It seems now we are in a time, where loyalty means nothing while in a committed relationship, from my own experience, and observing. I am sure it goes both ways, some

men are just as bad as some women.

If you choose to be a masters submissive or slave, then your committed, now while some owners share for what ever reason, that is there cup of tea. I myself do not share, but when you go to a public function and go to the bathroom and come back, and it looks like,

buzzards are circling your submissive, knowing she has an owner, is really pretty chicken shit. A dom cannot get his own pussy, so he has to try to take someones else's    seriously,  really, wtf is going through there head...

It seems many doms take a submissive or a slave and keep, but there always looking for greener grass. When in fact the grass is the same.

As a dominant it is your job to train your property, to serve you best, your needs and wants, to fit your needs. If your not willing to put the effort in, then go after molly next door. 

When in fact your doing more damage to a submissive or slave if your just using her, until you think the grass is greener. We all know that most subs or slaves come with baggage, most of it not good. You gain there trust, act like you care, just to get what you want, until you think you find greener grass, when the fact is what you have already, will serve your every need.

Ok so the same apply' s to the submissive or slave who thinks the grass is greener on the

other side of the fence, then once they jump the fence and find out its not, well you jumped. there is no coming back...

Master & slave

"Everyone serves someone. The point in life is to serve with your best effort, with your heart in the right place, and to choose Masters that are worthy of what you have to give.

I have been reading on Gor,while in some cases it is different in many cases it is the same, for instance many think BDSM circles its self around sex,perhaps in some cases that is true, but if a Dom is real that is not true,although the slave is there for his enjoyment,the master and slave relationship should not be based on sex alone..

While Gor does not incorperate a lot of bondage Doms in BDSM do for the most, I do not at times Ilike to play,but it does not play a big part in my lifestyle.

As with Gor a real Dom takes resonsibility for the way she acts what she wears and in her learning,what she eats,and how much,and again as with Gor a real Dom would never damage or hurt what is his.

I do not whip for the sake of whipping,that is used for punishment, for me at times I believe impact play is needed, that is just my opinon..