myself a Master. A Master is one who owns another. A Dominant is one who currently owns none. Which is a proper description for me. People like yourself, and the person(s) I've written in my journal about are clearly the ones who are ruining this lifestyle. Maybe if you learned proper means of communication and respect, I might respect you a little better. Am I young? Sure. Does it impede me from earning a title that can only be earned through personal experiences? Nope. Call it offensive, call it immature, call it what you'd like. What you believe my experiences to be and what my actual experience might be are two very different things. I can resort to name calling, but if I bend down that low, you might just beat me with experience.

Believe it or not, you can be a young Dominant. Are you fighting an uphill battle against people of age who consider themselves better than you? Sure. But how will you learn if you simply bow to pressure from those who consider you to be less worthy than they? You won't. I'm sure you didn't wake up one day in your former and mediocre middle-aged life and decide to be Dominant. No. That seed was planted long ago. How long it takes to develop into a flowering plant? Well, that depends on the person and how quickly they realize this seed exists.

You might say you "earned" your title. I contest it. For if you'd earned your title, you would respect your fellow Dominants. I do not go around looking for Dominants that I can illicit a reaction from. I do my thing, they do theirs. Next time, perhaps remember that a Dominant is a Dominant, so long as they have once owned.

And so you know, I did know that certain areas of the body cannot be flogged as it would cause injury.

Something members of this website fail to realize: Your age doesn't automatically plus 1 on your birthday. I've seen 18 year olds on here remain 18 for the past three years. Now, it could just be they were underage when they joined, but it hardly seems the case.

In case anyone is wondering by this point, yes, I keep my age up to date; I've been 21 for several months now. My profile does need work though... maybe on a rainy day.

In south fla for the next couple of weeks...

I'm amused. A certain female submissive aged 50-something approaches me, tries to draw a reaction. Shitty English included. When I point out her inability to communicate clearly - a clearly important aspect of this lifestyle - she blocks me. Anyone else have lovely encounters like these? This is part of the reason why I don't deal with older women; some of them have a stick so far up their ass, the words that come out of their mouths rarely make any sense at all.

Edit: I screwed this up. It was a submissive. I'm clearly half asleep.

A person I trusted completely violated that trust and the relationship I had with them last night. They have been removed from my life entirely. Consider this a warning; my trust is as sacred as it gets. Violate it, and you're on a one way ticket to being on your own. Friendship or otherwise.

I think the real question I want answered whenever I am being contacted is: why do you think you're worth my time? It's a simple question, but oh so complex in it's nature. It makes the difference between interest and indifference. It says so much about a person.

I've removed profile pictures. If you REALLY want to see one, drop me a message and I'll be more than happy to trade with you.

Happy birthday to me.

Recently discovered: Partying takes a lot of energy.

Yep. Research has proved it. Try it out for yourselves, but be warned, es include a total loss of productivity, laying around on one's ass, and sleeping. A lot of sleeping.

Edit: I'm annoyed at this now. Collarme refuses to accept a certain word in the journal.

New York City next week.

Will some female under the age of 22 (obviously down to 18), prove to me that there is some hope on this website for the younger submissives and slaves?

A lot of people here say they seek the perfect (insert gender and d/s title here). The thing I see is a lack of certain perfections. Profile after profile after profile all splattered with shattered hopes, spam, and other remnants of hopes that once ran high. The thing is, people expect too much and have too closed of a mind - and this isn't something that can be blamed on any one person or group of people, but perhaps the structure of the lifestyle itself. The lifestyle places us in a position to seek (or be seeked) and in this quest, we end up looking for "The One" which may as well be as hard as tying down to a second marriage. Now, a second marriage might not sound so bad to some, but to others it may not be so easy. Personally, I've been here over a year - and actively searching elsewhere - and have yet to find a compatible match. Some have come close, but never perfection to degree which I would like to see.

