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Male Dominant, 23, Altamonte Springs, Florida
Male Dominant, 54, Florida Panhandle, Florida
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MasterJWL - Male Dominant, Nassau County New York | BDSM Profile on Collarspace

About MasterJWL

Bisexual dominant man in my late 20's.??
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I have about 7 years experience in the scene.? I'm very good with bondage and ropes.? I've trained with a great mature Mistress who taught me how to expertly use the crop.
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I'm open to most fetishes and really enjoy a submissive who wallows in the more raunchy ones.
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I've been interested in pimping out submissives and have begun to focus on this.? Not for money, but for humiliation.? I'm very open sexually, but love fags who are looking to be my pimped out bitch and used because it amuses me.??
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Be open and honest and we'll go from there.? Don't be a needy and whiney bitch.
High maintenance people need not apply

My girlfriend is dominant and lives with me. She is part of my life, but not this profile. She does not need to be involved. Also, she may not be interested in being involved.

I do consider submissives lower animals. I have a great dog. He is half Siberian Husky and half Labrador. My dog is the dividing line. Most, but not all submissives are considered to be one level above my dog.

A follow-up on my post from this weekend regarding my slave to-be, Donna.  I’ve had more than a few emails asking.  I’ll admit I was curious who was reading and I’m doing this more of a way to think through some of my experiences, but there is an exhibitionist in me that enjoys hearing feedback on the journal of my experiences.  What I really appreciate is that most people who email me about the journal are sincere and thoughtful.  I think we all know that the majority of the email on the site is done with dick in hand (and I have nothing about dicks in hands or anywhere else).

Donna, my submissive had shocked me, quite frankly.  I didn’t think her husband knew about our situation, but apparently he did.  So, she invited him over to dinner on the phone and gave him directions.  We were in my office and I couldn’t help playing with her pussy, which was wet, then sticking a couple of fingers up her but while they spoke.

In front of Donna, my girlfriend and I spoke of it.  I was a bit off balance, but my girlfriend looked up for the challenge and suggested we “mark her up a bit” before her husband came.  Donna had to finish getting ready for dinner and I had work I was really trying to get done before I had a glass of wine for dinner.  I really hate trying to go back and focus after a couple of glasses of wine.  I told her to let Donna get ready, then abuse her right before her husband got here.

Off they both went.  I was heads down and ended up having to be on call with a partner to work through a proposal.  About a quarter after 6pm I heard the unmistakable sound of a crop hitting skin and a g.  I tried to work and I did finish up what I needed in that next 5 minutes, then I went from my office to the dining room.  In the dining room, there was Donna standing naked with legs spread and arms stretched out.  My Girlfriend was indeed marking her up.  I taught her how to use the crop and she is cruel.  Donna had welts on her front and back, on her thighs, and breasts.  She was sweating down her sides.  Her hairline was wet with sweat, and there was some tears and her makeup was running.  That made me hard.  There is no better sight than that in my opinion.

This continued for a few more minutes and the doorbell rang.  We had Donna answer it.  She let her husband in.  I saw him g a bit and was extremely nervous.  We went into the den and Donna fetched us all a cocktail, which he readily accepted.  We got to know one another a bit.  My girlfriend and I did most of the talking and Donna was not around for the most part because she was getting dinner ready.   Her husband didn’t say much, other than he was a teacher and that he knew his wife had needsd.

We went into the dining room.  I opened a bottle of wine.  Donna served us.  She was out of site for the most part.  My girlfriend would molest her when she came by.  I was amused, her husband was tough to read.  I held back a little because I didn’t know where he was heading. He seemed ok, but I wasn’t sure.

On his second glass of wine he found his courage.  He told us that he was happy for us to introduce her to this scene.  On his third glass he said, “I can take it from here”.  He looked like a nice guy, but the booze was talking.  So, I said, “Ok, go ahead”.  I called Donna in and told him to take control.  She stood next to me.  He said to her, “kneel by me”.  Donna didn’t move.  He tried a couple of more times and she was nervous as hell (probably the only one still sober in the room), but stood still.  I calmly said, “kneel”, she did.  I said “open”, she opened her mouth. I took a big gulp of wine, rinsed, gargled, and let it flow into her mouth.  She kept it there until I said “Swallow”. 

