masochisticj

I'm new here, and I'm sure I will add more to this profile very soon. I'm a 25 year old grad student in Boston. I've been thinking and fantasizing about the BDSM lifestyle for as long as I can remember, but have only begun actively participating very recently. In general, I'm into any rough, masochistic, boundary-pushing sexual experience. In many ways, I am submissive; I particularly enjoy corporal punishment and I love humiliation. But I am also very happy with a mutually rough and kinky, give-and-take sexual experience. I probably would not call myself a switch, because I do not go into full Dom mode. I enjoy submitting as well as being a top in some situations like spanking, hair pulling, and other rough fun.

However, in a D/s relationship or scene I am much more a sub. I am always looking for someone to serve and worship.

I'm much more into the mental and emotional aspects of the scene than actual bondage. I'm still figuring out exactly what I'm looking for, but right now it seems that what I'm seeking in an experience is, above all else, an intense psychological element.

I am happily married, but I am in need of a sort of outlet. My spouse is aware of and OK with me looking for such an outlset I very much hope to meet someone here, please feel free to send me an e-mail. I'm looking for a friend, play partner, or perhaps both.

I am a student of philosophy, with a passion for books, conversation, food and drink, music and kink.