After many years of of being involved in the bdsm scene I am disappointed at what it has become, a place that so called subs and Doms use as an excuse simply to indulge themselves in “kinky sex”. Although I agree that sexual acts play an important part in a submissive/slaves life, this is by no means should be the central focus as it is in so many bdsm relationships. People that base their bdsm relationship solely on sex do not survive, I have seen this time and time again and I feel for submissives and slaves who enter into these relationships and are later bitterly disappointed and disillusioned. It is very rare to meet a true submissive or slave on these sites and it is sad to say that over the years I have only meet I few that are truly what they say they are. The bdsm society tends to want to put subs and Doms into a limited number of boxes so that they feel comfortable that they know and understand a person, but bdsm is far more complex and broad than most people understand a person, so the chances of finding a perfect match can be very difficult if not impossible.
Many so called Doms and Master feel that a submissive or slave should be used as fuck meat passed around and discarded when they no longer desire her. For some both Dom 's and submissives this may be exactly what they want, but in my case the opposite applies, to me a slave/submissive is a rare creature, someone that is a jewel to be treasured, someone who's value grows as her submission deepens and what she gives should not be taken lightly. A Dom/Master as a responsibility for a her training and care.
About me
In the vanilla world I'm an intelligent, refined, professional, fit and passionate about life. In the BDSM world I'm an established and skilled Master, with a sensual but strict approach to sub/slaves. I have had many years experience in bdsm and I am looking to share this with either an experienced sub/slave or one that is willing to take her first steps. If you’re reading this then you must be feeling the craving and yearning to release and express what you know is inside of you. If you are new I understand the fear and apprehension you may feel, but be assured I am an experienced Master that only participates in sane and consensual acts.
You know what you yearn for?, you desire to experience everything you've ever wanted to experience. To feel everything you've ever wanted. You don't think there's any reason why you shouldn't--if you can imagine it, and if you want it. The very idea of kneeling, naked, hands bound...excites you. Of raising your face proudly, willingly giving up your body for whatever is wanted or needed. Of having your limits explored and your boundaries stretched. You want to have things done to you that other women dare only fantasize about. To hear words, sinfully wonderful naughty names, and orders and directions that make you tingle deep inside, that make you want to give yourself up with abandon.
My Ideal Person:
I'm looking for a sub/slave that TRULY has a need to serve, someone that wants to explore the deepest corners of her mind as well as her limits for pain and pleasure. I am open to meeting a sub/slave who just wants to "play", but I am really looking for someone who would enjoy this lifestyle as part of a long and loving relationship , I am NOT looking for online wannabes, I am real and am looking for r/t not cyber.. Maturity and intelligence are a must. As I see it, the Master/sub/slave relationship can be very erotic and fulfilling for both parties. I will take you to places you have never been before, Submission to me (either giving or allowing), means allowing someone else to use one mentally and sexually, for mutual pleasure. My Thoughts On Your Submission 1. A sub/slaves place is to honour her Master 2. A sub/slaves place is to obey her Master 3. A sub/slaves purpose is to serve her Master 4. A sub/slaves pleasure is in accepting Guidance and Discipline 5. A sub/slaves joy is to please her Master. Your happiness should come from mine.
My desires cover many ranges, so I won't limit myself in terms of what I seek, and like to be open to all forms of erotic pleasure and deviance with the right person(s). Whatever partner I'm engaged with, my focus is on what works for us in terms of our truest satisfaction and fulfillment. Yet very selective and not promiscuous. ALWAYS respectful of your hardest limits, but you should be open to a variety of kinks, fetishes, fantasies. I prefer a more erotic engagement, both mentally and physically, when it comes to my desires, rather then strict technical M/s play. As a Master, I can take extreme pleasure in your total subjugation to my authority and desires. Punishment and strict discipline, erotic humiliation and degradation (both physically and verbal), collar and leash, bondage and restraint, nipple play and torments, spankings/moderate to heavy ass whippings, total objectification as a sex slave, dress up-display-exhibitionism, orgasm denial and control, and more. Though I won't seek it with everyone, I'm at a place in my evolvement as a Master where I'm ready to consider full on 24/7 ownership of the right, compatible genuine slave girl. And for that sub/slave I would be a strict, no nonsense but fair Owner/Master. On the less intense side, I can enjoy being a patient, caring Dominant lover to a woman seeking to explore and fulfill her sexually submissive desires in a safe, sane and exciting way.
I'm fussy, I know what I'm looking for someone with no baggage and a view to something a bit more substantial than casual fun. I also don't care how you "identify" - It's about you as an individual and not as a label. If your are here because you cannot find a man in the vanilla world or you have an eating disorder ie, anorexia or obesity then we would not be a good match, you should look else where.
I am a sensual, dominant, and very strict when necessary. I'm interested in emotional play as well as physical with my sub. I demand communication of needs and desires, and a willingness to please. I am considered an Alpha male in a vanilla setting, with a wicked sense of humour and a relentless and persistent passion in the bedroom. I like to toy and play with my sub/slave, I want my sub/slave to experience pain and pleasure and am committed to providing that when the right sub/slave is found.
I'm looking for someone who is confident. Who knows what they want and is comfortable communicating that. That’s willing to explore more. I'm looking for a sub/slave that longs for a gentle and firm hand.
Finally, I rarely initiate conversations on here; If you want to speak to me then it's up to you. I will only contact you if you if I find your profile fits closely to fulfilling my needs.
If you think you might be of interest to me don’t be afraid to send me a message and I will consider you. Please include a picture of yourself with your message or a link to your profile.
