BDSM lifestyle: Children(NOT in a sexual way!!!),animals,nature,camping,hicking in the mountains,fishing boating,canoeing,Harley's,American musclecars,hotrods and anything noisy that goes fast and goes WROOOM... lol BRUTALY HONEST! You tell me but I have been told my honesty,being faithful,loyal towards my partner,kind,helpful and a handyman....... I am someone who has been in this lifestyle for years. I am a great kisser,straight and honest,attractive/good looking,100% healthy and D/D free,kind,friendly,compassionate,supportive,reliable,caring,responsible,trustworthy,understanding,gentle,serious,sensiti ve,openminded,faithful,kinky and somewhat crazy.According to my friends I am the devil in disguize-fun to be arround,possitive to everything and everyone. In my world mutual respect and honesty is necessary and highly appreciated. I am not into playing games with your heart,feelings and mind. I am searching for a serious relationship/LTR and a 24/7 sub if everything feels right for both.
Who I am searching for: You are serious,sensual,sensitive,very feminine,honest and faithful and loyal.You are searching for a LTR and possibly more. You are hight-weight proportional,take care of your body,love to snuggle as I do have a romantic side to me. You are very physical,love to touch and being touched/caressed,is romantic and like to be spoiled rotten when you have behaved good.If not you will be punished as I see it fit. Your race/nationality is not important but you don't live in Nigeria/Ghana or any other African country,and I am not looking for a cumdump or to share you with others. You will be dressed as I see it fit in my precense be it wearing nylon stockings/thigh-high's,lingerie/corsetts,spiked stiletto heels,thigh-high boots,leather or latex etc.or just classy/cassual. You are openminded,shaved smooth (as I am) and not afraid to try something new. I am strickt but fair and I might even put a leach on you in public if you are disobidient. I don't mind if you're bisexual and don't mind if you have a girlfriend with benefits.I will not interfere but you need to ask for my permition. I am the kind that could order you to have an vibrating egg inside you-remote controlled ofcourse(with me having the remote)when I take you out and turn it on whenever I want to.I might even surpise you by making out with you anywhere,even outside in the park/in public.You'll never know.... If you like to be treated as a queen/lady when you behave good and a slut when you're not,concider yourself to be worthy of becoming my pet/treasure and worth my care/protection and attention,you know what to do... If you apply be sure to enclose a photo and information about yourself. as I dont reply if I dont see who I write to.
When one comes to me seeking guidance and understanding of what being a true slave is, I ask to all, both free and slave, a simple question:
"Tell me what is stronger than steel?"
It is the answer to this simple yet often non-comprehensive question that is the basis behind the essence of the lifestyle.
Is the answer Honor? No.
Is it The Master? No.
Is it Love? Is it Trust? Is it Respect? Partially,
Often the center of life as a slave seems to be the free; and the slave is but an afterthought. The books suggest a slave is nothing more than a commodity, a product, a possession. They are ... but at the same time they are much much more.
Many masters, and free women, both lowercased intentionally, think what they are comes from degrading the slave before them. That such actions give them strength, give them superiority, set them above the one they do so to. What they lack is seeing that such actions set them below even these animals they degrade.
If the wind blows strong and we slice the sail, are we hindering or helping ourselves? Do we not tighten the ropes and let it catch the wind to carry us where it may?
If a bosk is growing strong in the fields, do we stop it from eating so it wastes away? Or do we nurture it to eventually enjoy that which the beast will give up in th end for us?
If we see the beauty of the Tarn soaring in the sky, will we clip it's wings and expect seeing such splender continue? Or will the rider ease on the harness and let the animal soar free at times letting it still know it's life is owned but also still it's own?
Do we dull a blade and still expect it to cut? Or do we sharpen it to be all it can be for us? Will we work it, fold the steel, shine it and edge it to become a superior extension of ourselves?
The slave is like the sail, is like the bosk, is like the Tarn, is like the blade ...
The power of a Master comes not from within themselves but from within that property kneeling before them. Their strength is given freely to them by the heat and heart of the slave. In the respect the slave shows them, in the trust the slave has in them, and in a love that flows through them ... not forcefully taken, but openly given and fueled by the heat which burns within.
