MasterBenidict


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	About MasterBenidict As a Master I promise the following: Above all else Master cherishes his submissive, in the knowledge that the gift she gives him is the greatest gift of all. Master is demanding and takes full advantage of the power given to him, but knows how to share the pleasure that comes from that precious gift. He is in control of himself first and foremost, so that he may control others. As a stern and demanding Master, he can cause his submissive to cry real tears. As the consummate lover he will then kiss the tears away, without stepping out of character. In times of trouble, a Master will leave the roles behind, to be a supportive friend and partner, never forgetting that this is still a loving relationship between two caring individuals. He is quick to understand the difference between fantasy and reality. He would never ask a submissive to put him before her career or family, just to satisfy his own pleasure. To win his submissive’s mind, body, spirit, soul and love he knows he must first win her trust. He will show his submissive humor, kindness and warmth. He must always show her that his guidance and tutoring is knowledgeable and deserving of her attention, that this is a man she can learn from, and trust his direction. He is romantic enough to be protective and chivalrous. When called upon, he will fight for his lady’s honor. He proves to her that he is someone she can lean on, and depend on. When it comes time to teach his submissive her lessons of obedience, he is a strong and unyielding professor. He will accept no flaw, nothing les than perfection from his student. Never does he use discipline without a good reason. When he does it is always with a knowledgeable and careful hand. He is always open to communication and discussion, always ready to hear her wants and needs. He is patient, taking time to learn her limits, and knowing that as her trust of him, grows so will they. He never has to demand ritual behavior by her. She responds to him out of the wants of pleasing him. Compliance comes from the wanting to please, not the fear of punishment. He understands the fragile nature of mind and body and never violates the trust given to him. He is secure to laugh at himself and the absurdities of life. Open minded enough to learn new things. Strong enough to grow. His tools are mind, body, spirit, soul and love. He understands that each partner gains most from pleasuring the other. And both of them knows that love and trust are he only binding that truly hold. I seek to find a partner and friend who enjoys the lifestyle as much as I do. Please be true to yourself and me. Leave me an Email stating your request (submissive or slave) and desire. I welcome newbies to ask questions or concerns about the lifestyle. Warm regards, MasterBenidict

If you say live in New York and do not NOW, CURRENTLY, TEMPORARILY or OTHER, change your profile before making contact with me.

Besides making you look like an idiot, your misrepresenting yourself and breaking my ability to trust you from the get go.

I am not nor will I ever go back and use YAHOO to contact anyone. Sorry about that. I have AOL and CM here - That's It.

Any slaves or submissives from outside the USA will need to submit to a complete background and fingerprint check at your expense before I will bring you over here. Once I recieve an authenticated copy of the background and fingerprint check. Then will I send for you over here. Good Luck. MB

Love bondage.. spankings..but really, the key to my submission is feet, shoes, that's the stuff that gets me...

lol.. I'm more of an Air America fan... maybe you can make me listen to Beck as I lick your feet.. that's my big fetish

I loved your profile.. would like to know more.. also, I would love to see better pics of you..

you profile was moving, i wish more Doms thought like you do! good luck

People listen up!!!

This is not MATCH.COM, or E-HARMONY or any other type of dating/match making service here. This is COLLARME.COM. The largest BDSM web site to meet like minded people involved in the D/s lifestyle or BDSM.

Please stop putting your profile on here as a sub or slave any put noithing about the D/s lifestyle here.

If your not into pain then indicate that your want nothing more than to be a sex slave or something that would justify you being here seeking a partner in the BDSM community.

But don't leave the interest section blank and fill in the you want to go clubbing, beach combing, movies, etc and list no lifestyle interests.

It totally voids the reason for being here in the first place.

Secondly, the people who are stranded in some third world country but you live in the USA on your profile. GET A LIFE.

If you can't be honest from the get go then don't bother asking some to sponsor you when you really don't live where you say you live. The trust factor just went out the window with me.

OK - I am through ranting for today. You can resume your spankings now.

Regards,

Sir J

While I have been reading posts on people's profiles here about being obese and fake Dom's - the real story is that many profiles after sifting through all the garbage here are really genuine people interested in meeting like minded people who are seeking a relationship that involves BDSM and/or the D/s lifestyle of some kind and level.

When people invite to friends or add to favorites they could at the very least indicate that they are not intersted and to please move along with your search.

That would be the best thing people can do so that they can add that profile name to kind of do not call list.

Thank you for your time and interest. Have a nice day. Warm regards.

