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Male Dominant, 25
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Male Switch, 21, Sacramento, California
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About madhatter
Yearning, as I am?
Healthy, wealthy and wise gentleman is seeking that special woman who embraces her submissive nature and yearns (as I do) for what a deep, rich D/s relationship has to offer.
I'm well-versed in and thrive on most aspects of D/s, and tend to avoid extreme SM and edgeplay. I'm intelligent, fit, deep brown eyes, broad shoulders, love to laugh (even at myself) and am a hopeless romantic who's willing to spoil, lavish (and ravish) that special someone. Creative, compassionate and caring and yet uncompromising, demanding and very comfortable in my own Dominant "skin".
It's been well over a dozen years since my first experience with a true "Gift" of submission, and, Oh, if I only knew then what I know now! I have come to the understanding that as a Dom I am nothing without holding the offer of the "Gift". I believe it is incumbent on the Dom to prove worthiness, and would ask nothing more than the chance to prove myself worthy over time. My view of a D/s relationship is that of a two-way street, uncompromisingly symbiotic, one of give and take (guess who gives and guess who takes?!).
I find it distressing that during my first few days on the Collarme site to read of the frustration experienced by so many fem/subs. The question becomes "how does one - especially a male/Dom - differentiate himself from the swarm of dishonest/deceitful trolling-player-wannabes etc?" I'm looking forward the answers. I have no interest in polyamory or "owning" more than one, or sharing. The "Gift" will be mine, all mine.
I am a self-employed professional, and travel across the continent regularly. Strange as it may seem, I am willing to relocate. Why let the mere breadth of the continent get in the way of the taste the "Gift" ... |
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after spending considerable time writing and sending off what are some pretty decent emails (polite, informative, reflective of recipient), I can see that people read them and yet do not bother acknowledging or replying ... and I thought only Doms had the reputation of being rude and inconsiderate
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I was hoping to have my face posted on my profile long before now ... ah, well, patience is a virtue ... I'd better practice what I preach |
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