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Male Dominant, 23, Altamonte Springs, Florida
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Male Dominant, 54, Florida Panhandle, Florida
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About MasterIanDurham
I am a Master who discovered his perfect submissive in October 2008; the lady is a wonderful, intelligent and beautiful woman whose gift of submission to me is the most desired present I have ever received.
As any true Dom/me will know, the path of training a submissive is a long one with many pitfalls; O/our journey has really only just begun, but I have uncovered enough of my partner's hidden desires (although I have yet to develop these to her full potential) and know enough of her previous experience to see that W/we can achieve so much more together than would be possible for most.
As her training continues, I shall require the involvement of others to show her what she can truly be; to this end, probably from spring 2009, I shall be looking to have her loaned out to other Doms (maybe a little while before she is ready to accept the authority of a Domme) and for her to witness my use of other submissive females. An important part of her development will be group use involving males and females.
If anyone has any original ideas which might be incorporated into this girl's training, or would like to be involved firsthand, I would love to hear from you; of course, when one has a priceless possession, one has to be discerning about those who handle it, so I will not be offering her to anyone about whose credentials I cannot be certain. In advertising now, I am looking to build a relationship with those who might use her in the future, since I take the responsibility of her care and protection very seriously.
Master Ian, a proud and lucky Man
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Just in case anyone has been wondering why this journal has been neglected for so long, it's because, after so many promising leads and false starts, finally I have found a submissive who will stretch My talents as a Mentor and Guide and who has the potential to be everything I want her to be; W/we met two months ago and whilst it hasn't all been plain sailing (when is it ever when One is taking control of another, especially when that person is a feisty and intelligent individual), the progress made during that time has been immense.
Nothing in life worth having comes easily and when I found the person I had waited a lifetime to meet, of course she had to live 270 miles away; I have been amazed by how short that distance has become, so often am I travelling it! Of course I have met, played with and owned others before but none who come close to the potential this lady (for she is a lady when I allow her to be) possesses; W/we have such an exciting future together, I cannot begin to express how happy I am... |
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Well, after almost a month of discussions with a potential 24/7 slave, I am here to report that I am back looking; I did meet someone who was wonderful in so many respects, but for reasons which will remain private between us (mostly those of distance and commitments), it was not the right situation at this time. It was refreshing, though, to meet someone who is definitely not a timewaster and I have to say that the Master who finds this jewel will be a very lucky man indeed.
Those of you who have read my previous journal entries will know that I am very selective (as I should be, I am looking for someone to serve me for a lifetime); I have returned to find only one new potential slave who seems to meet my requirements and that message has been sent. Those few of you whom I had messaged previously will not be receiving new messages, but if you are still visiting my profile and read this journal, you are welcome to get back in touch.
Having come so close, I am more confident than ever that this site will provide me with the person I am seeking, although I am prepared to take my time in finding her, since it is far more important to find the right person than someone who might "do" for a while. |
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I don't know if anyone else has had this experience, but a strange and very worrying thing has just happened to me...
This afternoon, I have been using Windows Live Messenger / MSN to chat to people who have made contact from this site and other friends whom I know from more vanilla exchanges. While I was online, another message window opened from someone to whom I had not previously chatted (although I did recognise the e-mail address, it was someone who had added themselves to my address from a profile site I used about one year ago).
Shortly after saying hello, the person to whom I was chatting identified herself as a 14 years old schoolgirl before offering sex (the offer was totally unilateral and not solicited in any way). I decided to decline the offer but decided to keep the girl (if indeed she was a girl) talking; unsure of what to do (bearing in mind that I have pronographic images and explicit messages on my computer), I decided to dial 999, only to be told that as it wasn't an emergency, I should contact the police force local to where the "girl" claimed she lived, which I did. The police there seemed unsure what to do and by this time, I had received a file transfer of a naked, possibly underage girl (of course I told them this immediately).
I have helped the police in the past with crimes related to sexuality, but this is something different entirely; I am not a paedophile, but now may be under suspicion of being one (I saved the conversation and at no time did I ask for anything, or accept any offer); should I have called the police, or kept quiet? During the course of the conversation, the "girl" told me that she meets men for sex frequently, some over 50, for pocket money. I am hardly in a position to moralise (I met my last slave when she was 18 and she had lost her virginity at 12) but could I really have ignored this?
Some on here will be wondering why I declined her offer, but I think it is sad when a girl of that age is soliciting herself to men more than three times her age; if a lad of 17 is having sex with a 15-years'-old girlfriend, although this is technically lllegal, it's life and normally I have no wish to interfere in the sexual practices of others, but I guess I just learned where I draw the line.
All your comments would be appreciated, whether critical or supportive; at present, I am awaiting futher contact from the police computer crimes department, but they seem to be in no hurry to resolve this. Of course, this girl could be anyone and the photo appears to be someone of about 16 (so hard to tell these days) and I may be worrying over nothing ... |
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Well, it has been said that it's all in the timing! My return to CM looks as if it may lead to something positive! I used very specific search crieria, which returned a selective list of possible contacts; as is often the case, half of my seeds fell on stony ground, but from the responses I did receive, two led to a meaningful exchange of information.
Now, just four days after my return, I find myself looking to develop a situation with a slave who appears to be suitable; obviously, we have a long way to go before anything is resolved, but until it is, I will not be looking further. Of course, my next journal entry may indicate that it didn't prove to be right, or it may say that I am no longer looking. For now though, discussions are ongoing and I shall concentrate on those... |
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I'm back on collarme after almost a year away; my last visit wasn't too successful, I don't mind not being what potential slaves are seeking (finding the right match is never easy and I am very particular) but having carefully addressed what is said in the profile of those I contact, I would expect at least a reply.
I have edited my profile today and attempted contact with a likely match; often, it's all about timing, so I hope mine proves to be better this time than it was last year. However, I would rather be alone than with the wrong person so I will only contact those whose profiles indicate that they are what I'm seeking and hope that those who wish to get in touch read my profile before doing so. |
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I was advised of the existence of this site by a Domme friend on a UK profile site; I am so pleased to be here as I am sick of time-wasters and fakes on other sites, although admittedly there are genuine people among them. Having browsed some profiles on here, I see already that some of you have encountered the same problems but I do hope that the genuine users here will outweigh the fakes; does anyone understand why they do it? It takes enough time for us to find someone who is compatible, why do others waste theirs pretending to be something they are not? Rant over, I shall relax and look forward to meeting all the genuine people. |
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