Her husband was nervous again.  I just said, “I think she is mine”.  He said you’re right.  We talked a bit more, I got the conversation onto March Madness NCAA playoffs, the Mets, Football, etc.  We had some more wine.  Donna stayed out of sight for the next hour or so. 

I was thinking of where this should go and my girlfriend said, “So what do you think”.  There was some back and forth, but he said, “I think she is yours”.  Another bottle of wine was drained and my girlfriend said, “How can we be sure you understand and don’t’ try to disrupt the natural order of things”  (Natural order of things is my line!  She learns well).  After some more back and forth, he offered signing something.  She said, we needed something more substantial.   Not to drag this out too much more…she had him kneel in front of me and take my cock in his mouth.  He was a bit drunk, but he did it. He was shaking, and got down.   He fumbled with my belt and I helped him and he took my cock in his mouth.  I got hard pretty quick.  There was my beautiful, heartless girlfriend taking pictures with her phone.  After a good number of pictures, I pulled away and zipped up.

I asked if he wanted to stay and he could join his wife as our submissive.  He quickly said “no”.   We had her drive him home, then come back to us.  She was the only sober one left.    Most couples that I have played with the husband is really looking to be active in some way.  I think he wants to try and wishes he was dominant, but he really is a beta.  People need to accept what they are and enjoy it.  His wife clearly does.

"Remember happiness doesn’t depend upon who you are or what you have; it depends solely on what you think."  ... Dale Carnegie
Life's unexpected twists get interesting.

I have a 52 year old submissive fuckpig.? She is a cute redhead married to a Jewish school teacher on the north shore.? Redhair, fair skin, freckles.? We started slow and she never once backed away or flinched.

Her kids are in college.? She is over? our house at least once a day.? It may just be to clean, shop, or cook.? She is a pretty good cook.? She also brings in the mail, walks the dog, and that kind of things when I'm away.? We probably play on average a few times a month.?

We have been discussing her becoming my slave.? That means my property to do with as I please.? It is how I think, and that is what is important.? She has been begging for it, but? it is serious in my view and she does have a family.? I've used her hard and she hasn't once faltered.

She is cooking dinner for us.? A nice Italian dinner and the house smells like sauce in the making.? I love that smell. She crawled into my office naked (She is always naked in my house) and asked to become my slave again.

I thought about it, then said, "Lets consider this seriously.? Have your husband come for dinner.? While you serve us, we can discuss and if he is willing to sign you over to me, I'll take you."? She blew my away by agreeing.? I didn't even know her husband knew about me.? She asked to use the phone and called him.? He will be over at 6:30pm.

It should be an interesting dinner.? I reminded her that she will not be wearing anything thing.? She bit her lip and said "Of couse."

I'm talking to my girlfriend now and she said that one of us should probably? mark her up a bit.? She is fair skinned and marks and bruises reality.? That way he will know we are serous.

It will be interesting to see what this school teacher has to say...
Anyone have any experience using the elastrator? Experience on either end of it would be helpful. I could use some advice and council. Email me...thanks!
"Not all men were created equal.  It is not your fault"

After I said this, a light bulb went on inside a beta male's brain this evening.

I’m bisexual or omnisexual.  I’ve never been restrictive of myself.  I don’t’ really care about any labels someone else gives me, I do what I enjoy.  I think the sexiest things  a person can do it be true to themselves.  One of the things I absolutely love about my girlfriend is that we have done things that would make Attila the Hun blush and in the morning she is always there with a smile and a kiss, comfortable in who she is.

I’m in Detroit on business this week.  I looked at Craigslist and saw an ad for a submissive who was looking to be abuse in front of his master.  He is in his early 20’s, and looked like a fairly hot black dude who was very interested in being humiliated, cropped, and abused in general.  I travel with some toys, but really nothing metal, so I invited him to the hotel room.