It is the strength of this creature before us which gives us strength ... We are nothing without them. Their love, their heart is what makes us, and in that open giving and receiving, we as Masters, we as free, give that love back to them 3 -fold .... a cycle ever growing and continuing. A symbiotic relation self-perpetuating.
It is our duty to them and ourselves to nurture this creature before Us, allowing them to become, allowing them to maintain the essence of their own individuality while teaching them what it is to grow and be a part of Us.
The answer to the simple question, that which is stronger than steel is now before us ... it is the slave's heart ....the ultimate gift...
For without it, we as Masters, we as free, become nothing.......
Amuzing....... I sent a nice and polite email yo someone claiming to be a slave giving her compliments on her profile and photos and what happends? I get blocked! LOL Some are really funny here lol
If you deside to send me a message,answere these questions in your message. 1. When you look inside of your being, really look hard and deep, do you see seething passion that is untouched, unspoiled and unquenched?
2. Does casual play only serve to torment you, to rattle the bones of your submissive desire enough to leave you truly void of any substantial pleasure and fulfillment?
3. Do you sit awake at night, wishing there were eyes to look into, eyes that pierce your being without effort, eyes that, if lost, would spare you no feeling of lonliness?
4. Do you wish not to pretend anymore?
5. Do you long for the feeling of honestly being cared for, wanted, loved, used, desired? Being the subject of His thoughts, regardless of the nature of them, even striving to provide them?
6. Do you long to be protected, respected, listened to, taught, urged, pushed?
7. Can you see a day in your existance that you become all that you had ever hoped to be?
8. Can you ever fortell a time where boundaries, rules, norms, and common expectations are gone in your life?
9. Do you see yourself never having any inhibition, never feeling the plague of forced self-control?
10. Have your senses been dulled by dillusions, unfairness, inactivity, or resignation.
11. Do you feel there is not One for you, that this part of your journey has been so fruitless as to be aggravating to the point of frustration?
12. Are your fantasies still unfulfilled?
13. Has it been too long since you have laughed until it hurt, or cried until it felt so good?
14. When is the last time you actually sat and talked about everything, no matter how insignificant, until the sun came up, and wished that you weren't finished?
The following is copied from another profile here with the owners permission:
The first sign a man is not the Dominant he pretends to be is when you receive his cut and paste spam message. You know the one he spends a whole two hours to write. He has no self confidence, so he doesn't bother to read your profile and say something original. He sends this crappy message to any and all subs and slaves hoping against hope that someone will buy his bullshit and respond. This rarely happens but he plays the numbers anyway. This also tells me it doesn't matter who responds, pussy is pussy so he will take whatever he can get. Even if for some reason all the planets are aligned and someone does respond he will blow it in the end. This is because he is a loser and NOT the Dominant he pretends to be.
Thank you L for allowing me to copy this into my journal. Bless you!
I am the rarest Dominant Man you have ever had the pleasure to meet. Not because I feels superior, or I feel more intelligent then anyone else nor do I wish to dominate all women. Yet to you I am Sir. I will only be Master after earning your trust I will look into your heart and clearly see your desires. You will tell me the needs of your body, and heart and you will give me complete access to your soul. You are a submissive woman You are strong and proud, You are not my equal nor do you desire to be. You are of service and you desire my strength and knowledge. I will protect you and guide you with my leadership. I am true to myself and my willingness to guide you will always set you free.You will prove yourself worthy with your actions, and my strength and willingness to guide is what is going to allow you to fly and be you. The you who you have always desired and longed to be, for me you will yield and bow at my feet. You look at my face and feel my desire to take you places you have never been, it is your desire to submit that allows me to be who I really am, not who the rest of society wants me to be. My only desire in life is to lead, and yours is to please. The future is unforeseen, but the passion, desire, want, need, to give and to receive is what will set us both into a different world yet to be seen. Only time and dedication is on our side, lets see where this ride takes us Only God knows the future of this blind journey of a life so rare so full of desire and mystery.....
