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madetoserveu

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Male Submissive, 40
Male Submissive, 56, Port Jervis, New York
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madetoserveu - Female Submissive, NW Burbs of Chi Illinois | BDSM Profile on Collarspace

madetoserveu - Female Submissive, NW Burbs of Chi Illinois | BDSM Profile on Collarspace - photo 1
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About madetoserveu

Uncovered my submissive side about 10 years ago, since then it's been an adventure to say the least. I've had all levels of relationships from play partners to full time 24/7 M/s to time away from this all. I am looking for a relationship where the D/s ebbs and flows through all aspects. I am a strong woman who knows what she needs, a man who's will is stronger than my own. Who bends me to his desires and cherishes the special relationship we have. Labels help us know whether or not someone fits what we are looking for and I float between sub or slave depending on your defintion. I've spent time living in a traditional 50's style household. I've dabbled in "edge play"; cutting, fire, needles, breath. I want to find the man who I complete through my service to him and who can complete me in turn.

I am completely capable of taking care of myself, have a successful career and am financially stable. The more I look at it though these are things I would happily trade for the right man.

Is a slave without a Master really a slave?

Scammers...oh lord how I love dealing with scammers...this one was good, I've got to give him a little credit (but just a little).

 

Profile showed very nice looking guy, early 40's, exhanged a few messages and start talking on IM.  Tells me he is a solider overseas coming home in a few months..Starts talking about love and family and blah blah blah...Hey I listen, I figured I'm not doing much could be a lonely solider just looking to talk.

 

And then BAM!  Today, after 3 or 4 online exhances over the past few days, he says he wants to talk on the phone but do to so I would have to pass a security clearance and it's going to cost me $350....nope not happening...I tell him I can't afford that and will just have to continue with IM or email or he can pay for it :)  He says no problem...and that's it...no more IM's and his profile here has conviently disasppeared :)  Go figure.

 

Ladies and gentleman out there be careful the scammers are everywhere and now it seems they are low enough to impersonate soliders.

 

 

okay mini rant...i am getting very annoyed when i start a "conversation" on CM with someone and then all of a sudden they no longer have an active profile...wtf?  this has happened 5 times in the last few weeks, is CM just being a snot? 

management decided another clarification was necessary since the addition of the kinky pic to my profile.  if a one or two word sentence email is sent and you didn't even view my profile, email will be deleted.  also not interested in playing the whole who has the most friends game and not accepting your friend request unless we've met IRL.

thanks!

   ~the management

Another clarification

     poly is listed as curious because i have limited exposure to it and would consider it in the right relationship if i am the alpha, but not interested in joining an already established relationship.

thank you

~the management

Okay another clarification

I will relocate...eventually...after a relationship has developed, grown and become permanent.

So that being said, if your more than about a 6 hour drive from me it's probably not going to work.  I want to be able to develop that relationship before I would consider uprooting my life.  Been there, done that, got the t-shirt and the wounds to prove it.

thanks!
~the management
Found a poem I forgot about that I love by Shakespeare

 

"Being Your Slave"

Being your slave, what should I do but tend
Upon the hours and times of your desire?
I have no precious time at all to spend,
Nor services to do, till you require.
Nor dare I chide the world-without-end hour
Whilst I, my sovereign, watch the clock for you,
Nor think the bitterness of absence sour
When you have bid your servant once adieu;
Nor dare I question with my jealous thought
Where you may be, or your affairs suppose,
But, like a sad slave, stay and think of nought
Save, where you are how happy you make those!
    So true a fool is love, that in your Will,
    Though you do any thing, he thinks no ill.

Another little piece of information about me and what I am looking for...i want a relationship that has the possibility of developing into a serious committed LTR...ulitmately i want a best friend, lover, dominate, boyfriend, Master all wrapped up in one relationship...that being said if you are married then I suggest you not waste your time contacting me as that type of relationship is not possible if you are already married.


Thank you for your interest
        :) managment

I find it interesting how many men on here complain about all the fakes yet when they get a real message don't take the time to at least say "no thanks"

To everyone that does, "thank you!"
A friend told me this formula as a guideline for finding the age of the youngest person you should date...take your age, divide it by two and then add seven...so at 31 the youngest for me would be 23-24.  And conversely a 48 year old would go as young as my age, 31.

Now for some age is just a number but for me it is important...so keep this formula in mind before contacting me as I do not want to waste anyone's time.
While I've never really read much about Gorean and only have a very basic general knowledge I read the Kajira Prayer today and it spoke to me so I wanted to share.

Allow this humble girl the strength to answer questions she cannot fathom,
Allow this girl the spirit to know His needs,
Allow this girl the serenity to serve Him in peace,
Allow this girl the love to show Him herself,
Allow this girl the tenderness to comfort Him,
Allow this girl the light to show us the way,
Allow this girl the wisdom to be an asset to Him.
Let this girl be able to show Him each day her love of her service to Him,
Let this girl open herself up to completely belong to Him,
Let this girl accept her punishment with the grace of a woman,
Let this girl learn to please Him, beyond herself.
Grant this girl the power to give herself to Him completely,
Give this girl the strength to please us both.
Permit this girl to love herself, in loving Him,
For it is this humble girls greatest wish, this one's highest power to make,
His life all that He dreams it could be
why is it that some people seem to be so offended or angry that i say thank you for your interest but no.  i feel everyone deserves a response but if i keep getting mean or rude ones back i am going to have to think about changing that viewpoint.

So after 1 day on CM i realize that i need to add some details so i don't waste anyone's time.

If you are biologically old enough to be my father i am not interested.

While i am open to poly at this time i am not looking to join a poly household.

i have a full time job and other commitments so unless you are in reasonable driving distance for a weekend trip or are willing to come to me then it may be hard to develop a relationship.

Thank you for you interest!
     -managment :)

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