I was just given a bottle of Gentleman Jack from a customer yesterday as a thank you.  So, after I showered, I filled up the ice bucket and poured myself a drink.  I really do find it the smoothest whisky.  A few sips in, there was the knock on the door.

As I opened the door, there were two good looking black men.  I had really forgotten all about the Master coming to watch.  The submissive was in his early 20’s, thin, muscular, and about 5’10”.  I recognized him from his photo and before introducing myself, I told him to “strip and kneel”.

While the submissive did what he was told I introduced myself to the Master.  He was in his mid-thirties., about my height and weight.  He was handsome for sure.  We introduced each ourselves and I could quickly tell that he was intelligent and confident.  I think we took an immediate like to on another.

I offered a drink to the Master and he poured himself one.  We talked a bit and he told me what his slave liked.  As he spoke and drank, I went through about three drink of the Jack, swishing it around in my mouth, gargling, then spitting into his slave’s mouth to swallow. 

I think he had a nice buzz, to I tied his hands and told him that if he made a sound that I would gag him and destroy his fucking balls.  Then I proceeded to crop him.  Starting lightly, but working my way from his shoulders to his knees.  I stopped once in a while to apply clips.  When I had some light marks on hm, clips on most of his front, and a good sweat going by both of us, I moved him against the wall and pulled his feet up and jerked him off into his mouth.  When he came, I pulled him back over the bed and worked him harder with the crop.  I stopped and untiled his hands and had him jerk off.  I stripped to my underwear and had him cum on my feet.  Then after he licked it off, I want to work with the crop again on him.  He came twice more at my direction as I cropped him.

I like getting a submissive to get all of the lust out, so the suffering is pure.  He was a pretty hot guy, so it made is more fun for me.  I love the way the welts took form and I really was able to mark him up good.  To his credit, he did not make a sound over a low moan.  I was impressed.

He was sweating and done in.  I had him lay on the bed on his back and I use the crop to beat off the clips from the front of his body.   At that point I had to pee and since his head was hanging off the side of the bed looking up, I just used it as a urinal.  I was getting ready to prevent a mess, but this was a good submissive.  He drank well and then thanked me.

I had been absorbed in my fun play that I didn’t notice his master sitting on the chair across the room.  At this point he was naked, stroking about a 9” or more cock and pinching his nipple.  He was very turned on and he was one hot black man.  Between using his submissive and seeing that site, I was turned on.  I walked up to him, and leaned and kissed him.  We made out for a while, then I leaned further and sucked on his nipples and bit them hard.  Then I kneeled and was sucking on his cock and licking his balls.  I realized I haven’t sucked cock in quite a while.  I tried to get it into my throat.   After a while he motioned and we walked to the bed, kissing.  I laid down and took off my undershirt as his took off my underpants.  We kissed and hie licked and worshipped my nipples, armpits, belly, skipped over my cock, and licked from my legs, and licked an worshipped my feet.   It is a talent that not everyone has and he did a good job.  Then he was sucking my cock.  He took me in his throat with no problems.  He then at my ass for a while, then we ended up in a 69, sucking on each other and  I did my best to get my tongue up his ass.  He ended up cumming in my mouth.  I spun around after he was spent and drooled his cum back into his mouth, then I came in his mouth and he swallowed .  We were spent and he had his slave turn out the lights and we went under the covers.

About an hour later his tongue was in my ass again.  He did an amazing job.  I was half asleep and enjoying it when he pushed his dick into my ass.  It hurt and he placed his hand on my back so I wouldn’t get up as he got all the way in  and he got a rhythm going.  My eyes were probably in the back of my head he fucked me for a while.  I turned over at some point so we were face to face and we made out while he fucked me, then he came inside o f me.  We fell asleep like that.  I woke up a few minutes later with the submissive licking his master clean, then me. 