~never judge what you do not understand for each of us is a puzzle it simply takes the right hands to put the pieces in place~
I am not here to play games nor am I here looking for a sub to share with the rest of the world. I am not looking for a doormat either as I allready have one outside my door.... I am here in search of my ONE to share MY life with.The ONE who is alone,lost and helpless without her true Master,protector,caretaker and owner. My sub/slave is not to be shared with others as she will serve me,her one and only Master,she will only obey me and benefit from my support,help,care and love for her as she willingly give me the ultimate gift-her self-for me to mold,train,enjoy,appreciate and cherish as my most valuable treasure. Her experience is not an issue as she will be reprogramed to serve me to the best of her abilities. She will not be broken into submission but encouraged and loved,tresured and supported.Her submission and devotion to her Master is a result of her trust,affection and love for her true Master. She is out there and she will eventually find her true Master and owner.......
If you are in Nigeria,Ghana or any other African country due to some "familybusiness" or other circumstanses,don't even bother to get in touch.....
Update sept.19th 2009 I get some requests from sub's/slaves who are willing to relocate. For your information: I WILL NOT RELOCATE YOU JUST AFTER A FEW MAILS;NOT EVEN AFTER A MONTH OF MAILS;CHATS ONLINE AND PHONECALLS!!! I am searching for the one and not a harem of slaves. READ MY PROFILE BEFORE CONTACTING ME!!!
I read this in profile and had to post it as this is what true submission is all about! It is also a very good description of a true Master. Read and learn!
I am a submissive woman. i find pleasure, joy, and fulfillment from being submissive to another in a loving relationship. i am not weak, or stupid. i am a strong woman, with firm views and a clear concept of what i want out of my life. i do not serve out of shame or weakness, but out of pride and strength.
i look to my loving Master for guidance and protection, for never am i more complete than when He is with me. i know that He will protect my body, my mind, and my soul with His strength and wisdom. He is everything to me, as i am everything to him. His touch awakens me and His thoughts free me. Only in serving him do i find complete freedom and joy.
His punishments are harsh, but i accept them thankfully, knowing that He has my bests interests always foremost in His mind. If He desires my body for pleasure, i shall joyfully give it to Him, and take pleasure myself from knowing that i have brought Him happiness. However, the pleasure of the flesh is but one facet of any relationship. The love, the trust and sharing, the words spoken and felt, those are all parts of this relationship.
my body is His, and if He says i am beautiful, then i am. No matter what i look like to others, i am beautiful in His eyes, and because of that i hold my head high...for who can tell me that my Master is wrong in seeing the beauty in me? If He says i am His princess, then i am that...regal and graceful, and if i see laughter at me in the eyes of others, i do not recognize it, for who are they to call my Master wrong? If He says i am His toy, His slut, His tramp, then i am that...as wanton and dirty as He wants me to be, and if others do not see this, then it is they who are blind, not my Master.
my mind is His, to expand, to explore, to know as only He can. i have no secrets from Him...for secrets are a thing that would keep me from being more perfectly His. Secrets would put a wall up between my Master and myself...and I do not want walls. His lessons are not always ones i would seek on my own, but they are lessons he has decided i need, and so I learn from Him.
my soul is His, as bare to his touch as ever my skin could be when i kneel naked at His feet. Never a moment goes by when i do not feel His presence, be He miles away or standing over me. If i were to ever displease Him, His displeasure would be a blow to my soul, worse punishment than any lashes could be. The anguish of my soul that I feel when i disappoint Him is harder to bear than the physical anguish i feel when His belt caresses me with fire.
i spend my days knowing that the energy and thought He puts into our relationship is as much for my benefit as for His, and look forward to each lovingly crafted scene that we do together. His part is much harder than mine, and i know this and am grateful that He cares enough about me to spend His time and energy so freely on me. i have the easier job: to feel, to experience, to let myself go and abandon everything to Him. i am His pleasure and His responsibility, and He takes both seriously.