I don't blog much on here as you might have noticed, but something occurred to me quite recently that I found to be oddly bothersome. I spend a good amount of time with the online aspects of the lifestyle (don't get me wrong, I enjoy RT much more), but anyways, it is what it is. Sadly, I've come to notice that there are a lot more people who take advantage of this lifestyle than there are who take it seriously. I find this to be appalling because many of these "posers" are using the lifestyle as an excuse to abuse and degrade without trust, purpose, or any sort of relationship - the core values on which this lifestyle is built. Older men take advantage of the many younger women who particularly look for their demographic. The whole thing is a sad affair. I'm curious if I am the only one who noticed this, or maybe its just an "online" thing.

Happy Birthday to Me.

So my 19th is in a few days. Been some years now since I got into the lifestyle. Been awhile, but still have plenty to learn.

Anyways, I'm not expecting much from here, so I won't bother with a wishlist. I know what I seek, and I know what this place offers.

Generalizations will be the death of society.

I realized something this morning, well, no, let me rephrase that, I decided that the thing I'm about to talk about is a big enough trend to take notice of this morning. Undoubtedly, you [as in the non-spammer, non-poser, average collarme user] have noticed how quick some profiles go from joining to "collared" or supposedly collared. Personally, to me, earning a collar is something that takes months, if not years; how is it possible that people are managing to achieve this status in just a few short days?

The simple answer to that is that they're not. People are entering BDSM relationships, but the "collaring" they are achieving is not the true collaring that us true BDSM enthusiasts are accustomed to. More than likely this "collar" will last a few months, maybe a year or two, some might even work out for years, but it is not as permanent as if the slave girl would have had to actually work and earn the collar.

Masters are becoming [or seemingly becoming on collarme] quite desperate. The point is no longer to find the best fit match; the point is to find the match that is willing to do anything for you [the dominant]. Personally, having been here almost a year with no success in my own search, I have learned that it takes the utmost patience, a lot of persistence, and just plain luck. I have no doubt I'll eventually find someone, but am I desperate to get laid to the point where I will accept anyone? Absolutely not. I remain true to my values.

Enough ranting for this morning. Hope everyone has a great day.

Okay, I've done enough browsing to make me want to question something.

What is it about older men that is such a turn-on? Seriously, why would a 19 - 25 year old go for someone twice their age?

Experience? Probably to some extent, but you can find that at pretty much any age level.

Maturity? Also probably a major deciding factor, but nonetheless, I have seen younger dominants mature far beyond their years as well.

Money? Now here's a good one to ponder. Is the girl just gold digging or is she genuinely looking for a relationship in which she submits her entire being?

I know that for sure the relationship will not last long particularly if the person is 50+. I was under the impression that d/s is a lifetime commitment to a single person - roughly comparable to marriage; not one where one grows old while their partner kicks the can once every ten years or so (this in no way reflects actual research - just a random number).

This continues to baffle me, but hey, whatever floats your boat. I'm certainly not doing anything about it.

Haven't really wrote much in here. I've been busy to say the least. I just wanted an opportune moment to enhance my thoughts on what a slave, in my opinion, should and should not be.

I like to think that a slave is a servant; traditional slavery, of course including every aspect of the girl's life. I would say that no limits should be the definition of a slave girl, but that of course would be unreasonable, and not to mention naive. Everyone has their limits, including Dominants. How far is one really willing to go before their reasoning holds them back and tells them, "hang on, this is too far"? It really depends on the person.

Personally, I have a tendency to push what most consider extremes - diapers, knife play, humiliation, public exposure, and other similar items. A slave girl should be open to these; she should be able to open her mind enough to trust her dom to do as he pleases (within reason of course - going back to the whole limits thing).

Now let me elaborate on something else. Criteria for a slave girl. Its written all over my profile, but I think it's necessary to reiterate. A slave girl must have certain looks - be it blonde, brunette, red, or whatever color hair, I do not care, but in terms of weight, I do not want someone who does not care enough to make themselves an attractive property. A slave is an investment; just like you would not buy a broken down house, you would not enslave a broken down, ugly, or disfunctional slave.

I think I will just end it here.

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MasterMike2009

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