About 6am, we all woke up.  I kissed this hot black dude in my bed and he then went to the bathroom.  I followed a minute later. He was just finishing pissing.  I held his cock and motioned for him to sit on the toilet.  I peed directly into his mouth.  I filled his mouth and chuckled a bit asking him if it was strong.  He said,”Yes”.  I told him to swallow then gave him more.  When I was about half done I moved and peed on his head and let is run down him and into the toilet.  When I was done, I had him suck me hard.  I was very turned on, so I had him get up and turn around.  I grabbed some lotion from the bathroom sink and put in on myself, then pushed into his ass and fucked him.  I fucked him hard and pushed his head into the toilet.  I realized that as I was fucking him hard and pushing his head towards the piss in the toilet that I was reclaiming my dominance and he was giving it to me.  I came hard.

He turned and sat down and said “wow, that was hot.  What can I do to get you to play with us when you’re in town?” I told him if he just got dressed as he is and go home, I’ll call him next time I’m back.  He smile and said, “Deal”.     They got dressed and we all kissed as they left.

This morning I was thinking how boring life is for those who limit themselves and don’t just let themselves be who they are.

(Pardon the many typos)

 

Back up in Boston on business.  Left the client early yesterday afternoon, so tried to get hold of my submissive couple in the area.  The wife didn't pick up the phone, but the husband picked up his cell.  He told me that she had a dinner, so I told him to get his ass over to my hotel room.  He hemmed and hawed about whatever, but with some push, he was on his way.

When I let him into my room, without asking, he stripped.  I was happy to see that.  I put him through some bondage with rope and cuffs I brought and used my favorite crop on him.  I didn't inflict too much pain, but I left some nice welts on his ass, thighs, back, and front.  

I was horny, so I fucked him after he went down on me for a bit.  He was tight and I went slow.  It was nice and I came inside of him.  Once I calmed down I took him into the bathroom and gave him his first training as a urinal.  He did very, very well and I complimented him.  

We ended up back on my bed.  My legs were spread and he was rimming me.  We had a chat while I watched the Olympics.  I told him that a submissive should jump at the chance to serve his better.  Otherwise, he would have missed the opportunity to not have the pretty crop marks to show his wife, not have a belly filled with my urine and his ass filled with cum.  He pulled his tongue out of my ass long enough to agree with me and thank me.

I flipped through the pictures on my phone that I took of him and we agreed upon one of the photos to send his wife to let her know her husband was enjoying herself too.

Life it too short to let opportunities go by.


Been working too much.  Just having a lazy Saturday.   I've been binging on ZNation. 
An older chick on here got me hooked on The West Wing.  i've been watching that too.  (Thanks...now I have a thing for Amy Garner).

Just going to think out loud....

Funny on this site, lots of subs contacting me from off of Long Island.  They are open to travel to get exactly what they want, but not to do as I please.  Kinda misses the point, which is why folks who aren't local don't really work out.  I'm not a pro.  They are out there if you want to go, pay them, and place your order.

There is a market ect to this.  The least in demand of everyone in the market is the male submissive.  The older male submissive is in toughest position.  I feel for them, but it is what it is.  That is why I don't really understand a male or an older male submissive who doesn't do everything in their power to make themselves of interest and of use to the dominant.  Is it selfishness, laziness, or something else.  I'm not submissive, so I may just be missing it.  I have no issue with them, but I roll my eyes when they aren't willing to bend over (figuratively and literally) for me.

On the opposite end of the market are the female dominants.  The most in demand for certain.  The Pro-Dommes that I know are an interesting group.  The ones I know may not be a scientific sampling, so my view is skewed.  I think there is a difference between bitchy and whiney and dominant.  The female pro-dommes that I happen to know are mostly both of those things.  I roll my eyes at these people as well since they are providing a service.  Seems like they aren't taking pride in it or really don't have an appreciation for their submissives, who are their customers.  If they were amateur, that is a completely different position, as it is all lifestyle and personality, not business.

A bitchy and whiney pro-domme good friend of mine just called me a "cock" today when I was teasing her.  That was a compliment?  Right?  :)
Was online Sunday and was multitasking while getting some proposals finished for work.

