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Hetero Female Dominant, 46,  Southern Tier, New York
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I am a Dominant female seeking submissives for my stable. I am also seeking someone special with whom I can have a relationship with that will cross the boundries between vanilla and kink. This someone would be capable of transitioning from being on their knees in lace panties and calling me Mistress and/or Goddess to being my escort at vanilla events with no one the wiser as to the real relationship that we have. I am not in any hurry to rush a budding relationship. I feel that in order to effectively play with you, I need to get into your head. I am going to accomplish getting into your head by becomming your friend. I am not looking to fall in love, I just want to have someone fun to play with and share a friendship. If and when love happens, that will be dealt with at the time. I want my submissive to be educated, articulate, open minded and eager to explore. Excellent oral skills are a must as I enjoy having my ass kissed both literally and figuratively ~grins~ life is good! A trusted long time submissive described me as having an unusual combination of brains, passion, dominance and incredible strength. He said that he is intimidated when my eyes get the glazed over crazed look when we are playing and that he never knows what to expect then ... I have been physically described as having a plush body and the terms beautiful, cute, attractive and pretty have been used to describe my looks. I believe that sexy is a state of mind and that no matter what your body type is, one can be sexy. Sexy describes me to a T ... I don't put a face picture on this site for privacy purposes. If you have a hard and fast rule about not meeting anyone until you see a face pic, then I suggest that you move on and don't waste either of our time.












 Dominant Female

 Southern Tier 

 New York

 5' 5"

 260 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female

Male slave/sub

Switch Male

 Lives For:

 You worshiping my body

 You worshiping my breasts

 Disciplining your private parts

 Complete control of your orgasms



 Eighties Music


 You begging

 Blindfolding you

 Tying you up

 Disciplining you with a cane

 Keeping you permanently locked in tamper evident chastity

 Collaring you

 You massaging me


 You at the end of my leash (Beginner)

 Placing you in masks

 Mental Bondage

 Training you to be completely
obedient to me and only me

 You servicing me with your mouth

 Plastic Wrap Bondage

 Sensory Play

 Spanking you


 Rock Music




 Feminizing you

 You kissing my feet


 Hair Pulling


 Wearing masks

 Sensation Play

 You needing permission to speak

 Heavy Metal Music

 Seventies Music


 Massage (Giving) (Beginner)

 Nineties Music

 Curious About:

 Electrical Play

 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Local BDSM Community

 Rear End Play

 Erotic touch

 Medical fetish play


 Outdoor Bondage

 Role Playing





 Public Play

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Journal Entries:
1/22/2012 6:58:13 AM

The Debriefing


I always tell my submissive that after we play I want a debriefing from them so that I know what worked and what didn't.  Most are just a general, "Mistress I had a great time and everything was wonderful" type of debriefing.  This subbies debriefing was just too hot not to share.  Enjoy ...
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Greetings Mistress,
Our “first” play date after a long hiatus was absolutely fantastic. I am so glad as your sub that I was capable of bringing you to several “strong” orgasms with my mouth. That is very important for both of us. I absolutely adore the smell and taste of your pussy / crotch. The more juice you produce the better!!!!
The head harness was an interesting twist. Apparently, utilized somewhat to see if I trusted you. Also provided excellent control of my head. The fact that I couldn’t see certainly enhanced the other senses and added to the mystery and apprehension of what you were up to and what was coming next. For instance I could not see you spitting in my mouth. Only feel you spitting in my mouth. In some respects I think that made the acceptance of the humiliation of being spit on / in easier. Hopefully you liked spitting in my mouth and would encourage you to utilize it more.
The highlight of our play date was listening to you pee in the toilet and then being summoned to lick you clean. Absolutely fantastic!!!! I couldn’t wait to follow your commands and smell and taste your delicious pee. And then when you turned around and commanded me to lick your asshole clean as well. Well, that was supersonic. The fact that you had just got off the toilet and were leaning over the bowl commanding me to lick your asshole just added to the naughtiness. You have such a nice ass and asshole. With the head harness on, I could not see anything, but boy could my tongue feel the rim of your sphincter muscle. It was such a pleasure to run my tongue around the ring and try to penetrate it. You have such a beautiful ass that deserves to be worshiped on a regular basis. And Mistress as usual had her ass sparkling clean!!
And the corporal discipline was great too. I wasn’t sure how I would measure up there. I don’t know how many different implements you used. However, I very much enjoyed the stimulation. I look forward to exploring that more. I am pretty sure I can take a lot more pain. I don’t know how rough you were on me in comparison to other subs??? But I certainly want to measure up to your expectations.
Getting kicked in the balls was another highlight. I wasn’t sure if you would actually follow through and kick me in the balls if I suggested it. And I am so proud of you, as you weren’t timid about it in the least. And talk about trust Mistress. It takes a lot of trust to allow another person to do that. I very much enjoyed getting kicked in the balls and hope you enjoyed it to. Having the balls hang loose might be safer and it makes them more visible so that you can hit the target. My balls are your balls Mistress. You are more than welcome to punch them kick them, etc. I hope my facial expressions, grunts, etc., and pain have an arousing effect on you!!!??
The combination of your panties draped over my head with the crotch positioned so I could smell your lovely fragrance was awesome. Combined with fucking you with the banana and eating the banana covered with your delicious juices provided a flavor explosion. I was getting a nice strong smell of your scent while tasting you!!!!! You are such a creative Mistress!!!
In retrospect, I tend to think on more than one occasion you were seeking guidance from me. I certainly don’t want to Top from the bottom. Nor do I ever want to be accused of it being about my fantasies. It is certainly about Mistress getting what she wants.
But I should have jumped at the chance on more than one occasion to encourage you to piss on me and use me as a urinal. When you asked me if I wanted some refreshments, I should have said yes. Absolutely. I certainly wanted to and would have done it. But I certainly do not want to encroach on your desires. And as Mistress says it leaves something for next time. And there is much to explore!!!!

10/28/2011 8:26:38 PM
He was drawn to her like a moth to a flame ...
He was drawn to her, like a moth to a flame feeling that if he got too close, like the moth and the flame, he would incinerate.  He knew this was not literally true and every time he approached her he dared to go further.  Every time he would get a little bit closer to the flame and then he would run away.  She knew that he would eventually be back because they always came back ...
She was like a fever running through his blood, causing him to lose the tight control that he kept on his emotions.  He liked to tell people that his ex wife got custody of his feelings in their divorce years ago.  He thought of himself as the Ice Man, all cool and in control all the time.  He wasn't ready to admit what he felt when he thought about her - lust, it was pure LUST!!!  Like the moth drawn to the flame, he just couldn't stay away!
He liked the way she talked to him, like he really didn't matter.  It was all about her and she made no bones about it.  He liked that, it being all about her.  Her ecstasy, her pleasure, her with the total control.  The thought turned him on so much and yet made his balls shrink with fear when he let them rule his life.  He was afraid of the unknown, afraid of what she was going to have him do, and afraid that he was going to love it and want more.  What would that say about him and his masculinity? 
She knew that he would eventually be back because they always came back ...

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