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Male Dominant, 23, Altamonte Springs, Florida
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Male Dominant, 54, Florida Panhandle, Florida
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Male Dominant, 41
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About MasterJames22
I am an experienced, straight, Safe, Sane and Consensual Master who understands the appropriate role for a sub/slave and how to treat her, care for her, use her and train her. Anyone who doesn't understand that this is a partnership shouldn't be in it! Ok, we got that out of the way...what does it all mean? D/s & M/s is a mutuality, my partner is entitled to care, respect, protection and affection. I can use her fully, but I cannot abuse her. The difference? Simple, one is SSC, the other is not. I hear the masochists out there yelling, "wait, I like being hurt!!!" -- so? Pain in play with consent is fine. But D/s & M/s is not about pain. It's about relationships. It's about caring for your pet and your pet caring for her Master. I should always be proud of my pet; whether or not I'm disciplining her. In a public setting, I should be able to look upon my partner and beam. In a private setting, I should be pleased to see and glad to kiss my partner. People sometimes ask me, "do you love your slave?". Dumb question in my mind. Love is the byproduct of a relationship. I can no more predict loving my slave than I can loving a vanilla partner -- but -- D/s & M/s are intimate relationships...RELATIONSHIPS...and if a relationship is honest and grows, affection develops -- sometimes affection turns to love. I get asked, "how can you claim to respect a sub/slave if you rank so many of the S&M activities highly?" Another bad question. I rank activities by how I enjoy or don't enjoy them. I get INVOLVED in activities in which my partner and I agree are within the confines of the relationship. I never force a partner to do something she is truly unwilling to do. I may cajole, encourage and motivate...but I NEVER force. I am in a class of Doms that historically was called "Protector" Doms -- but in more modern parlance is usually referred to as "Daddy" Doms. As a Protector, I take very seriously the notion that I am responsible for the well-being of my girl; physically and emotionally. I also enable the emotional connection -- often perceived as a parental feeling on the part of my girl -- as she feels herself enveloped in the protective embrace that I provide. This is not something forced but a natural part of my being. As my previous partners can attest -- my aftercare is 2nd to none -- and aftercare is the hallmark of a Protector. |
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Periodically, it makes sense to update ones outlook on kink.
Here's my latest test results:
== Results from bdsmtest.org:=
100% Dominant
100% Master
98% Rigger
89% Owner
75% Degrader
72% Voyeur
71% Sadist
69% Primal (Hunter)
68% Brat tamer
59% Exhibitionist
56% Daddy
52% Non-monogamist
49% Vanilla
38% Experimentalist
0% Ageplayer
0% Brat
0% Degradee
0% Boy/Girl
0% Masochist
0% Pet
0% Primal (Prey)
0% Rope bunny
0% Slave
0% Submissive
0% Switch
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