majordom27

Change Begins With Choice:-

If we want to receive the rewards the future holds in trust for us,
then we must exercise the most important choice given to us as members of the human race by maintaining total dominion over our fantasies.
Our desires are an asset, a treasure of great value, which must be protected accordingly.

Beware of the vandals and thieves among us who would injure our freedoms or seek to steal it away.

Having the right attitude is one of the basics that living the lifestyle requires.
The combination of a sound personal philosophy and a positive attitude about ourselves and the world around us gives us an inner strength and a firm resolve that influences all the other areas of not only our sexuallity, but indeed our very existence.

 I will not let society or any person deprive me of the right to explore my sexuality as I see fit !!!

If you care at all about yourselves & the fulfillment of your Kink lifestyle, then you must accept full responsibility for your own feelings & desires.

You must learn to guard against those feelings that have the capacity to lead your attitude down the path of ennui & blankness,

Strengthen those feelings that lead you confidently onto a better future filled with Fulfillment and abandonment. Be a Libertine!

No one else makes you the way you are, YOU make yourself what you want to be.

Others can only take control of you when you surrender control of your attitude to them. A true Master will awaken that in you, not try to force you.

What someone else may have done is irrelevant. You both choose, not one or the other. It is a mutual argeement based on Love, Trust, Discipline & Commitment with each side knowning their rolls & responsibilities.

If you select a volatile attitude by becoming hostile, angry, jealous or suspicious, then you have failed the test. If you condemn yourselves by believing that you are unworthy, then again, you have failed. This is why the Dom/Sub match is such a beautiful thing. Fuller and richer then any other relationship with it's needs & desires to be met.

We can choose to do nothing. We can pretend rather than perform. And if the idea of having to change ourselves makes us uncomfortable, we can remain as we are...

We can choose Vanilla over Expression, Ennui over excitement, delusion over truth, and doubt over confidence. The choices are ours to make.
As Shakespeare uniquely observed...
"The fault is not in the stars, but in ourselves."

We created our circumstances by our past choices. We have both the ability and the responsibility to make better choices beginning today.
Those who are in search of the BDSM life do not need more answers or more time to think things over to reach better conclusions.
They need the truth. They need the whole truth. And they need nothing but the truth,

so help them Dom... LOL 

Any day you wish; you can discipline yourself to change it all.

Any day you wish; you can open yourself more and more to the Lifestyle... this will open your mind to new knowledge, let yourself feel new desires & and less limitations.

Any day you wish; you can try a new activity that has always secretly excited you...

Any day you wish; you can start the process of life change. You can do it immediately, or next week, or next month, or next year.

Just know once you make that decission. You are not alone... There is a whole new world, A loving and organized community there to support and help you in your endovours...

We cannot allow our errors in judgment, repeated every day, to lead us down the wrong path.
We must keep coming back to those basics that make the biggest difference in how our life and that keeps us sane.

To stay Vanilla or to explore our hidden desires...

We must make the very choices that will bring life, happiness and joy into our daily lives. Everyone has secrets...

Some choose to act on them, others to supress them... and then there are those who let theirs truely define themselves as an individual.

Each of us has two distinct choices to make about what we will do with our lives.

The first choice we can make is to be less than we have the
capacity to be. To create less. To have less. To read less and think less. To try less and discipline ourselves less. These are the choices that lead
to an empty life.

These are the choices that, once made, lead to a life of constant apprehension instead of a life of wondrous anticipation.

And the second choice?...

To do it all! To become all that we can possibly be. To read every book that we possibly can. To earn as much as we possibly can. To give
and share as much as we possibly can. To strive and produce and accomplish as much as we possibly can.

All of us have the choice.

To do or not to do. To be or not to be. To be all or to be less or to be nothing at all.

REMEMBER... "ACTION CURES FEAR"

Advice is what you ask for when you already know the answer, but wish you didn't.... LOL