MasterKAOS1981

• I believe in sex positive culture pursued between adults with informed consent, shared through education and risk aware fashions.


• I will accept your friend request provided you are courteous; no message is needed.


• I make conscious efforts to advocate BDSM rights and education.


• See the events I'm going to (left) for my definite travel and teaching schedule. I would be happy to come out and http://www.masterkaosonline.com/#!classes/c21cs at your event.


• If I had theme music it might sound something like

I♡ Who is Master KAOS regarding kink? I♡

• Founder of the educational initiative: http://bdsmwiki.info/Main_Page

• A registered https://ncsfreedom.org/resources/kink-aware-professionals-directory/kap-directory-homepage.html, http://www.masterkaosonline.com/#!classes/c21cs , Kink Life Coach, and http://www.masterkaosonline.com/


• A card carrying member of of many kink/sex positive groups and institutions as well as a proud allum of the http://www.mtta.info/academy.html


• Mentor (officially and unofficially) to many kinksters locally, abroad and internationally. (I only officially mentor one person at a time).


• The https://docs.google.com/document/d/1AMiqYJ98mu-YXIVkp9lxNiKhfOuIr1_JeECMb6Ikw-E/edit https://fetlife.com/users/2175423/posts/2269683 of the http://www.mshouseholdregistry.com/Introduction.htm (not to be confused with a Promoted Leather Master)


• A http://www.bdsmwiki.info/Leather_Culture and https://fetlife.com/fetishes/608793


• I have been interviewed by http://www.noboundariespodcast.com/e/episode-85-bdsm-negotiation-master-kaos/, http://playboyradio.com/shows/sexperts/ (exclusive), http://www.blogtalkradio.com/whipappealtalk/2014/10/22/whip-appeal-talk-show-with-master-kaos-as-guest, and by http://ec.libsyn.com/p/a/f/e/afec8505c0675122/Episode_53_MasterKAOS_and_hannah.mp3?d13a76d516d9dec20c3d276ce028ed5089ab1ce3dae902ea1d01c08234d0cd556f13&c_id=6447733.

Can we have a relationship/Can I Join your House?

• I only consider those that I have vetted thoroughly and that make a conscious effort to discuss the potential of a real world dynamic with me (ie, have opened negotiations) and prove genuine in that cause over the course of an additional 90 days as well as proving to be a good reflection upon myself and my House. You must also be compatible with the other House members if you wish to be a part of the House. If you would like to join the House please contact me privately with a http://bdsmwiki.info/Slave_petition and if you impress me we can start by becoming friends and letting it grow from there.

• Desirable traits include: Attractive female with positive experience with closed circuit Polyamory as well as D/s or M/s, in good financial standing, excellent attitude and emotional regulation, the ability to constructively and concisely communicate (particularly wants and needs), addiction and STD free, excellent physical health, a strong desire to serve and submit. Having a service oriented profession also is a plus. I'm always interested in meeting people that fit this deion, but it should also be added that ultimately you must be compatible with all House members.

http://bdsmwiki.info/Negotiations?

• I dominate and top, I do not submit or switch. I am a self described consensual sadist.


• How I play with someone will have a lot to do with the negotiations, chemistry and what is desired out of the scene. I can be a gentle lover or a brutal monster, present and engaged, or detached and dispassionate, reassuring or fear mongering, and anywhere in between on those scales, depending on what the circumstances are and I happen to enjoy having that kind of diversity and variety in my play.


• You must have the ability and adult personal agency and accountability to advocate for yourself during negotiations. If you can not or will not exercise this ability during negotiations I do not consent to play with you.


• Be prepared to discuss the information http://bdsmwiki.info/Negotiation and http://bdsmwiki.info/Consent_form.


• No Feces.


• No Children, Animals or other entities unable to give informed consent to the activities. I will play with many people that seem well adjusted, personally responsible and able to give informed consent.


• No Severe Mutilations/death (not including tattooing, branding, cutting/scarring, etc.)


• I practice http://bdsmwiki.info/RACK and some http://bdsmwiki.info/Category:Edge_Play with trusted partners.


• No sexual acts outside my defined attraction. I am rather particular about sex partners. I often prefer younger, lithe, attractive, intelligent, balanced, and service minded women that are interested in a poly M/s Household situation.


• I am absolutely not available for monogamy, please don't bother if that's your intent.


• You must agree to talk with honor and integrity about our shared experiences after the fact, and speak openly with me about them. Failure to do so will be considered a violation of a negotiated hard limit and entirely against my consent.


• If you would like to provide me with a gift or non-cash tribute, please see my http://amzn.com/w/1AV8481DHKN02. Photos with the gift will be sent to you (when possible) or uploaded to my fetlife profile.

Who are you outside of FetLife?

• I am a scientific-minded person. I avoid indulging in patently unscientific things such as astrology, magic, religion and the like, though I do recognize their inherent placebo effect and psycho-social value and am perfectly fine with others having those belief systems provided they are not used to do harm. Similarly, I am not fond of those that use emotions to justify unethical behavior.


• I also make industrial https://itunes.apple.com/us/artist/a-klokwerk-kaos/id343734801 and occasionally can be called a gamer; primarily FPSRPGs but I have been known to do other stuff. I only know how to speak English, I am not into watching sports, I do a little web design on the side and I have an intense relationship with my GPS named slutmuffin. I often like watching http://explosm.net/show/ and I also sometimes play with fire, figuratively, andhttps://fetlife.com/users/2175423/videos/253571. I have a taste for darker things and my role models as a young adult were James Randi and Marilyn Manson. Fun fact: I was in a once (I was the guy in the red shirt).

Grievances of any kind?

• I like to get along with people. I am also not perfect. If for any reason you feel I have acted inappropriately, I would kindly ask that you bring it to my attention, preferably privately. If you feel you can't bring it to my attention I would ask you to to consider using a third party mediator to do so. I would love to offer you the opportunity to air any grievance so that I might make reasonable efforts towards amends and put systems in place to avoid future issues.