I have a account with the same username.
My name is Ketch (its a nick name I go by) and I am a normal guy.
I know its a surprise right?
You can read more about me in my profile.
I've been finding lately that the more I attend bdsm clubs and parties the more my perspective on cm changes. If I'm in a club I can take the measure of someone quickly and get to know them easier while on cm I find a greater amount of apprehension or bravado.
To be honest that doesn't really bother me because I have made many friends and met a few charmers in the process. That being said I am at this time largely unaffiliated. I'm a complicated guy with many depths. Some of which when discovered you'll have exclaimed the word "Awesome!" instantly. Ha HA!
I enjoy getting out there and connecting with people. This mean that besides finding someone to be intimate with I use this site for making friends when I'm not out in the scene. I mean that too (friends!), I find that some are a bit as I said apprehensive and I'd like to be an easy approach in social terms. There are those who are very eager, I love you guys. Sooooo much fun to talk to, I could live off good conversation if it had a caloric count.
A little bit of the everyday me:
I'm 25 and sometimes I'll listen to audio books whenever I'm not doing anything thought intensive.
I'm a little shy to tell the truth. Its a lot easier to talk to an audience for me- I don't really know why- I take a lot of comfort knowing that I'm awesome and so many people can see it. (The power of self affirmation).
There's more but who could read so much? I still have other things to say.
A little bit of the SM me:
I really enjoy using shibari on a submissive. Its beautiful, erotic and binding. I also enjoy leather bondage tools and am waiting for a good opportunity to get some more gear. I'm hoping for an excuse to get a cage.
I'm looking foreword meeting some good friends here and if you're just getting into things I'd like to welcome you to it.
God dammit Napa
Just went to a bondage party last night and by golly we had a good time. Its just another night at the Gate.