After reading the profiles of some of the socalled Masters/dom's posted here I had to write this. To all you socalled Masters/D's out there. Being a Master/Dom is not about beating your sub/slave into submission.It is all about caring,loving,cherishing your sub/slave as the most valuable treasure on the planet! Remember,she is giving you the ultimate gift one could give an other person-her self for you to control and enjoy as you see it fit-and that trust comes from one thing and one thing only.Her unconditional love for her Master/Dom and not out of fear! If you don't recognize this valuable gift and appreciate it for what it is,get the hell out of this site and stop pretending to be something you're not before you seriously hurt or kill someone! Yes I know that some crave pain etc but that does not meen that you should beat the living daylight out if them.If you as a Master/Dom don't know what you're doing you end up hurting your sub/slave to the point of no return and might even du her permanent damage. If that is what you want,step back,look into yourself and seek help from a true Dom/Master ,let them train you to be a Master/Dom if that is who you feel you are.If you deliberately hurt or harm your sub/slave just to see how far you could push her limits, you are not worthy of owning a sub/slave... No offence to anyone,just a good advice....
If you are a wannabe slave/sub who WANT to serve a Master don't send me any applications as I don't want you. If you FEEL that you are a sub/slave in the core of your bones and heart,need a Master to serve for you to feel complete and don't have a choice because it is who you are,feel free to apply.... And to some of you other Masters/D's out there. STOP SENDING ME REQUESTS TO HELP YOU TRAIN YOUR SLAVE/SUB! I am not interested in training others D's slaves/sub! PERIOD!!!
It seems I have to repeat myself. To all you socalled sub/slaves out there. Since the first you do in your reply to my mails is to send me your emailaddress etc.you are showing me that you are a fake and not serious about who and what you are searching. Don't bother to reply if you're not serious!!!
If you live in Gahna,Nigeria or other African state/countries DON*T bother to contact me. I am not interested...NO EXCEPTIONS MADE. PERIOD!!!
Sending me your emailadress without me asking for it in your first message to me is telling me one thing: That you definitely are not seriously searching for what I have to offer and therefore you wont get a reply!!! I HATE liars and players so find someone else to bother or GET LOST!!!!!
A woman could break like a toothpick..however,a woman is more like an egg...If you find the right preasure points,pushing her will only show her true strength. Every great man has a woman behind him...on a leash.
There is a very thin line between absolute pain and total pleasure,between torture and love,caring for and using,pleasing and teasing,fear and respect.
Not many know thetrue difference,very few will come close to realizing the real difference.But even fewer will reach the limit and stand on this very thin line and look arround,know that they have finally unlocked a world they never thought possible,a world of darkness yet sunshine. Many wonder how someone can know anything at all of what bdsm is all about,how someone can understand being a Dom let alone a Master. I will not tell you my lifestory,how I have reached the place I am at right now,nor how I know what most Doms can only dream of realizing. But I will ask you this.... How many sunrises and sunsets have you seen? How many times have you actually laid your eyes upon them? With all their beauty,awe and wonder... Despite your age and experience,can one assume that you have seen more sunrises and sunsets than I have? Experience can mean so much yet it can mean absolutely nothing. Who you are should never be decided upon how many years have passed you by.Rather it should be deffined by how much of those years have you truly concumed,absorbed and taken into your core.
You might wonder what I am looking for in a female. When it comes to a serious relationship I am not looking for a relationship where the traditional D/s ways apply.I am not necessarily looking for someone who will call me sir/Master in public.I am searching for a female who would recognize my power,authority and natural dominance in the relationship.Yet not one who would blindly follow me and simply do as ''i wish without using her own common sense. I am not a perfect being so I will make mistakes and if she is not bold enough to confront me and point them out,the relationship would eventually fall apart. That by no means would mean I am looking for someone to undermine me or not trust my judgement.Rather someone who would have her own sense of individual needs and personality which would merge in with mine.She should be able to know how and when to point out my flaws in a loving,caring way which would reflect her interest and strive to make me as well as herself better. That is the basic outline for what I am searching for in a serious partner.It is only an outline with much more to fill. Who you are and how you are reflects on how I treat you and which parts of me you see and experience.Not that you would tell me what to do and what not to do.It happens in a natural way based on natural insight and instinct. Where you go from here I will leave up to you. Pass me by or take a glimpse of what the shadows conceal.......
