MasterA2009

About Me...


I spent 15 years in Military so that is where I started my training.
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Let me begin by paraphrasing Khalil Gibran by saying that as a dominant I do not bid you to enter into my sphere of dominance because of me; rather, you enter solely because of you and because you want to be lead to the understanding of your own submissive mind.
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I do not believe in double standards and much believe in safe words and adhere to your limits unless you want them pushed. TRUST has no price. while you are bound and in safe hands. I like to Tease, torment, frustrate(get you close and back off)you before your release. Close your eyes and picture it. :-)
Besides the above, I'm a very courteous and tender Man in real life. I am NOT a dark master type at all and much enjoy being very close and intimate.
I also mean what I say or I simply don't say it.....I'm real and don't play games :)
I am a single romantic experienced dominant looking to meet a sub/slave woman for a sub/slave relationship.
The woman I am searching for should be a natural woman to start with and is comfortable being one. A woman who can be feminine and a lady when she is out in the real world and a submissive/slave otherwise. A woman who is a bit tomboyish and enjoys life and is not a fanatic about everything being so perfect that she misses out on the pleasures of living.
If two people are going to adore each other, be friends or partners and do all sorts of nice things together wouldn't it start with getting to know one another first. How can one just jump into a fast-food type of relationship which most likely is empty and has no substance in the first place?
The process of building a solid relationship is a long process and it cannot be hurried. So if you are impatient to start with it is best that you do not enter into this process at all.
Communication as in any relationship is extremely important and it does have to be a two way street.
Communication builds trust and trust is the foundation to this type relationship. Without one or the other then it tends to be a weak foundation.
To endure something for the perverse pleasure of the person you love is quite exquisite. I seek one who�s desire to please is so great, she is willing to suffer for my pleasure, to be by my side as my affectionate slave, to use as I please, to be protected and possessed.
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I think it is important, that I define what I seek.
On the outside I want someone that is smart, sexy, sensual and funny. She needs to be well grounded in the Nilla world on the outside. However, a true slut/cocktoy, bitch in heat in the bedroom and around the house!
If she is bi- thats ok. I am extremely kinky,open minded and experimental when its comes to playtime.�
I enjoy a girl that can challenge me as a Man, a DOM, and Daddy. I am bored easily, and need someone with just as kinky/creative an active mind as mine.
In the bedroom or durning playtime I cant tolerate laziness or lack of sexual desire or imagination. I want someone that wants to keep up!
Again I understand reality and putting our first priorities before play! I just expect you to be as anxious to play as I am and the second a opportunity presents it's self take advantage of that.
Not always waiting for the "perfect" time or place or sitaution. I enjoy spur of the moment kind of play vs. the planned out "date" time.

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This relationship will be far more than just sex and pain. You will take pride in your servitude and cherish ownership; devoting your love and life to me.
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I do not care whether you label yourself as a slave or sub; everyone has their own ideas as to the precise definition of each label. What I care about is if you are willing to relinquish control, submit to my desires, suffer for my pleasure and serve me in a committed, long term and hopefully permanent relationship.
I am looking for someone who needs structure and wants to be well cared for. One who will be receptive to and enjoy romance and affection. I am a very tactile person and enjoy touching and being touched. Someone physically and emotionally clingy as I would love to feel needed. Outside of the house we will appear vanilla but there will be little things that I do to remind you of your position while in public, like holding your wrist instead of you hand, a gaze, a hand cue or something else discreet.
Submission must be complete and total. Submission of your mind is more important than your body. You should be able to be emotionally engaged in the relationship, not disassociated from your body. Without your mind your body is nothing but a warm doll.
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You must want to learn about me and more importantly about yourself so that we may grow in our relationship. Learn to accept the duality of your nature; being owned as property and yet being very well cared for by her Master. You will also understand and accept my duality well; my need for love and affection contrasted with my sadistic needs of making you suffer physically.
I am strict but not unreasonable, correcting on the spot for minor indiscretion (grabbing her hair for a verbal warning, or an OTK spanking). At times you will simply be used to satisfy my sexual needs. Most of the time you will satisfy my need for affection. I would just as soon have you curl up on my lap to watch a movie as I would use you. There will be times when I will need to make you suffer pain and humiliation for my own satisfaction.
I would like someone who would like to be tossed about, physically and mentally dominated. You will be required to be obedient and submissive in public though I will not subject you to abject public humiliation. Though when around understanding friends your submission will be far more evident.
I desire a woman who loves to please. You should be selfless and in touch with your emotions and able to express them without hesitation. You will tell me all your needs, desires and fantasies, no matter how dark, twisted or embarrassed they make you feel; and I will take time to address them one by one so I may more effectively care and provide for you.
I am emotionally stable albeit somewhat sensitive. I seem to have my feelings hurt more easily than others. I am financially stable and have a good career with a good company. I don�t go out for the sake of going out, It has always been difficult to speak in politically correct terms. Sometimes this bluntness can come across as cruel or at least undiplomatic
I am very self sufficient. I enjoy working on my house, car, motorcycle and cooking my own meals; even bread.
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The Self discovery of my true Self happened long ago when I was in college. Believe it or not it was a sub that told me I was a DOM and opened my eyes to the lifestyle.
Back then I thought I was alone in the things I like to do...I guess Im not!! thats a good thing.
Just be real, be upfront, and you will get the same from me! I am not here to waste your time so do not waste mine!
If you think we might, have things in common, please feel free to contract Me and say Hi...I dont bite that MUCH!
Even tho I have described what I seek, Im always open to chatting with any subs and slaves about the lifestyle and making new friends.

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