MasterJohnSteed

One question, one chance, one honest answer. You can ask me one question (TO MY INBOX ONLY!). Any question, anything, no matter how crazy, dirty or wrong it is. No catch. But I dare you to post this on your status and see what people ask you!... My dare done! Now I dare you.

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Even the Devil Deserves someone he can love. he/she/it might be truly twisted and sick but at least they deserve someone that will make them happy

I have a question, This question is primarily for the females that use this website but I think anyone can answer it. Why is it that women want a full essay on me, my likes, my wants my dislikes etc etc. But if I say HI or Hello and attempt to start a conversation then immediately you want to ignore me.

I have read your profile, if I write to you even if its just Hello, it means that I want to start a conversation with you. It doesn't mean I want to get married and have babies with you in the first fifteen minutes.

It means that I find you interesting and I want to know more

If you have a brain, use it, don't expect me or another Dom to tell you when to do everything.

You are an active party in a relationship. You might be submissive but at least tell me what you want, what you need.

Part of the Human Experience is a thing called Love You can say you don't want it, don't need it.but let me give you an example:

say a submissive puts a profile up, says that she isn't looking for a relationship, just pain and sex and that she wants to be treated like an animal.

ok, now fast forward a bit, she has met this guy that she is going to meet for the first time who promises her exactly what she wants.

He breaks her arm and 3 ribs, don't you think at this point in time she is going to want some love, some human compassion, some TLC?

ok another example, submissive says she wants to be kidnapped and caged, goes to meet someone. Next thing ya know he has chloroformed her dumb ass and she wakes up in a dark empty room with a bowl of kibble and nothing else.

Don't you think someone is gonna be screaming for the Cops and a little bit of human compassion?

There is a case here in South Carolina some years back where a 27 year old man, left England to be with the 25 year old submissive of his dreams. Turns out she was 68 and had killed and chopped up her 70 year old hubby and put him in the freezer!

Take your time, Get to know someone, be realistic in your expectations, communicate and above all be honest

“I’ve gotten quite tired of this crap that I see of I do not want to be the leader. I refuse to be the leader; well it’s about time that there was a Dom Male Rebuttal to the statement.” I Want to be the Leader, in fact I need to be the leader, I don’t need to live darkly or richly I simply need to live as a man, I don’t need to hover over you, I don’t need to even dominate you. You will do that for me, you give me that power, because of the simple fact of who I am as a Man. I don’t need to give you jack shit, nor do I need to take it from you. You on the other hand want, need and desire to give me yourself. It is power that flows like a river; it is trust that fills the heart and soul. You are a woman; if you are a true submissive then you realize that you have something inside of yourself that you cannot control or very much need someone else to control. There is a hunger that burns like a wildfire out of control in your soul for a real man, but you’re so busy looking for the dark knight on the white horse to come save you that you can’t see what’s in front of your face.

You are looking for this Christian Grey guy, you want to live on a planet named Gor, or your are looking for the dark knight on the white horse because you can’t live in reality, the fact of the matter Is that I a real man am reality. You spend your time chasing fantasy that you over look Real Men.

Ladies, let me tell you a secret there are 10 million guys out there that say they are DOM or MASTER because they act like an asshole and that they can swing a paddle, but they have no idea how to touch a woman’s heart, soul or mind. Sure there are guys that have a dick bigger than a baby’s arm and will take any excuse you give them to get it used. However, they are no more involved with you as a submissive than a rich man that owns an Arabian Stallion.  He owns it on paper, he makes thousands on stud fees, it makes him feel good to have around, but he cares no more for that horse that he does his 62 inch television; He can always replace it when it breaks or he grows bored of it or wants a newer model.

Years ago, I talked with a counselor over the breakup of my marriage, and I told him “Doctor, How can I go on when my heart is gone” He looked me in the eye and told me “If she loved you just half as much as you say that you love her. The she would be waiting on your doorstep when you get home” It made me realize that I didn’t need her to make my life complete, and when that happened I started meeting women, dating women, sleeping with women. As well as having a great life in general.

I guess the point that I am trying to get at is this: You want a Man, A Dom A Master Then, here I am,

You want to meet a girl that you can explore your kinky side with. That’s wonderful.

Let me ask you something:

• Do you have a match.com or OK Cupid a profile that says “I’m a guy. I’m looking for a girl. If you’re a girl or know a girl, would you send her to me please?”
• Suppose you’re into stamp collecting. Do you go into stamp-collecting forums and say “I’m a guy who thinks he may like stamp collecting, and I’m looking for a girl to fuck and teach me about stamp collecting.”?
• Do you see a girl at Starbucks drinking coffee and say “Hey, I like coffee, too. Wanna fuck?”

Every time you post on here asking for people to “help you out,” that’s exactly what you’re doing.

You seem to think that just because a woman is into getting tied up, beaten, and fucked in the ass, she’s somehow different from a “normal” woman. You seem to think that just because a woman likes to have sex, talk about sex, and sometimes be naked in front of people, she should want to do that with you, without knowing anything at all about you except that you like women to get naked in front of you.

Submissives aren’t submissive to everyone

You’ll hear submissives say “I’m submissive, but I’m not your submissive.” No matter how many times you’ve read The Story of O, there is no chateau full of submissive women who are available on demand to anyone who wants to use them.

Kinky women are not whores

Some kinky women may like it when their partner calls them “whore,” but they’re not sex workers. They’re not in the business of making sex of any sort available to all comers. (And contrary to popular belief, there is not a rule that actual sex workers have to accept whoever is willing to pay them.)

Kinky women are not easy

Some kinky women have multiple partners. Some women will do some sort of limited play with people they just met. As a rule most women will not get intimate with a guy they know nothing about. Kinky women are no different.

Kinky women are not objects

Sure, some women like being objectified, to be used as furniture, ashtrays, fuck toys, even toilets. But you know what? The women who like that trust the people who do that to them, Do you know why they trust them? Because they know them as people. They have connected as human beings before they connected as kinksters.

Kinky women have feelings

Do some kinky women want to be humiliated, degraded, hurt, and used? Absolutely. This may be hard to understand, but while they may want all those things, they want them in a supportive, trusting, and caring environment. You call my girlfriend a bitch, she’ll kick your balls. I call her a bitch, and she melts in my arms. See the difference?

"Collar me" that is the name of this site. it indicates that one is seeking to be collared. It does not indicate that one is already collared and therefore unavailable to be collared by another.

This website would then be called "Collared or Collared me" if it was a website that was displaying collars or how proud you are to be wearing said collar.

 This is a website for people seeking to be come collared. So people who are already collared and are so proud of that fact perhaps you should think about that fact. Ask yourself "If I am already Collared and have a profile, then why am I here?"