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Should a Master love a slave? This is a burning question in Our realm today, and there are valid arguments on both sides but here is what I found and in My humble opinion.

I truly believe that this is a decision that is relative and based on the individuals involved in the M/s relationship at the time, as well as how far into the training/relationship they are.

Many make the argument that the Master should only view the slave as property and therefore should not hold those loving feelings for the property. Yet this is not an inantimate object. This is a living breathing being. Some even think that having feeling for the slave..and in some cases the slave having them for the Master too..complicates things and interferes with the training and discipline of the slave, therefore damaging the dynamic.

I however tend not to totally agree with that analogy. I do think that emotions can work to impede on the training and the discipline, but only if the Master is not one that can seperate the emotion from what is needed by the slave in the form of training. But these are "Masters we are talking about here right" or at least I thought.

I have found in My own and in others M/s relationships that the emotion aspect and content of the relationship is not only healthy but is what is often times NEEDED, especially when both parties are looking to gain and maintain a long term relationship. It stands to reason that a slave will tend to go out of his/her way to do more to,for and with they're Master if they have an emotional connection or even love them. We as Masters speak of a slave serving out of a sense of loyalty,admiration,adoration and respect for Us as the Master, as oppose to serving out of fear reprisal or punishment.

Well all of these reasons are emotional.. What is loyalty? Is it an emotion? And who is loyal to one that they do not harbor any feeling towards? Hmm?

I do however agree that having these strong feeling could have adverse effects as well when the so called Master can be used or manipulated by the slave via those emotions. Some can not properly train,punish,guide or take the needed amount of control when the feelings get involved and for them I would say by all means to NOT get emotionally attached to your slave. I would also that they will never be in a long term committed M/s relationship either.

For the slave to stay and for the Master to want the slave to stay and for the relationship to flourish I think you MUST have an emotional attachment to your slave. I do not think you could truly have the slaves BEST interest at heart and in mind if you do Not truly care for them. You as the Master Have another persons entire life in your hands that they have given over and entrusted you with. That you have taken,and in the process of taking you have also taken resposibility for they're life. To control,conduct,guide,punish,nuture,use,beat,hold keep safe and protect,direct all aspects of anothers existance..How can you responsibly do this on a day to day 24/7 365 basis and not love or have a deep emotional connection to. Love does not equal weakness, like some think. Love..true love between a Master n slave equals an unrivaled strength and a bond that is almost impossible to break.

Dont believe Me? Go check with the slave that truly loves her Master and KNOWS her Master loves her back. Watch the confidence in which she acts and carries herself..the depth to which she will go to please and defend her Master and his views and training methods etc.

Ask the Master that loves his slave dearly and wouldn't trade her for the world. Listen to him as he speaks with pride about his slave and how good she is or how well she serves Him.

You will know them when you see them. They will more than likely have been together a loooong time and work well together and always speak highly of O/one another. SOme will be on they're way to this longterm years to come M/s relationship but the way they are at peace with who they are and what they do and how they FEEL for each other will be obvious.

I dont know about you..but for Me with My slave...LOVE will bind U/us for EVER .... MH

My slave serves Me and serves Me well.  she serves Me out of wanton desire. she not only wants but needs to serve Me. This however was not a given and always this way. I took the time to answer all of her questions, to let her know My expectations of a slave under My rule as well as what that slave could expect from Me as her Master. So she knew full well what to expect and what she was getting into. she didnt just ask Me things about Me but about the lifestyle itself, so that she could gage My answers and know that I was truly knowledgable in MANY aspect of the lifestyle and had training and skills in different areas. My slave respectfully "grilled" Me and all was answered. After some time and many conversations..talking and txting for hours upon hours, My slave felt safe,secure and sure that I was the Master she needed to serve and totally submit to. she grew to respect and admire Master and his intelligence and guidance. she wants and needs to serve Me out of respect and admiration, not fear of retribution or punishment. My salve has earned My respect as her Master, from her diligence and committment to serve and to be more than one who speaks of being a true slave but to actually be that. There is nothing that I have asked,told or commanded her to do that she has not done without hesitation or question. My slave is an extension of Me as her Master and represents Me well even when I am not in her presence. I do not deserve nor get any less respect when I am away as I do when I am with her. This is a true test of loyalty and admiration and she passes with flying colors. My slave is the best slave as she is the best for Me. I shall always have My slaves' best interest at heart and in mind. I willnever punish My slave out of anger or rage..but out of love and a  desire to make her the best she can be. My slave IS My MOST PRIZED POSSESSION and will be treated as such and know that Master feels this way. AS her Master My slave does not have the worries that others in the vanilla may have. My slave is not burdened with having to make decisions other than the ones I allow her to make. she does not have to worry about being upset or angry or hurt or sad as others do..for My slave is made to bring all of her worries and lay them at My feet and Master shal take care of them or tell her how to at the very least. If a Master wants a slave to worry about Him and him alone the He should make sure that she doesent have to have ANY other WORRIES..and being that life still happens and she must still live it, those worries or troubles will not disappear or be dealt with on they're own..so guess what.. Master must take those issues and evaluate the thouroughly and deal with them accordingly with the slaves best interest in mind. This also goes to prove that He is a right and thoughtful Master who deserves the slave that He owns. This Master will not treat My loving and loyal slave with less consideration than I do My car or home..though they too are property that I own..they can NOT bring Me the joy and happyness,mental stimulation,emotional fulfillment and sexual release that My slave can. To this Master there is NO comparison between My slave and My house or My slave and My car or My slave and My pet... No No way. My slave means more,gives more,fulfills more and does more to for and with Me than any of these other things. My slave is good,loving and loyal and has earned and thus deserves the highest honor and consideration that an Owner can give Ones property....PRIZED N VALUED POSSESSION. One can not ow a thing and forget that the thing must be maintained and cared for..the car needs and oil change,tune up,and basic care to keep it running properly..the home has to be painted and insulated cleaned and cared for...you slave needs much more and for all that I know that My slave gives and does for Me...she deserves it and shal have it and some...My loving loyal slave has earned My trust and My love and I shall reign and rule over her for as Long as I shal live for she is My slave..more to come...

                                                                                             M.H

It has come to My attention that many subs may not know or be aware of they're rights as a sub i as far as being in a D/s relationship. As a submissive you are not a slave. Yes I know that many know that but you need to be well informed about negotiations before even play and especially before going as far as being under consideration or collared. In the beginning you should feel free to ask many questions and should expect quick and precise and complete answers to your questions. ask questions about the lifestyle itself..protocol, the importance of different types of training etc.. even if you know or think you already know the answer. The point of this is that his answers will give you insight into the Dom/Dommes experience level ( if any) as well as the intelligence and patience in dealing with and training a new potential sub.

you as the sub have the right and the actual obligation (you owe it to yourself) to ask questions (in a respectful manner) and find out as much as you can about the One you are interested in getting to know and possibly submitting to. you also need to know how they train,correct and punish those under them. Also be sure to discuss safe words and things of the like before getting involved in any scenes,sessions or play of any kind. Know also that you have the right to have HARD LIMITS that are just that hard limits..by definition this means they are not to be pushed, and may not even be up for discussion and the potentail Dom/Domme that you may serve should KNOW and Respect this without exception. This is yet another reason to take your time and ask questions in the beginning, because you may find out ahead of time that you are not a good match. While it is not all about you..it is about you as well as the Dom that you choose to serve. So by all means take your time and get to know as much as you can,and negotiate everything before hand while you can..it is imperative.