Sir J

Hello, i just read your quick profile and find it most refreshing...it was a pleasure to read. You reignited my faith in true Masters, and whomever is fortunate enough to grow under your direction will know love and security...i wish you all well in your future endeavors

Why is it that people are here that are seeking a LTR for friendship but say nothing about the lifestyle that is the primary focus of this web site.
Then you have the people who you send a quick note to and don't even write back - like thanks but not seeking right now or under consideration - something.
Then there are those who make judgement on your profile and don't even know you, yet they complain that there is no one here that is real and decent after you have attempted to make contact with them.
What I want to know is - where are the real plain janes who just want to be loved and spanked?
Can anyone tell me? Drop me a line or two.
Regards,
Sir J

very nice profile..thank you :)

It's been awhile since I have recieved any good, positive responses. I guess the nice weather is here and all the submissives and slaves are out in the fields tending to their Masters gardening chores or cleaning their boots off after a long ride on the horses while they are pulling the carts behind them. We'll if anyone reads this and wants to jot some thoughts my way - Please feeel free to do so. Keep it Real and Keep it Safe. Warm regards. Master Benidict

Your profile reveals a man with a very good understanding of what the whole D/s relationship is about. I am a natural submissive, I have lived the lifestyle in one form or another since the age of 18, before I knew it was a lifestyle. Gloria Steinem and her cohorts certainly confused the issues for me back in my formative years by telling women that it was wrong to feel the way I felt and that we had to squash those feelings of wanting to serve. The end result for me was that I became a very strong and independent woman in my day to day dealings, someone you would not want to tangle with in a boardroom, a woman who walks into a room with enough confidence to make men's heads turn and they don't even know why they are looking. When I step away from all that, I want nothing more than to hand over the reins to someone I trust implicitly. Someone who will take me out of the rat race and to my inner quiet spot while we enjoy a mutually gratifying physical encounter. I am not content in a relationship unless I know I am giving 110% and it is well received.

I am real.

It was very refreshing to read a profile from someone who knows what this all is about. The changes in the lifetsyle over the last eight yrs is astounding. More and more people jump on the bandwagon looking for excitement and cheap thrills. None have a clue that this is a serious committed relationship based on trust, honesty, committment, and mutual respect.Plus, I DO have a brain and use it often! It takes time to build what starts as a friendship between two lifetsylers who have connected through their minds and then both decide to take further steps to be more. When it is right, it is an intense bond mind, body and soul. I do not go off and "play". I believe in being owned and cherished. I have respect for myself and what I can provide for the right Master. In return he can be proud of me being his submissive. Thanks for reminding me there ARE some who "get it" still out there.

I loved the entry where the sub demanded certain water, foods and supplies, LOL. I think the most I have ever requested was water and aftercare. It also bewilders me as to how women degrade themselves by saying things in profiles such as they swallow, are sluts, bitches, whores etc. I did love your profile, it was well written , sincere and honest. Many men here and in general seem to lose sight of the fact that we are women first. Some of us are moms, sisters, aunts etc., and we have other priorities besides our partners. It is the delicate balance of both lives between 2 people that allows for such things as trust, love and honour to build. Dealing with some of the people here on Collarme can be nervewracking but hidden in the cracks are some real gems.

Sir,

i have to admit that i am really drawn to Your profile. You seem intellegent, articulate, and sure of what You want and how to go about getting it.

As for Your journal entries, it is nice to know that i am not the only one who things playing on the first date is absurd. Although for me the reasons are many as to why i don't partake of that particular activity.

As for the laundry list of what a sub wants before play, isn't that up to the Dominant what is used and how?

Again thank You for the great read,

roxanne

This note is simply to commend you for your greatness and does not require a response.

Happy Day to you, Master Benidict!
Your profile and journal are very refreshing to read. I am impressed by the way you discuss the need for self control to be able to control others. That is the first necessary characteristic for a dominant person to have, and truly is what separates the dominant from the submissive. You have hit the nail right on the head.
And as for those who expect a play date immediately- they certainly are way too pushy and way too fast. I had a sub ask me for a date in the first line of his first message to me. When I wrote him back (out of courtesy) to let him know he was too pushy and I go slowly to establish a connection with a submissive, he had the audacity to accuse me of not being a real domme. Unbelievable! Anyway, thank you for being a real, capable and intelligent master on collarme. You make me feel much less alone!
Have a great new year,
Ms. T

The amount of wannabees here is ridiculous.

Not too mention the slaves and submssives with a telephone book of issues before they engage in any type of play.

PELLOGRINO is not a Masters job to supply during play nor is Noxema, Jello, Bananas, Strawberries, Slippers, Socks, Panty Hose, Nail polish remover, Etc.

I mean come on - Give Us a Break.

Maybe after several scenes the Sir can cut you some slack but not the first, second or third scene session.

Thank you.

MB

What's wrong with people today. Don t they realize that they just can't place a message with a Master and expcet him to invite you back to his house to play the next day. I really don't care if you swallow or not, like extreme nipple torture or vagina clamps. The fact is the process in this lifestyle needs to move slow, so that trust can be established between both parties interested
So maybe the next person who writes to me I should expect that they invite me to play with them the next day regardless of the fact that we have spoken online for just a couple of hours. HHMMM!! Kind of makes you wonder?
Keep those cards and letters coming. I will respond to all parties at some point.
Master Benidict

Well, my listing is going well and getting many curious individuals saying they like my promise and how I seem to have it together.
A Master needs to have his life together before he can lead someone else.
Thanks for the comments. Good Luck in your search.
MasterBenidict

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