I spent some time during the day chatting online with a submissive woman from here.  Great attitude, limited experience.  She has bisexual desires and is married with kids, her husband is vanilla.  We emailed for about an hour or so.  She shared a couple of pictures, but none of her face.  Then she agreed to come over around 1pm.

That was it.  She hasn't been online since.  Ghosted.  :)

While I was online a sub male was emailing me.  He struck my interest.  I really wasn't in the mood to play with a male sub, since the female spun me up a bit.  This guy came across as intelligent and sincere.  Not the most experienced, but eager to please.

After some texts, he wanted to come over and we set a time.  15 minutes before that time, he texted me he couldn't break away.  :)

I see people complain about these things.  I think it is part of the scene.  I stay positive and try to stay open and honest with everyone.  I take people at their word.  Even if they are lying to me, it is more fun to assume the best of people.  

I have a lifestyle where I can be very open about who I am and what I do.  Not everyone has that.  I don't judge it and respect it.  I've had some great opportunities to play with, meet, and get to know some submissives who had to keep their activities a secret.  It is their choice and I respect it.  In some cases I know it is just a horny person "getting some on the side".  I also LOVE sending a used, ruined, mentally altered, and filled submissive back home to their spouse and family, knowing I changed them and used them hard.

Even though I'm open and don't have to worry about hiding the lifestyle from neighbors, friends, family, and coworkers, I have an extremely busy schedule.  My job is awesome and incredibly demanding.  I'm one of those people that will be taking graduate courses until the day I die because I love learning and education.  All of this is time consuming and something there is a demand on me that changes my schedule to.  So, I never really get upset when someone skips or has to cancel.  I do respect people's lives and I expect it in return.

I choose to have a positive outlook and I think there is an incredibly great payoff for doing so.  While I LOVE dominating, humiliating, and debase the position and the value of a submissive, none of this is a negative thing.


Pollyanna, I'm not.  Have a great day.
Just a thought based on some comments people made in passing today...

I have a submissive male that is doing his best to please me. My schedule has been busy.  I like him, but his is a middle aged guy and I'll give him the time and attention as I see fit.

He is new, but is dying to become a slut for me.  I'm going to set up some time to pimp him out.  I'll probably set him up in a motel room for people to use.

He has never been fucked.   Last time I played with him and had him tied up and when I was ready to fuck him, even with preparation he was too tight.  He wasn't ready.  Lack of experience, use, and a bit of nerves.  

I'll take what I want when I feel it is right.  I may fuck someone who is tight and force it a bit, but I wouldn't do this to a submissive who clearly wasn't ready.

In conversation, some people were supersized by this.  I think to do so would be irresponsible.  There is a difference between pushing and taking v. crossing a line.  Perhaps it comes with some maturity.

To my submissive, I let him know he disappointed me.  I did let him know he would get there, it will take practice and honest effort on his part.
Planning to pimp out a new submissive.   Let me know if you're interested in helping break in my middle aged neophyte fag.
I respond to Craigslist ads and sometimes post them when I'm traveling.  99% of the time they don't pan out, but they are kind of fun to play with as a way to kill time.

Yesterday, traveling for business, I checked into a hotel outside of Boston.  After looking and not being too interesting on Craigslist,  I posted my own ad.  Looking for submissive m/f/c, blah, blah...with a photo of me from the neck down.

A couple replied.  34f and 32m.  Married.  He is submissive and has a tiny one and they never did anything like this, but would like to meet.  I thought - sure, this is a dude just looking to get off, but I replied.

After an exchange of texts, I saw pictures of them from the neck down, not naked.  Looked good, but I was still not sure.  He was average build.  She I could tell was fair skinned, with freckles, a little chubby, but not too much.  They said they wanted to meet, I wasn't believing this, but without asking the wife called me.  I was shocked, but pleased.

It was about 10pm and it was getting late.  I told them where I was and she promised me they would be there in 20 minutes.  So, I sent them a photo of my face and told them to meet me in the bar.

I was on my second beer when Debbie approached me.  We shook hands and the three of us introduced ourselves  They got a drink.  I asked them about how long they were married, kid?, etc.  On my third beer I looked at her in the eyes and told her if she wasn't ready to "get the fuck out of here".  She sat there and smile, so I kissed her.  A nice deep kiss.  We kind of half made out and half spoke as I drank my third beer.

When I was done I wrote my room number down on a napkin and gave it to Mark, the husband.  I told him to hold her coat and pocketbook and we would call his cell when he was to come up.   He looked a bit nervous and shocked.  I thought that look was hot.  

I grabbed her hand and lead her to the elevator.  She was about 5'3".  A little chubby, cute, strawberry blonde hair, blue eyes.  Nervous, but excited.  I groped her a bit.  Slide my hand down the back of her jeans while we were in the elevator and fingered her ass, then had her lick and suck on my fingers.

I asked her how she felt about her husband as we went to the room.  She said that she had cheated on him once recently and thought he was an under performer in bed.

As we passed by the ice machine, I said, "I hate being close to that thing"  My room was about 6 doors down from it.

We we got in my room, I told her to strip completely and leave her clothes on the chair.  She did and I didn't even have to say "Quicker".  She was sexy.  Nicely trimmed between her legs.  She was wet.  I had her bend over and fucked her ass with my fingers wet from her pussy a little more.  Then had her stand up and lick them clean again.  Then a sat on the couch and told her to play with herself.

When she was hot I smacked her hard across her face.  With her fair skin, my hand-print showed nicely.  She had a look of surprise and a tear started to form.  It took all of my control, not to lick that tear up from her cheek.  I told her that she was a slut and that she was a piggie that was a good fit for her husband.  I slapped her again and told her that she she be grateful to have a husband like she did.  Now she was crying and I was full on hard.

I slapped her again and asked if she wanted to leave or stay and be my bitch.  She said "stay".  I slapped her again and told her if she wouldnt' be 100% obedient I wanted her to get the fuck out.  Crying, she said, "Please, I want to be your slave."   With the tears running down her face, the mascara was a mess, and her fair skin was pink on her cheeks, she was perfect.

I sat down on the couch and told her to go to the closet and get a pants hanger.  While she did I opened a bottle of water and took a drink.  I told her to put the clilp on her nipples.  She did, squealing a bit.  Clearly not experienced.  

I told her to kneel.  I asked if she wanted some water.  She was settling down a bit. She wasn't' crying any more.  She was adjusting to the pain in her nipples as they became a bit numb, I'm sure.  She said she wanted some water.  I told her to open her mouth and put her head back and if she spilled any I would beat the crap out of her.  I took a bit pull on the water bottle, rinsed it around my mouth, then slowly let is all leak from my mouth to hers.  Loved seeing her swallow.

I told her to craw to get her cell and text her husband to come up.  He was up much quicker than I thought.  I suspect he was on our floor waiting.  He came into the room and was a little taken aback by his wife kneeling aback with the pants hanger clips on her nipples, and obviously had been crying.  He was a good submissive and didn't say anything and when I told him to "strip", he did so.

When he was naked I stood next to him, fully cothed.  I cupped his balls and stroked his cock.  It got hard and his wife was right. It must have been about 4 " hard.  I told him "If you want to submit and do as I say, tell me your are my faggot or get your clothes and get the fuck out of her.  Your slut wife can make up her own mind"  He said "I want to be your faggot".  His cock was hard in my hands, so I kissed him and made out for a bit.  He responded well.  Good boy.

I then stripped and sat up on the bed.  I had him come between my legs and go down on me.  Licking my cock, balls, and ass.  I told Debbie to eat his asshole because I was going to fuck it soon.  He flinched.  She said she never did that.  I just looked sternly at her and she moved quickly and burried her face in there.  He seemed enthusiastic, so I think she was doing a good job. 

When I was ready I got up and told them to stay.  I inspected her ass eating and I was happy with it.  I didn't have any lube and thy didn't either, so I used Aquifor and had Debbie lube both of us up.  I then slowly fucked him.  He flinched and cried a bit, but he was a trooper and was focused on pleasing.  After a bit I was able to pound him a bit.  It just too a bit of work to get to that point.  

Debbe was next to me.  She wasn't sure what to do and that was the idea.  I told her to play with herself and she was happy to do that.  I pulled on that hanger while I fucked him.  After a bit I couldn't hold back and just came into his asshole.  I had really enjoyed it an collapsed on him for a minute.  Then I pulled out.  I was surprised everything was clean.  I asked and it turns out Debbie had Mark take an enema.  I laughed and said "Good call, Deb.  You're going to lick both of us clean".  

This is the point that I really enjoy.  She didn't hesitate.  She was just a slut robot.  She had that humiliated zoned out look and just did what she was told.  Fucking hot.

I was going to urinate in Debbie's mouth, but they were both looking worn and I pushed it pretty hard.  I honestly thought they would have run away by now.  So, I put my underwear on and tshirt and asked Deb if she wanted to unclip that pants hanger.  She said yes.  I told her, she could do it, but only in the hallway.  It was 12:30am and pretty quiet.  I opened the door and she quickly stepped out, quickly undid the clips from her nipples and stiffed a cry.  :)

I told them to get dressed and they did.  I asked if they enjoyed themselves and they both said Yes and we made plans for dinner tonight in the hotel and back to the room.

I think I just found a cuckold couple in Boston.  Cool.

The spirit of Massachusetts....

 
I've been working too much of late.  I have travel coming up and that is only going to drain my free time.  Work energizes me for sure, but I need some personal time to charge my cells too.

I haven't been getting to the gym as much as I would like, so when I woke up I was in a great mood with some time to go to the gym.  Hit the Elliptical, then weights.  It felt good.  I've only been getting in partial workouts and today I worked p a good sweat and got nice and sore.  Felt healthy.

I'm a perv in the locker room for sure.  Love to take my time naked in front of the locker and see who is checking me out.  There was this older dad type that was ogling me.  I'm a perv, but try not to be a jerk.  I let him look, but unless he approached me, I wasn't going to do anything.  Plus, I like the gym.  Not looking to make it an awkward place for me.  He didn't make the move, so into the shower, then off to home I went.

I was horny and checked out Barebackrt.com and Craigslist.  Thinking about the gym, there was an older guy posting.  Not much experience, but "really wanted to please".  We emailed, texted, then chatted on the phone.  I normally don't do this with a first meet, but I invited him over my house.

He wasn't too far and an hour later.  Ol' dad was ringing my doorbell.  When I opened it he was awkward while I stared at him.  He was in the cold and I was just looking at him.  He fumbled trying to figure out what to say.  I chuckled at that and let him in.  As soon as he was in my house and the door was closed I said, "Strip, everything, leave the clothes by the door."

He didn't hesitate.  i could see he was nervous.  I had him follow me into the kitchen.  I poured a cup of coffee and we chatted.  I offered him a cup and he declined.  

In his ad he said he was never fucked, but wanted to be.  He said he was very oral and into sucking cock, licking balls, and rimming.  On the phone he said he wanted to drink my piss, cum, and spit.  That was the phrase that had hooked me.

I told him to kneel in front of me and stroke.  He did and was hard quickly.  After I was done with my coffee, unbuckled, unzipped, and put my dick in his mouth.  He sucked for a bit.  I told him to open his mouth and I would fill it.  I did several times and he swallowed each time.  I LOVE a good urinal.

After that I had him lick me clean, then I was hard in no time.  So, we went down to the basement.  I let him suck on my dick, lick my balls, and rim me for a while as I watched tv.  Then I was ready.  I have a couch with cuffs.  The couch folds down flat and with pillows to raise his ass up and him cuffed face down, he was sweaty and I was ready.

I put lube on him and me.  He began to sweat and bit and told me he was never fucked.  I told him if he wanted, he could leave, but if he didn't stop me right now I was going t fuck him and he would go home with me cum in him.  He said "No Sir, go ahead, please."

I put a ball gag in his mouth, then proceeded to fuck him.  I was kind and was slow to start.  He bucked and made loud moans.  I think he was in pain for bit.  I fucked him for a while.  He got into it at times.  At other times he seemed to be in some discomfort.  He had a nice tight ass.

After I came, I unhooked the ball gag and let him lick me clean.  I then cuffed him and let him out.   He was shaking.  It was soo freaking hot.

I told him to kneel and thank me.  He did.  

I asked him if he wasn't gagged, would he have begged me to stop.  He said definitely.  That pleased me.  He did thank me for being considerate and making it as easy as possible.  I asked if he wanted more.  He said yes, but he needs some time.  So, he may or may not hear from me, but get the fuck out of my house for now.

It was pretty hot seeing him scramble.  I wonder when he started thinking about the cum up his ass.

So...my Sunday was awesome.  How was yours?
I only half paid attention to the award show last night.

I detest any abuse or discrimination in the workplace or life in general.  I left a job because I witness harassment and reported it and HR wouldn't act on it.

In my first job I was physically sexually demeaned in a way by an HR VP. 

I've been the target of discrimination and harassment.

I don't look at myself as a victim at all.  I don't tolerate the behavior from people around me and certainly not from myself.

(Consensual S&M is certainly different)

After watching the award show last night I had a few thoughts:
  • How many of the people wearing black new about all of the harassment going on?
  • How could Meryl Streep not know?
  • How could Ron Howard not know?
  • How could Oprah not know?
  • Did the director who won the award after Natalie Portman made a slur against the nominated people feel demeaned?  Harassed?
  • Did Ms. Portman feel demeaned when she won her awards?

I only half watched the show.  I'm a believer in what they said, but I'm not a believer in them.  I am now wondering how many people are just buying what they are selling, which is betraying those who were really abused.

I'm bisexual, omnisexual, whatever you want to call me. I'm attracted to many things and I don't really qualify or judge.  I believe there is a natural order to the universe and people should accept themselves.  I also don't judge others or make assumptions on what they should be.  That doesn't mean I don't think of submissives as lower forms of humans, just as I consider humans a higher order than cats or dogs.

What has me thinking of this is several discussions I've had today with dominants.  The discussions have been live and on Twitter.  Some of my dominant female friends were complaining that people said they shouldn't be charging for their time.

My first and foremost thought was that I rolled my eyes at the dominants.  If you are confident in what you are doing, "who the heck cares?"  Stop your bitching and whining.

Secondly, I respect their choice and do not question what they choose as a profession.  However, the scene is very personal for me. I never let money enter into it.

When I try to think of things from the submissive's perspective, I'm assuming they are using a professional because they cannot find a partner or cannot afford do have a personal partner in their lives.  However, the sessions they are paying for more times than not is more than just a physical need.

If the session is a physical need, then it is not different than prostitution, using an auto mechanic, or going to an MD because you have high blood pressure or a broken arm.  I think prostitution in a valid job.

However, I believe most submissives have an emotional need.  I know I have one as a dominant.  When they use a professional, many/most times there is not the connection made that is really needed.  So, they pay for a service, are left wanting...then on top of that I spoke with my female dominant friends who were bitching about them today.  To me, you just provided a poor service and are bitching about your customers.  I respect your choice, but not much respect on a professional level.

This line of thinking seemed to universally piss my dominant friends off today.  I was called many things.  I laughed it off, let them know that, in my opinion, they didn't understand what I was saying, and by that fact they loss a bit of respect from me.  That pissed them off even more.

I found that funny.  Because I didn't care if they were pissed at me.  I was not pissed off at them because I'm confident in who I am.  I am sincere in what I do.  I do not try to trick anyone for personal or monetary reasons.  I'm honest with myself, other dominants, and submissives I play with.  I do not think they could say the same, which is the real reason why I believe they were angry.  I think there is also an amount of frustration in their career choice and i can understand that.  it is a tough road they choose and I respect their bravery in doing so.

Well, there are my thoughts for the day.
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